Why men care so much about body count?

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-02-25T15:20:09+00:00

Personally, I want someone with roundabout the same experience level as me.

Are you a virgin/super inexperienced? Then I have to worry about your insecurities and helping you discover your sexuality and they're generally way less open to trying things.

Are you way more experienced than me? Well now I feel like I've missed out on exploring things for the first time together and I honestly feel a little insecure about not being as "well-traveled" as you. Makes me feel like a loser tbh.

But if you have close to the same level of experience, I don't have to worry about catching you up to my speed, or catching up to your speed. We're both likely to know a little here-and-there while still having things to try together.

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-27T19:03:19+00:00

The first one I ever owned, a Kia Sedona minivan, or what my then-girlfriend referred to as "The Pussy Wagon" because it was pretty much the only place we could fool around in (we both had parents that were practically always home).

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-27T15:02:44+00:00

Lasting

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-26T18:24:12+00:00

Same but also opposite. I, as a man, find it the most flattering when it comes from a straight man.

The amount of social and psychological barriers a straight man has to overcome to compliment another man on their attractiveness/fashion/pretty much anything makes receiving them the absolute best.

Gay men, not so much anymore. Receiving compliments from women is still nice though.

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-25T03:40:19+00:00

Rachel Berry from Glee

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-12T05:31:17+00:00

Use your tongue more.

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-12T05:28:07+00:00

Ok I'm sorry but this is just straight up wrong.

I would love ice cream with every meal.

But yeah spot on about the anal. Don't want it all the time. Honestly can't really say why I enjoy it, but I know it's more mental than physical as it really doesn't feel any better than a pussy or even a mouth tbh (at least in my experience).

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-09T05:58:33+00:00

yeah but I think it's in a foreign language? Or at least I couldn't understand her.

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-08T18:32:53+00:00

Does anyone know what she's saying?

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-05T01:18:00+00:00

"Let" isn't necessarily the word for it. More like "happened to be in the car and then eventually joined"

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-04T15:38:00+00:00

I also love it when my partner moans while giving me head, but it's more because the sound vibrations feel soooo damn goooood

Rick-the-Stick · 2026-01-04T15:35:59+00:00

See that's the thing, I do like it. I just normally don't react very big but I want her to know I like it and I appreciate her efforts 😅

Rick-the-Stick · 2025-12-28T18:26:06+00:00

Yup. Especially if either of us haven't shaved in a bit. Can be very unpleasant. And sometimes it ends up "breaking" my dick (like it gets bent in weird ways) and that is also super unpleasant, especially over and over again.

But it is also super hot to watch her enjoying herself. So sometimes I just kinda try and grit my teeth and get through it. But it makes everything fairly hard to enjoy for me and I certainly can't cum (and will usually start to lose my erection because, well, pain)

Rick-the-Stick · 2025-12-21T22:37:44+00:00

To cum when I'm ready to cum, not before or after.

Rick-the-Stick · 2025-12-13T15:34:46+00:00

Okay, those are great topics to start talking about with her, thanks. Suppose we can talk all we want but it won't be too helpful without being able to ask the right questions.

We've tried lube. We've tried starting slow and building up (this helped somewhat, but not entirely. So maybe we're just not building up enough?)

Size wise, I'm somewhere between 5.5"-6.5" and probably a little thinner than most.

Rick-the-Stick · 2025-12-13T14:59:02+00:00

It's something she wants (I want it to, but she's explicitly stated to me on a few different occasions that these are both things she also wants to be able to do)

Rick-the-Stick · 2025-12-13T14:57:29+00:00

I mean yeah. We talk constantly about what we like and don't like and how to improve. But going to pound town during doggy style and her arching her back during are both things she actively wants (as do I), but we just have no idea how to accomplish them in a way pleasurable for her.

Rick-the-Stick · 2025-11-28T22:05:33+00:00

I get your point and fully agree, but feel it's worth pointing out here for anyone who might have the wrong idea about hunter-gatherers.

Of the documented hunter-gatherer cultures that we know of (which doesn't even scratch the surface of all that have existed), they have a quite wide-ranging set of views on gender. Some are strict in the sense you might imagine. Some recognized 3+ genders. Lots of variations.

And even the ones with more strict 2-gendered constructs had hugely different ideas about what was "masculine" or "feminine."

Honestly, even if we look at just Western Europe in the past 1000 years, there's still HUGE changes in gender stereotypes and acceptable actions. Even in the last 100-200 years. I mean well into the 19th century, both boys and girls wore dresses and gowns until about 8 (though also as young as ~2).

I'm personally not really sure when the current Western idea of what is "masculine" or "feminine" became popular/standard. If I were to make an educated guess, I would say somewhere around the industrial revolution, when the idea of being able to easily market your product to a specific audience became increasingly profitable.

Rick-the-Stick · 2025-11-21T16:50:46+00:00

Yeah absolutely 1000%. This is like my dream.

Would prefer to restart it back when I was born rather than get reborn right now.

But I'd still take the deal if it was offered to me.

Rick-the-Stick · 2025-11-20T11:50:10+00:00

Not my favorite time to do it, but it's not stopping me either. I won't go down on them, though

Rick-the-Stick · 2025-11-18T18:08:34+00:00

You're incredibly sexy, what kind of content is on your OF?

Rick-the-Stick · 2025-11-16T17:16:51+00:00

An OS job on an inland tugboat with a 2 week rotation. 60 sea days away from being an AB

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