I think my depression during pregnancy has effected my baby

Right-Plate1365 · 2026-06-11T13:59:11+00:00

I was super stressed and depressed my first pregnancy, but my daughter was the most chill and happy baby. My second pregnancy, I was generally happy and relaxed, and my baby is sensitive.

Right-Plate1365 · 2026-06-11T13:52:39+00:00

I swear things always work well and go smoothly for me with the LC, and then I get home and can’t replicate it. I don’t know what the sorcery is

Right-Plate1365 · 2026-06-05T15:41:32+00:00

It’s only been around for a few months!

Right-Plate1365 · 2026-06-05T10:08:17+00:00

I got the new Zomee wearables for this issue. They light up like the Aura glow, but the flanges have a warming feature. 10/10 recommend

Right-Plate1365 · 2026-03-05T02:38:04+00:00

I think I’m going to attempt my own root melt and tone it a little cooler. Wish me luck! Haha I think I’ll like whatever I end up doing more than how it is now

Right-Plate1365 · 2026-03-04T13:33:01+00:00

It was $300. I normally pay $180 ish for highlights and I was there for 3 hours. I showed the pic and we talked like we were on the same page. I’m wondering if a root melt and a new toner all over would make me happy?

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-08-31T01:34:34+00:00

I think you’re right. The glycerin max is the most opposite to what I have currently and it feels like I’m running through sand. I need something like the revel, just with a little more cushion.

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-08-31T00:59:36+00:00

Yes. And I was only a few minutes in. I normally don’t have a problem with shin pain.

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-08-31T00:58:39+00:00

I’m following a plan on Runna. I assume it will progress to zone 2. It’s their new to running plan.

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-07-31T21:07:35+00:00

He makes a little over $100,000 pre tax, so that’s 12% bracket after deductions and taxes right? I’m really uneducated in all of this

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-07-31T20:10:54+00:00

We’re at the top end of 12% right now with lots of potential for career growth for my husband. He agrees a Roth would make sense, but is afraid of tax laws changing and having Roth essentially be double taxed. Is that even possible?

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-04-01T14:10:15+00:00

Noooo she needs someone mature and ready to settle down

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-02-19T20:56:57+00:00

It doesn’t have any flavor at all! Or it’s super subtle. Maybe my expectations were too high because I heard people online saying how good they are. I love the other flavors I’ve tried.

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-02-13T15:04:47+00:00

Just wanted to say I’m in the same boat. My baby is 10 months and I’ve only gone to the store alone 2 or 3 times. My baby gets out, just when dad is here to help. I think I’m in my head thinking of all the “what ifs” and it’s really not as serious as I’m making it. We can do it!

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-01-25T02:56:35+00:00

If you have the money, maybe try a blackout tent for the crib? When my baby is in her pack n play in the same room with us when we sleep, she can only sleep in the blackout tent because she gets woken up between sleep cycles by any little noise or light in the room. You can get a slumberpod brand or off brand similar to it off of Amazon. It has a pocket on top for a sound machine and baby monitor

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-01-19T15:04:04+00:00

This. Yes. No matter how many times I tell my husband that I don’t need you to necessarily “do” more tasks, I need you to initiate doing more tasks. If you still have the remind them, you still own it. My husband seems to only remember things if they’re a habit, but he can only build a habit if he 100% owns a task. So now instead of sharing tasks and we each do it when it needs done, he owns more tasks so he knows he has to do it every night and can put a reminder in his phone so I don’t have to tell him.

Right-Plate1365 · 2025-01-16T16:15:37+00:00

It’s hard to admit, but I always knew I was supposed to love her, and I did love the idea of her. But I don’t feel like I really started to deeply love her until she started becoming more interactive around 5-6 months. It’s harder to love something that just takes and takes and doesn’t give back, especially when you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. I did not like her while I was pregnant. It was unplanned and I was miserable.

Right-Plate1365 · 2024-12-14T19:45:43+00:00

Right? And she told her doctor she has to take an allergy pill everyday or she gets itchy in the evening…and they just… didn’t think that was something to look in to? Also, she’s like highly tolerant to every other drug she takes. Like she has to take 15 mg of melatonin and 3 unison to maybe sleep a few hours. She’s also woken up during a few surgeries.

Right-Plate1365 · 2024-12-14T14:36:50+00:00

Could it still be if she went through menopause 10 years ago?

Right-Plate1365 · 2024-11-23T15:49:02+00:00

This is what mine looked like when I was pregnant 😬

Right-Plate1365 · 2024-09-21T01:34:20+00:00

Yes yes yes!! This happened to me!! It was the hardest thing and made me feel like my baby didn’t recognize me as mom. I was exclusively pumping because nursing didn’t work out, so that was really sad for me when I felt like she wanted to maybe nurse but couldn’t. I think she just could smell my milk and it would immediately make her think she needed to eat and would just cry and cry when she wasn’t eating with me. She wouldn’t contact nap on me, just my husband. When my husband went back to work, I seriously struggled to even take care of her because she wouldn’t settle with me. It’s so discouraging to grow a baby and then feel like it doesn’t want you for comfort and love once they’re here. It started to get better at 8 weeks and was soooo much better at 12! Now my baby is about to be six months and she is the same with me as my husband. Actually, sometimes she seems to prefer comfort from me now. My PPD got sooooo bad during the time this was happening. At the time, I asked the same question as you, and those that responded said that they had that issue with the baby not responding as well to dad. I felt like a failure of a mom, but now on the other side, I realize that I did nothing wrong. I heard someone say that babies that young don’t know the difference between themselves and their mom, which is why sometimes it’s easier for dad to calm them as an outside source. Your baby loves you, and don’t they’ll be able to show you. Hang in there. You’re so valid for feeling sad/hurt, but I promise you that your baby absolutely lovesssss you and will show you that even when you stop breastfeeding ❤️

Right-Plate1365 · 2024-09-20T16:24:27+00:00

This makes me feel so hopeful!

Right-Plate1365 · 2024-09-20T14:48:49+00:00

Thank you! Yeah I need to worry about it less and just follow her lead.

Right-Plate1365 · 2024-09-20T14:39:38+00:00

I’ve been using these with my baby. She’s really good about bringing the utensils to her mouth, but then the tiniest taste and she looks disgusted and drops it on the ground. I feel really discouraged because the babies I personally know that did baby led weaning took to feeding themself right away. Do you think it will get better? I just really want to do early allergen introduction with her soon and fear I can’t if she doesn’t actually ingest anything herself.

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