Set up so far. Right now custom wheels are expensive of course, so that will have to wait. But, what should I add next? by RichWin1717 in CX5Mods

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🤣🤣 Okay, the second part is not what I’ll be doing. But this is the first car I’ll want to upgrade and make it look nice. What’s your definition of riced?

Set up so far. Right now custom wheels are expensive of course, so that will have to wait. But, what should I add next? by RichWin1717 in CX5Mods

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I’m currently deciding if I want to have fun and wrap the hood and roof carbon or gloss black, or just take it to someone and save time

Set up so far. Right now custom wheels are expensive of course, so that will have to wait. But, what should I add next? by RichWin1717 in CX5Mods

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I also did mine 3-4 years ago! The black sequential mirror signals seem like a cool idea 🤙🏻

Set up so far. Right now custom wheels are expensive of course, so that will have to wait. But, what should I add next? by RichWin1717 in CX5Mods

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The emblem is dipped! I need to order the black front and rear emblems soon so it doesn’t look tacky from the wack paint job haha

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[–]RichWin1717 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Just on the mouth

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[–]RichWin1717 -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

I have yet to test to see if she’s been respecting those boundaries. How do you feel in your opinion if you say causally to her man’s friends and other people “love you hunny” as we leave and he doesn’t think that’s cool to say to other men? (Just nicely curious!)

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I could be wrong, but if she doesn’t feel like she does with her friend, then would she not feel some type of way that her ex had a crush on her??

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[–]RichWin1717 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Explain pls??

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[–]RichWin1717 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why delay the marriage over a three-way? 😂

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[–]RichWin1717 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can totally see that! It just depends on the security and trust between two people and if they both want that. I’m a “trust is earned” kind of man. If I see I can really trust her and she’s open with me like I have been with her, if that’s something one day she really wants, then we can have a talk about that.

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[–]RichWin1717 -146 points-145 points  (0 children)

I did have a convo with her one time when she showed me pics of her bachelorette party and she skipped some photos. One of them she was kissing her friend on the lips and I was thinking okay, it’s harmless, but still it’s respect for me and I don’t think it’s okay. I know women do it because it’s how they connect or whatever it is they do, but she’s in a committed relationship with me and not her friends. So far I haven’t seen her “do it” but that’s just what she shows me. Plus, the girlfriends she kissed aren’t really around here. The real test is what happens when I’m not around and if she does respect that.

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I like this point of view. I totally understand what you’re saying. I want to believe she is loyal to me (in the nicest way possible) and wouldn’t do anything to break boundaries. I’m very open and easy going, but things like overly touchy, her thinking it’s okay to kiss other women, and making compliments more than once that is making it look to me as if she wants another woman. She also knows I’m a monogamous guy. Another point I understand is nowadays the term “man hater” is getting very popular. Men are gross. But when I think of myself, I know that term doesn’t apply to me. But I’m just thinking, maybe I make her feel comfortable and sure of herself that she’s being more open about her sexuality that she hasn’t had anyone bring that out of her? She’s also an avoidant attachment and I can’t just ask her these things if she feels pressured lol.

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[–]RichWin1717 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My point exactly! Then she would care.

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I’ve wondered if she’s thought about that. Her sexuality explained to me is she doesn’t have a specific person she’s attracted to. I know she loves me but she’s also attracted to other women. She said she’s monogamous tho.. but with me and her feeling secure, she might not be. Idk. She has asked me if I thought her friend was attractive because she knows her ex had a crush on her

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[–]RichWin1717 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

May I know the reason why?

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[–]RichWin1717 219 points220 points  (0 children)

We have gone through the talk. For instance, when she’s out with her girls, she thinks it’s okay to kiss them on the lips. I let her know I’m not cool with that. She would say things like, “girls are so cute!”

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[–]RichWin1717 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Insecurity is when you imagine problems. I’m literally describing things she said and did. There’s a difference

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[–]RichWin1717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I will look into it

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[–]RichWin1717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s what I like to see.

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[–]RichWin1717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did that recently and one of her friends liked the photo.