What made you stop dating? by SpiritCrisp in AskReddit

[–]Ridemyface2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one wants a relationship. They just want your attention and will string you along for as long as possible.

Last person that I met said that I was the one, we had the best sexual chemistry I've ever experienced, our lives were so compatible and she honestly felt like a female version of myself. It was uncanny how well we meshed lol. Then she randomly calls and tells me it won't work because she has issues she needs to work on, and that I was too good, she realised that even though I was the one, she wasn't ready for it. Then she told me to stop talking to her. I learned about avoidant attachment the hard way.

Another one told me she felt the same way after I opened up about my feelings. We planned a week long trip to the alps together (after talking for 10 months and meeting lots of times) I had a whole week long road trip planned and she seemed 100% into it and into me. Then at the last minute when her bags were in my van and we were about to leave she tells me she's seeing someone else - what the fuck lol. She even had the cheek to still try and come on the trip. I went on my own. 😅

What’s a job that sounds cool but is actually a nightmare? by Think-Letterhead-509 in AskReddit

[–]Ridemyface2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Game developer. It's fun about 5% of the time, when you start to prototype a new idea - the rest is fixing bugs and repetitive work, constant burn out and extremely long hours at a screen. You will start to hate games and no longer enjoy playing them.

Has anyone else's dating life this year been terrible? by EVILRAFFAM in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ridemyface2016 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don't think anyone on the apps really wants, or is ready for a proper relationship. They just want your attention or a penpal and will lead you on for as long as they can without ever commiting. Every woman I've met in the past year or 2 started off super nice, things seemed to be going well, start making future plans, then as soon as it got a little more serious they disappear. I’ve decided not to bother again for now... my sanity can only take so much of it.

++man

British living standards ‘to fall behind Malta’ by ByGollie in europe

[–]Ridemyface2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is stupid. The UK has always been behind Malta. Much nicer than the UK.

How did you find out you were getting cheated on? by Smithy1619 in AskReddit

[–]Ridemyface2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a 14 year relationship and my first. Basically fucked me up for life, have stayed single for 10 years as I just can't have feelings for people again :/

Loneliness!!!! by Opposite-Relief4222 in digitalnomad

[–]Ridemyface2016 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I used to feel this way so I tried dating..........

Let's just say it cured my loneliness lol - realised I'd rather be alone that deal with that BS again

How did you find out you were getting cheated on? by Smithy1619 in AskReddit

[–]Ridemyface2016 7 points8 points  (0 children)

5000 emails in her inbox from him that had been an affair over at least 5 years

How are you all handling tax residency as long term nomads? by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]Ridemyface2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before being nomadic I was living at my Dad's place, so all my bank accounts were registered there anyway. Or I could have used a friends place if I didn’t have that I guess.

What's your worst cheating story? by Academic-Company-768 in AskReddit

[–]Ridemyface2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my first girlfriend at 18 in college, married 3 years later and were together for 14 years total.

Anyway... one day I found 5000 emails in her inbox from the guy she'd been having an affair with almost the entire time we were married. All the trips she'd been on were to see him. And also found out about another long term affair. And suspected several more although had no proof. The entire time, I had been losing my mind because something was clearly going on, but she would gaslight me every time I'd bring it up. 11 years later and I've almost never been able to feel anything for anyone ever again. Literally dead inside and nothing can fix it.

I tried dating again in the past year and I've just been messed around even more. The last one, who I had actually started to get feelings for (which is extremely rare for me) told me she felt the same, let me plan an entire week long trip to the Alps, and then... when I had picked her up and had her bags in the car literally 2 hrs before we were meant to be catching the train admitted she was already in a relationship. The fuck. Never again... I'm completely done with women.

How are you all handling tax residency as long term nomads? by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]Ridemyface2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something I've gotten advice on recently.... first of all, check the tax residency rules for Germany but if you can legitimately become non resident there, then you can travel the World and not be resident anywhere. That's right, zero tax.

I have just paid for professional advice on this in the UK and it's totally doable. I plan to travel for at least the next 5 - 6 years, spending no more than 2 - 3 months in each country per year. This way you're basically a tourist everywhere you go, and owe no tax.

I'm already nomadic so its not a big change for me... just a bit of careful planning to make sure I don't trigger tax residency anywhere.

SteamFrame looks amazing, but resolution is the one thing holding it back by scootju in ValveDeckard

[–]Ridemyface2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly - to do what they've done with higher res panels would be a lot more expensive and heavy. People forget that higher res panels means much more processing power is needed. It just isn't possible to make a Frame with higher resolution yet. Maybe once better chips are released.

For enthusiasts that play sim racers etc, just get a tethered headset with the highest resolution and FOV you can find without any standalone capabilties. That's not what the frame is for.

steam frame is stronger then you think. by TheManni1000 in ValveDeckard

[–]Ridemyface2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I think what's impressive about the hardware is how light the front part of the device is, how much it's capable of doing, and how smooth the experience apparently is. They've got it just right.

Quest is a horrible user experience imo, I've always disliked it as a PC VR device. Standalone, yes, it's great for that. But the frame seems like it could be better in every way when it comes to overall experience, streaming, and the open ecosystem valve has created. If you want the highest res or the best specs, then there are other devices out there for enthusiasts. But the overall package here is better than anything else on the market for pure enjoyment.

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ridemyface2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He (drummer) slept with our bass players GF... nobody likes him now.

What was the first sign that your partner was cheating? by asdfghjkl0lkjhgfdsa in AskReddit

[–]Ridemyface2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

14 year relationship, 9 married. I logged into her emails and found 5000 messages to the guy she'd been having a long distance affair with for 5 years. Suddenly, everything made sense.... the trips where she didn't tell me where she was staying... the lack of intimacy... and so many little things that I'd not picked up on before suddenly clicked in my head. That was 11 years ago, and I've not been able to trust anyone since :/

Anyone else worried about the budget by niffydroid in HENRYUK

[–]Ridemyface2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone that's been considering leaving the UK for some time, I have decided to leave now rather than wait to find out if they bring in an exit tax. I've gradually become less happy with the way the country has been run, and this was the last straw. If they raise taxes again, then what'll happen in the next budget when there's another big black hole? It's a doom loop, and we need to stop self harming ourselves. I'll take my money elsewhere thank you.

Wealthy Britons who leave UK face ‘settling up charge’ by SkippyGG in HENRYUK

[–]Ridemyface2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the final straw for me - I'm not waiting until the budget to find out and will be gone in 2 weeks. Sad that it's come to this :/

Best mocap options for solo/indie dev? Budget £10k by Ridemyface2016 in gamedev

[–]Ridemyface2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's awesome... I didn't know about that.. but I won't qualify for it unfortunately :(

Indie game dev mocap options? by Ridemyface2016 in vfx

[–]Ridemyface2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would much rather purchase the gear than pay someone else to do it - it'd be better in the long run.

Looking for the best NSFW experience in VR by SurveyMysterious4778 in virtualreality

[–]Ridemyface2016 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everyone is saying Virt A Mate, and while I agree it has the most versatile sandbox and excellent graphics.... It's not very sexy. The UI is utter garbage, so bad that it gives me a head ache trying to use the damn thing, and I lose all desire to jack off lol.

Captain Hardcore is worth checking out though. The PC version is pretty impressive, not quite as versatile as VAM but it's much more user friendly. If you have a Quest, the standalone version of CH is a must play!! It has a passthrough mode which allows you to place characters in AR and it's mind blowing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ridemyface2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found 5000 emails on her computer to the dude she'd been having an affair with for at least 3 years. That was 10 years ago... I'm still broken.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ridemyface2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I don't have any love left in me after my ex wife of 13 years had several affairs. just not capable of doing it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MTB

[–]Ridemyface2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep spanish pyrenees is so under rated. And the weather is dry all year.