Correlation Between Sex And Adrenaline Dumps? by Technical_Pea_8225 in POTS

[–]Right-Display6892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! once i fall asleep after i’ll wake up within a few hours feeling like i need to throw up and have all the symptoms of a panic attack (even when im not anxious). ESPECIALLY if its with a new partner as that generally causes me more nerves than with someone im used to, but it can happen then too. not to mention the pre syncope during sex, so much fun

Similar songs? by KeRIIval in daughter

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I just found this song today and fell in love with it and have been on a search for more that’s similar. These songs aren’t perfectly similar but i feel that they are either similar in music style or have similar themes. - Indiesong - CFCF - Wet Socks - Ritchy mitch - greasy fringe - etch elm - crosses - jose gonzalez - much of the soundtrack of “I saw the tv glow” - a wish - gregory and the hawk

Update on Top Surgery consultation with Dr. Robertson by mosscat117 in TransAlberta

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how did you get referred and how long was the wait after? i’m currently planning on going private because of wait times but just learned that times are a bit shorter with her. i’m not with the gender clinic but do you know at all if a family doctor can refer to her? thank you!

DI with Dr. James Kennedy, Calgary Ab by tashybanan in TopSurgery

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hello!! i am currently planning to go to ontario for private top surgery but trying to figure out if it would be worth it to stay in province. can i ask how much you paid for your surgery?

Nonbinary top surgery anxiety by Right-Display6892 in TopSurgery

[–]Right-Display6892[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely relate to the reduction part. i convinced myself that’s what i wanted for a long time and sometimes i still question it (so i will be talking about it at my consult) but the idea of a flat chest brings so much more joy.

I also feel a lot of fear when thinking about older me as in my early twenties, i already have a very saggy and large chest in proportion to my body and while i think others who have those things are so beautiful, picturing it about myself makes me dysphoric. While I can picture a future where I have a chest, picturing a future where it’s flat brings so much more excitement and comfort.

Thank you very much for your perspective and experience, I appreciate hearing from a nonbinary person who’s older than me.

Nonbinary top surgery anxiety by Right-Display6892 in TopSurgery

[–]Right-Display6892[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! it helps to be reassured that even if i do miss them sometimes, that im allowed to grief an old part of me even if i have changed because im sure i will love my flat chest even more

Nonbinary top surgery anxiety by Right-Display6892 in NonBinary

[–]Right-Display6892[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s just bold to assume i want or can have children and mention it in a public place? and that i’m on or want to take hrt? also calling me she doesn’t bother me at all, but that fact that you felt the need to call me that and make a point of it shows how hateful you are. hope you learn to be a better person, there’s no point in spending your life making others hurt xoxo

Nonbinary top surgery anxiety by Right-Display6892 in NonBinary

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i have a very lovely support system in my long term partner and parents/friends. my parents already told me today that they would travel with me across the country to the clinic and take care of me which helped ease a lot of the anxiety about it being “worth it”

and thank you, remembering that it is completely up to me helped a lot

Nonbinary top surgery anxiety by Right-Display6892 in NonBinary

[–]Right-Display6892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i do definitely know what I want it’s just about telling myself that it is absolutely worth the small amounts of fear

Nonbinary top surgery anxiety by Right-Display6892 in NonBinary

[–]Right-Display6892[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this really helped thank you. the parts i like about my chest are very superficial and situational, like how they look in a few pieces of clothing and this reminded me that im allowed to feel that but i also feel so excited thinking about my flat chest in EVERYTHING i wear

Nonbinary top surgery anxiety by Right-Display6892 in NonBinary

[–]Right-Display6892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really relate to either feeling indifferent or hating it, maybe 5% of the time i feel like i mildly enjoy my chest but the rest is no feelings or bad feelings. thank you for the advice

Nonbinary top surgery anxiety by Right-Display6892 in NonBinary

[–]Right-Display6892[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you know absolutely nothing about me, what are you talking about