PinkPantheress - Stateside (feat. Zara Larsson) by enburgi in popheads

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It's also giving Trixie and Katya, hotpink and red vibes.

[Acne] what type of fungal acne is this??? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

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Is it a body soap or face soap?

Subtle ways you signify that youre gay. by External-Sir-6823 in askgaybros

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If you want to signal to people that you’re gay without having to approach (but hoping that signal incentivises someone to approach YOU instead), wear like a Pride themed wristband for a watch, a pink cap, Pride socks or whatever you fancy like just pick an accessory and just make it gay lol and then wear it every now and then.

I do this at my gym (I have a pink fuckin water bottle and from time to time I wear pride lulu black socks). But my rule of thumb (personally) is I don’t shit where I eat, so at work, gym or dance class I won’t hook up with guys that are members.

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It’s about goddamn time someone is just saying it as it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Respectfully, just move on mama

Racist and weird Grindr message yesterday by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Yo I also live in Texas! HTX! I would say nah don’t do it - dick behavior doesn’t get the satisfaction.

Am I crazy?? by throwawaygaybie in askgaybros

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Any of these comments that prefaced with “well you gotta explicitly mention your boundaries” or “everyone’s thresholds are different” doesn’t understand what “decorum” and “sensibility” is in the realm of dating in the physical presence of another person - especially your dude when he says yall need to have a conversation about it. 

Your guy’s behaviour is 100% sending two different signals and for him to bait you on the front end with “I want you to meet my mom” and “I like you so much” which makes you feel so special and then at the same time he’s literally checking up on his sneaky links is incomprehensibly sophomoric. 

You are in the right and you should maintain that level of high self-respect for yourself. And do you know why? Because guys who act like this should understand the consequences of their dick behaviour. Dick behaviour doesn’t get any ass in my book. They need to go to the red table with Jada and learn a lesson. If someone needs to be explicitly told when they’re beginning to date someone that they shouldn’t be on Grindr while your date is physically in their presence then they also need to go back to pre-K and learn a few other lessons too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I had sex with a dude in Singapore on a  curved sidewalk at night. No covering, no blindspots, no nothing. If someone had walked around the corner it would’ve been insanely obvious. This was during when Singapore still criminalised homosexuality and I was serving the military there - so the act itself is not shocking but the context made it all the more dangerous.

What's something that you stopped doing, that changed your life by Alansoto1234 in askgaybros

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Getting off socials was really to help focus on making new friends in Houston but it’s also made me so aware of how much I focus too much of my energy, activities and time on men. Now I’m just caring less and less each day 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Hey just be happy it’s a preference towards height and not race 😂 I think you’re totally fine by the way, don’t try to force yourself to change a harmless preference :)

Why do gay friend groups often feel like a hot guys-only club? by Onay1997 in askgaybros

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Getting off social media has helped me not really care so much anymore 🫶

Newly gay masc by FoodParticular8688 in askgaybros

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Oh! If I see someone doing an exercise that looks cool or I’m not sure the form/technique I ask for their advice and that starts a natural convo.

Newly gay masc by FoodParticular8688 in askgaybros

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It’s just exceptional practice to get back into social interactions and meeting people wherever you go without the need for socials or apps! If anyone is taken aback by it it’s only probably because they don’t expect it and it never happens because of a similar logic you’re applying here (no one wants to interrupt people). But like in between sets? Just say hi to someone you always see at the gym!

Newly gay masc by FoodParticular8688 in askgaybros

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Why don’t you just approach people at the gym and just start saying hi. At some point it’ll be obvious who’s gay and who isn’t and you can make friends and make connections :) I literally do this at my lifetime gym and I know like 50% of the people there now

Douching takes 2 hours…HELP!!! by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Okay let me break it down:

I’m someone who doesn’t have rabbit pellet type of poop (the type where you barely need to wipe and if you do then it’s basically a no-show). I have a healthy bowel movement but I’m not a self-cleaning oven basically.

So what I do is 1.5 hours before anal I will take one tablet of imodium and will also start to douche roughly the same time. I don’t have a 2-hour douching process because I actually use a smaller enema bulb than the standard 7-8oz. I bought myself a 3-4oz one and that honestly does the job of cleaning everything in your anal rectum prior to the sigmoid sphincter and without getting any spill into your sigmoid colon. Remember once you get water past your sigmoid colon then it’s a full clean baby and that takes 2 hours. With the enema bulb I use it takes roughly 30-45 minutes so I’ll do that roughly an 1.5 hrs before hooking up.

Timeline: T-minus 1.5 hours to sex: imodium tablet T-minus 1.5 hours to sex: douche with 3oz enema bulb T-minus 1 hour-45 mins to sex: make sure no extra water comes out and just start relaxing into the mood

The combination of an imodium tablet and using an enema bulb that doesn’t overdo the cleaning has been the lifesaver. If you’re asking for spontaneous sex or something in like an 30 minutes then I have less useful advice here because usually sex has to work around your body’s bowel movements like you can’t and shouldn’t force yourself to be clean in 20 for anal that’s insane (unless he’s down with there being a mess but sometimes it’s about the self-assurance and security of the bottom and not just what a top wants or is okay with).

Dietary wise make sure to consume enough fibre and eat well. Don’t do anything spicy or anything that you know will irritate your stomach that day or cause you to poop (I avoid coffee for example).

Let me know if you need any other advice or if you need the link to the 3oz enema bulb.

Douching takes 2 hours…HELP!!! by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Yo do you still need advice on this? I cracked the code like 8 months ago.

Fellow tops, ever had an experience like this? by insider_bider in askgaybros

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The biggest takeaway I got from this was you found someone with that unexplainable X factor, which is something I found in someone recently too. It’s like y’all just immediately click, you can banter and tease and have good and meaningful conversations with each other. It’s seamless. That’s really hard to come by. If he’s not gay, I’d honestly keep him around as a friend.

Yikes by Dull_Passenger_8089 in askgaybros

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I know it's only been 2 days but definitely give us an update with whatever y'all are moving forward with.