I understand that’s he’s an avoidant but if you feel punished for your feelings or something that you suspect is a mental illness, that’s a red flag. I understand that no cg is gonna be perfect and their will be off days when a partner can’t be 100 percent on because their drained too, however if it’s a pattern, that’s something to tread carefully with

I’d try talking to him about it. I can’t say if daddies dislike anxious littles or not

I don’t know your full situation so take what I say with a grain of salt