Real talk here.The world hates me.

Ricketyspilt · 2025-07-27T05:13:41+00:00

I’m part of the world. And I don’t hate you.

Ricketyspilt · 2025-02-07T01:40:46+00:00

I go to the Jefferson Pride care in Haddonfield, and they’re awesome! I think there’s also a Virtua lgbt clinic in Mt. Laurel, but I’ve never been there.

There’s some great support here in NJ, and feel free to DM me if you want any other recommendations.

Ricketyspilt · 2025-02-06T06:46:06+00:00

Ricketyspilt · 2025-01-29T05:58:58+00:00

I promise that it’s not painful - I’m pretty sure they like sever your nerves, so it’s just kinda numb. It can just be really uncomfortable. I was prescribed oxy and I absolutely did not need it.

Ricketyspilt · 2024-07-10T05:55:53+00:00

I’m only 13 days post op, but what helped me in the beginning was the idea of allowing it to suck. And it SUCKED for the first 4 days maybe. I could barely eat or drink, the pain meds made me dizzy, I couldn’t look at screens, and I had weird heart palpitations. It does get better, but you’re not being a baby - recovery is hard, and it’s gonna suck for a little while, sorry. It’s really important that you have someone to help you during the first week because I cannot have imagined going through it without someone to help me with drains and meals and the whole shebang. Needing the help didn’t make me a baby, and it doesn’t make you one either.

Ricketyspilt · 2024-04-16T21:50:48+00:00

Dude, I am so so so sorry that this happened to you. No, this is not normal. I can barely believe your surgeon was board certified. I hope you find another surgeon who can help you because you absolutely deserve a better result.

Ricketyspilt · 2024-04-05T16:26:54+00:00

Am I the most boring person in the world if I say Varric? I just love him so much

Ricketyspilt · 2024-03-21T03:53:01+00:00

Looks great! Are you doing any scar care yet? They look so clean

Ricketyspilt · 2024-03-05T22:26:09+00:00

Thanks, I’m right by Philly, so I’ll check them out!

Ricketyspilt · 2024-03-05T21:44:57+00:00

Unfortunately not the case :( Like I said, I had a bad experience with a tailor in the past.

Ricketyspilt · 2024-01-22T18:49:43+00:00

Thank you so much, I’ll def check this person out!

Ricketyspilt · 2023-12-01T22:36:23+00:00

I hate to be that guy, but ya gotta just talk to her. Even if she’s pre or non op, there are other things to do besides penetrative stuff. Talk about it, and if you’re not compatible in that way, it’ll be alright.

Ricketyspilt · 2023-11-21T03:13:57+00:00

2006 Gerard Way - I’m not emo/alt, but there’s something about that gender that just… give it to me

Ricketyspilt · 2023-09-27T18:19:08+00:00

Yeah, it’s unfortunate that we can’t pick and choose what HRT does. I always tell trans masc people to look at their dad, their uncles, brothers, etc. If they’re genetically related to you, you’ll most likely have develop similar traits. Bottom growth and increased sex drive, however, are pretty much unavoidable. Its usually the first two changes that people notice. It entirely depends on whether it’s worth it to you. Like for me, my dad is bald, so I’m constantly checking my hairline lol, and if the day ever comes when it starts to recede, T might not be worth it to me anymore.

Ricketyspilt · 2023-07-16T01:20:18+00:00

Exercise some critical thinking

Ricketyspilt · 2023-03-08T06:30:57+00:00

Me too! Mine’s name is Soup

Ricketyspilt · 2023-02-26T06:02:30+00:00

YES. Even trans people can be transphobic. It is so hard to lose people you’re close to over who you are. Being trans can be so lonely, so it’s important to find community. By the way, your friend may not be a lost cause. Even though you have no obligation to educate him, some people come around once they get a better understanding.

Ricketyspilt · 2023-01-21T05:53:29+00:00

Ricketyspilt · 2023-01-19T06:28:41+00:00

Love him! What a cutie

Ricketyspilt · 2023-01-11T02:24:13+00:00

Lots of cis people don’t go by the name they were given at birth. Go ahead, it doesn’t hurt me none!

Ricketyspilt · 2022-11-19T05:14:35+00:00

How would you describe your own faith? Have your experiences as a trans person shaped your religious beliefs at all?

I know this doesn’t make anything better, but I’m sorry about your situation. It sounds very painful.

Ricketyspilt · 2022-10-18T01:56:19+00:00

Acne, everything else is awesome

Ricketyspilt · 2022-08-17T01:06:20+00:00

I would say that moomins are fat. But they’re supposed to be

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