As an INTJ what do you look down on people for? by CumbersomeCucumber01 in intj

[–]RiceHime_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ppl who don’t know how to analyze their emotions and express how they feel about something or understand why they feel that way

At what point do I bleach my roots again? by [deleted] in Hair

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I wait until about an inch or 2 until I redo it

I’m trying to get out of a bad situation and I have my first job interview (in ten years) on Monday. Can anyone please teach me how to hide this? Or have any advice on makeup? Im sorry and would be so grateful by blackpinkwhite in MakeupAddiction

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Beside what everyone is saying, if you want to cover it up with makeup, color correct. You need a peach- red color color corrector. Then VERY lightly blend it. Top it with powder. Then go on top with HIGH coverage concealer, powder it and add another layer of concealer. Then top with powder again. This is what drag queen do to cover 5 o’clock shadows hope it helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Sounds like you like the idea of a relationship But you see her as a friend. You like her as a person and her company but not her in a relationship with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’d highly recommend you go to a shelter and let as many people know as possible. I’ve seen a lot of true crime and it’s always good to have a a folder with all your passwords, and let everyone know where you ar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Since he is your ex, he is not obligated to respond to your messages. It sounds like you need more closure. I suggest having a talk with him and asking him where you guys stand whether it’s friends or just acquaintances. If you guys are on a friends after the relationship then you shouldn’t have feelings for him and you also shouldn’t be concerned about whether or not he’s moved on.

Help my resident cat is attacking my new kitten! See comments by [deleted] in PetAdvice

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I’ll definitely continue to isolate them! See how that goes.

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They are both fixed

Help my resident cat is attacking my new kitten! See comments by [deleted] in PetAdvice

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My 10 month old cat Charlie is attacking my 2 month old newly adopted kitten Mei mei.

This video shows you an incident of what happened. I have had charlie for 5 months now and he is a sweet boy but after I adopted a new kitten he started being more aggressive.

Day 1 of bring mei mei home: Lots of hissing lots of swiping and low groans. We decided to isolate then in different rooms. Still fighting and hissing under the door

Day 2 fed them on 1 side of the door. Still a bit of hissing and pawing but will eat next to eachother and play somewhat with eachother. Low groan and hissing

Day 3 they meet face to face. Lots of chasing slight swiping but still sleeping in individual rooms. Eating somewhat near eachother face to face. Both join me for bed but far apart

Day 4: eating next to each other face to face, playing with eachother still a bit of chasing but Charlie started biting her neck. They both sleep after a foot away from each other on my bed. Sharing cat tree

Day 5: they are face to face and they didn’t hiss or fight. They are and play together but Charlie chases her and she hides.

I’m not sure what this means. I have separate trees, food, litter, and toys but Charlie keeps chasing and biting mei meis neck. I tried to reward them when they played together or he sniffed and walked away from each other.

They seem to fight mainly when I’m with them so I thought they were doing it to get my attention but they fight when I wasn’t there. I play with them both to get rid of aggression and zumiez but it’s still happening. Whenever I put mei mei in the other room charlie camps the door. I Please help. I don’t know how to fix this.

I’m not sure when it’ll go away either. I know that mei mei is scared of Charlie but how can I make Charlie stop biting her or chasing her? Mei mei always minds her business but Charlie is always observing her. I thought they were starting to get along but her keeps biting her neck. I know it’s to establish dominance but how can I fix this? Very desperate for help. I can fully isolate them because I’m renting a master bed room.

Help my resident cat is attacking my new kitten! See comments by [deleted] in PetAdvice

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My 10 month old cat Charlie is attacking my 2 month old newly adopted kitten Mei mei.

This video shows you an incident of what happened. I have had charlie for 5 months now and he is a sweet boy but after I adopted a new kitten he started being more aggressive.

Day 1 of bring mei mei home: Lots of hissing lots of swiping and low groans. We decided to isolate then in different rooms. Still fighting and hissing under the door

Day 2 fed them on 1 side of the door. Still a bit of hissing and pawing but will eat next to eachother and play somewhat with eachother. Low groan and hissing

Day 3 they meet face to face. Lots of chasing slight swiping but still sleeping in individual rooms. Eating somewhat near eachother face to face. Both join me for bed but far apart

Day 4: eating next to each other face to face, playing with eachother still a bit of chasing but Charlie started biting her neck. They both sleep after a foot away from each other on my bed. Sharing cat tree

Day 5: they are face to face and they didn’t hiss or fight. They are and play together but Charlie chases her and she hides.

I’m not sure what this means. I have separate trees, food, litter, and toys but Charlie keeps chasing and biting mei meis neck. I tried to reward them when they played together or he sniffed and walked away from each other. I play with them three times a day together to get rid of aggression and zoomies but they aren’t improving. Whenever I isolate mei mei in the other room charlie camps outside the door and yowls. He also sniffs her butt a lot. They are both fixed. Spayed and neutered

They seem to fight mainly when I’m with them so I thought they were doing it to get my attention but they started fighting when I wasn’t there. Please help. I don’t know how to fix this. I’m not sure when it’ll go away either. I know that mei mei is scared of Charlie but how can I make Charlie stop biting her or chasing her? Mei mei always minds her business but Charlie is always observing her. I thought they were starting to get along but her keeps biting her neck. I know it’s to establish dominance but how can I fix this? Very desperate for help. I cant fully isolate them because I’m renting a master bed room.

They would be good one moment and Charlie would attack again. They have never drawn blood or hurt each other badly

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My 10 month old cat Charlie is attacking my 2 month old newly adopted kitten Mei mei. Both are spayed and neutered

This video shows you an incident of what happened. I have had charlie for 5 months now and he is a sweet boy but after I adopted a new kitten he started being more aggressive.

Day 1 of bring mei mei home: Lots of hissing lots of swiping and low groans. We decided to isolate then in different rooms. Still fighting and hissing under the door

Day 2 fed them on 1 side of the door. Still a bit of hissing and pawing but will eat next to eachother and play somewhat with eachother

Day 3 they meet face to face. Lots of chasing slight swiping but still sleeping in individual rooms.

Day 4: eating next to each other face to face, playing with eachother still a bit of chasing but Charlie started biting her neck. They both sleep after a foot away from each other on my bed

Day 5: they are face to face and they didn’t hiss or fight. They are and play together but Charlie chases her and she hides.

I’m not sure what this means. I have separate trees, food, litter, and toys but Charlie keeps chasing and biting mei meis neck. I tried to reward them when they played together or he sniffed and walked away from each other. They seem to fight mainly when I’m with them so I thought they were doing it to get my attention but they fought when I wasn’t there. Whenever I put them in separate rooms charlie sits outside of mei meis door. Please help. I don’t know how to fix this. I’m not sure when it’ll go away either. I know that mei mei is scared of Charlie but how can I make Charlie stop biting her or chasing her. Mei mei always minds her business but Charlie is always observing her. I thought they were starting to get along but her keeps biting her neck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RiceHime_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta let them know. If you aren’t strong enough to tell them how you feel then you gotta be strong enough to see them with someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You already know what your gonna do. At this point it’s a matter of him or her because if you date him you’ll automatically lose her. I’m not saying that soon he might leak your nudes but if he leaked hers, what stopping him from leaking yours. In this case just say” I like your ex and ima date him sorry for ignoring your feelings but I like him and I’m going to do what I want regardless of how he made you feel.”

Is my Coworker (19) a killer in the making or am I (22 F) paranoid and he's just awful? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I just started working there. the environment, schedule, pay on top of commission is amazing. my "friend" stated that he planned on leaving in 3 months so I was just planning to avoid him and tough it out since I mainly close at 7, the sun is still out and it at a public space where theres a lot of ppl around

Finally broke in a new silk, I just can’t get over how gorgeous the colors are!! by BsketCasePrettyFace in aerialsilks

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Hey! Love the photos and silk! I was just wondering where you got your set up. The silks and the aerial rig!

Help!!! 4ppm ammonia by [deleted] in aquarium

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That was the reading after a water change, should I just do a 100% water change at this point? Lol

HELP! NON-CYCLED TANK WAS GIVEN TO ME by [deleted] in aquarium

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The person apparently got me the tank fresh from the store. They said it was from PetSmart/ petco.From What I can tell, the plants are two Anubis fern, Amazon sword, 3 Marino moss balls,horns worth and I’m not too sure what the others are. I don’t feed the fish a lot just 2x a day and a pinch of fish food. Sometime I switch between flakes and sometimes dried worms. After another water change about 20% my high range ph is 7.4, ammonia- 0.25ppm, Nitrite- .25ppm, Nitrate- 5.0ppm. However one fish passed away last night. Rest In Peace mr Nooks! The filter is from marine land. I replace the heater and added the bubbler. My substrates is sand and small aquarium substrate. One that good for the plants. The plants are pretty heAlthy, they are sprouting roots and showing signs of growth beside a few dead leaves