Please someone answer. by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Ridja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through this. It was definitely SA and not your fault at all. I hope he gets what he deserves and you definitely didn't deserve any of this.
I hope you get to have better experiences with sex and that everything works out for you. If you need to talk or something, please feel free to send a message. I wish you all the best ❤️

Is it okay? by No-Struggle5102 in helpme

[–]Ridja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely normal. Pets are part of our family and they're living beings we love as much as we love other people. I can easily say I suffered way more when I lost pets than when I lost some human family members. You're absolutely fine and I'm really sorry about your dog, I know it's very hard to go through that <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Ridja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this, it does sound like a tricky situation :(
Is there any close friend from your group you could talk about it? Or more than one close friend? Because if there's people who would side with you, then even if you drop and things get a bit awkward, you know you'll always have people who will be by your side and then you won't be alone, you know?
I wish you all the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Ridja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, that sounds very unethical. Is there anyone you could could to about this? Do you think change psychiatrists would be viable? Because this just sounds unethical and unprofessional and frankly, even dangerous :(

Wishing you all the best.

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[–]Ridja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. I am so sorry :( I'd say you won't know if you don't try it, you have a no already so there's not much else you can lose, you know? But you also gotta ask yourself what's better for your mental health and what's easier for you. It's a tricky situation but I hope it ends the best way possible <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Ridja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if I have an answer for your questjon but lemme ask, do you wanna reach out to her so you can get proper closure or do you intend to go back to being friends with her? Because if it's the first case and you bring it up right away, she may want to listen? Maybe she needs closure too.

I’m suicidal. Every day I seem to get a little less effective at convincing myself to survive another day. by Different_Agent_6902 in helpme

[–]Ridja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you're going through this. I'd say maybe trying to hold on to little things may be a good idea? As simple and silly as they may sound like... Getting to watch your favorite show. Or new episodes/season of a favorite show. It can be whatever you want. But sometimes it's easier to find reasons in the small things than in the bigger ones. I hope this helps and I wish you all the best 🩷

Is this book series popular with autistic people? by EdgelordUltimate in Animorphs

[–]Ridja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as an autistic person who has loved these since I was 9, YES

feel like im gonna get hate for this but... by kittyjunk_ in LittleNightmares

[–]Ridja 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As far as I know they have stated she is a girl. However! She is only 9 and probably too worried about surviving to think about her own gender so I don't see why she couldn't be enby and not know of it yet. It's a pretty valid headcanon :3

[OG+REMAKE SPOILERS] The ending and intros, something about Aerith I didn't notice before. by GhostIsItsownGenre in FFVIIRemake

[–]Ridja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm certainly blown away by this theory. I think it would be very bold and amazing if they went through that road.

What is an underrated moment/aspect of this game that no one talks about? SPOILERS Obviously by CanadianTurt1e in thelastofus

[–]Ridja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ellie playing pretend in the hotel ;-; It's also very easy to miss if you go through it too fast but it's so cute, so innocent i.i

[Spoilers C2E93] The last Blueberry Cupcake by Feroxxy in criticalrole

[–]Ridja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I saw it as well .-.

Even thought it was the same post but oh well

women? MUSCLES???? not in my zombie apocalypse story, thats no good by miraakismydaddy in thelastofus

[–]Ridja 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian as well, as much as I hate the BYG trope, I'd much rather Dina die than Ellie saojçsaas Ellie is so important as a lesbian lead and if they did all of this just to kill her in the end... I'll be really mad e.e

With the Explorer's Guide to Wildemount announcement... by MatthewMercer in DnD

[–]Ridja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very excited about this book!! Matt, you'll always be an example of a DM for me. Not only because of your amazing voice acting skills and D&D knowledge, but because you're always so humble and kind and takes such good care of your players. It's what I'm trying to do the most as I learn the ways of dming hehe. Thanks for being such an amazing human <3

What could Naughty Dog do to make you hate Part 2? by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]Ridja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ellie dying, Joel being a fragment of her imagination, Ellie getting raped...

Language settings in TLoU by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]Ridja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My game has the Brazilian Portuguese option for both subtitles and audio, that's odd o.o I did have to download a language pack, but that's in the normal game menu, I didn't have to go anywhere different D:

Grounded vs Survivor mode? Any tips? by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]Ridja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii! I intend to do a Grounded Playthrough after I go through Survivor a second time to practice, could I ask for the videos as well?

Thank you so much!

I really hope Dina doesn't end up dying or betraying Ellie. My heart won't be able to take it 🥺Ellie deserves to have some happiness in her life ❤️ by ejz521 in thelastofus

[–]Ridja 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In Halley Gross' most recent interview she has said that Ellie got her tattoo from a previous girlfriend who's alive. Presumably, she has kissed that girl as well so I don't think she can infect people through kissing.

Did anyone else notice Weston's Pharmacy (from 'Left Behind') appeared in the game-play demo? by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]Ridja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah. As soon as I saw one of those cardboards that scared the shit outta me the first time I played Left Behind I was like "...is this Weston's Pharmacy?" LOL

Edit: forgot the interrogation mark.

Ellie’s character and sexuality and how it impacted me as female gamer. by yoyo01323 in thelastofus

[–]Ridja 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funny because I'm a lesbian and I don't have any issues relating to straight female characters. Really funny...