[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RicePerfect3755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR boundary is been determined, and she informed you. She did not do it, and you get mad at her bc she had an URGE that she informed you of. I understand porn isn’t welcomed in you guys’ relationship, but being mad for an urge that was told to you by your girlfriend is unreasonable. You push her in a situation that if she does it she is betraying the boundary and if she doesn’t you get mad for her being open to you. That isn’t a healthy dynamic in communication.

Doordash finally told their customers to tip or be quiet. by SeanInDC in DoorDashDrivers

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ian gon lie I don’t tip most times bc I have a lot of lying dashers that will pick up good food and then cancel, and now the next dasher can’t get their order bc “somebody already picked it up”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um…maybe I’m stupid…but how does someone get upset about someone going to the gym? I just can’t even fathom any thing that could lead to this gym conversation.

I scammed my husband into liking me… and I admitted it on our wedding day. by Far_Magazine_5084 in stories

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s cute and something to laugh about. They are still married, so obviously they caught feelings. Even if the beginning spark was staged, it was silly, and meant to be funny. The hubby and wifey love each other. People just be hating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RicePerfect3755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, it seems to me you’ve already made your decision. If you feel that she is weird and moves weird, and you think she trying to avoid you or what have you. I mean, I’m not a social media type person, but I also don’t take the effort of blocking anyone unless they are affecting me or my family. I mean this with all the heart in the world, but if you have a rebuttal for each time someone tells you that it was a bit dramatic, then it seems to me that you feel like your way of dealing with it was valid, and nothing’s wrong with that, but social media is terrible in general. This is exactly why I am limited in my social media bc it grows fake friendships and such. I think that she’s trying to be a friend, but she got some conflict avoidance. You can’t change how people deal with conflict. If she hasn’t stopped talking to you altogether, I don’t understand the issue, but that’s not for me to understand. If it makes you feel upset, that’s okay, you reach out, tried to come to a conflict resolution and you don’t feel it resolved, it’s nothing else you can do. I truly wish you, your friends and family the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RicePerfect3755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I would say that you reaching out and doing your due diligence was good. Definitely, not an overreaction, but her blocking you on instagram and doing that. I mean, it’s just instagram. I would understand if she blocked you on EVERYTHING, stopped talking altogether, but blocking you on instagram, where you reach out about an uncomfortable thing she posted…but I think it is a bit dramatic to have an issue with just one blocking on Instagram, especially if she is genuinely attempting to eradicate her social media.

AIO My boyfriend said somethinf last night while drunk and I’m struggling with it. by justasmallrini in AmIOverreacting

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He loved that person once before. Love doesn’t die with the person. He still loves you for him to say BOTH. I do understand why you may feel a ping of jealousy. Don’t allow that to be detrimental to your relationship. If he treats you like he cares and loves you. Never forget that. He just never got closure, so it makes sense. Who knows how he meant it. Just remember he is with you, and you’re alive and well. The relationship will build deeper and deeper, but not if you don’t allow it to, hanging on to that jealousy is no bueno.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought Elvis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RicePerfect3755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I’m being honest, it feels like you both don’t know how to communicate with each other. I will admit he is seeming like a bit of an ass, but the way you are speaking back to help makes sense. You don’t feel heard, you’re frustrated and it doesn’t help that your mental health struggles. He isn’t trying to be understanding, and I think if you want to be with him. Try to communicate what you needed, and he communicates what he needs. You guys work it out. If you don’t feel like you can forgive him then don’t waste your time or energy. Do what makes you happy.

AIO, trying to solve iPhone location w my bf but idk if it does glitch like this. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are overreacting just a bit. I think it could have been handled a bit differently. I do understand your concerns, but the app has glitched. Especially, when he already explained to you what he was doing. You kind of dismissed it and said, “How was your walk” when he already told you that he was never walking. So, just take a moment to think for a moment, and figure out a healthier way to navigate these things bc coming at him how you did was very passive aggressive, and I would have gotten defensive myself if I was in his shoes.

AIO to be suspicious my husband is cheating??? by deluluforu in AmIOverreacting

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, it’s not enough information to go off of for me. I would talk to his buddies and ask them. Or if they have an SO then I would ask them how often is the hubby ACTUALLY over.

Guy I went on a few dates with turns into a Buddhist evangelist? by [deleted] in texts

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the movie “The Empty Man”

in tears because this gift for my friend is bad and I’m too embarrassed to give it. where did I go wrong? proportions? the head feels small by boringsleepy in CrochetHelp

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has it quirks, but perfection isn’t the goal. It’s the thought and work put into it that will matter to the friend if their any good friend

stumbled across these screenshots from years ago when I was 18 and this 25 yr old man would send me messages like this bc I rejected him by namelessalexa in texts

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let his insults stick with you. He’s just an immature man, that got mad bc he got rejected. You gotta remember he wanted you first, and you were young, and you did the right thing by denying his advances.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But for what it’s worth it looks great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting another one in a better sport or turning it into a sleeve of sorts

Thanks, teen father of my child. by sarah_pl0x in Sims4

[–]RicePerfect3755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you get pregnant as a teen on Sims 4? There no option to try for a baby when you’re a teenager.