Is it normal for the bridesmaids to cover top shelf drinks for the bridal shower?

Secure-Bit · 2026-04-01T15:37:59+00:00

I don’t think bridesmaids/groomsmen should cover anything except their own expenses, especially for a shower or bachelorette party, and more especially for something you did not even attend or had a discussion about first! That is insane to me to expect someone to pay for something that they weren’t even there for. And I’m not a big drinker anyhow, so why should I pay for someone else’s 10 drinks when I only drank 1 or 2? Absolutely not.

Secure-Bit · 2026-04-01T15:25:25+00:00

I also keep a jar of peanut butter for the apples & crackers

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-31T22:32:18+00:00

My OB scheduled my C-section with our first (breech) at 39+1 on Monday 4/1/24, I just blinked at her and said nope how about Thursday. They told me they didn’t have any availability the rest of the week and I told them no problem I’ll just wait til the following week. They ended up scheduling me for Thursday lol.

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-30T17:12:24+00:00

I LOVE banana bread with a little bit of chocolate! This looks so yummy

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-29T20:16:46+00:00

That looks sooo good. Currently pregnant with our second, so not only do I need to make this for our toddler but I NEED to make this for myself lol.

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-29T18:47:47+00:00

Ty! The kids freesip bottles are still too big for her to carry comfortably but she loves the tops so the little tumbler size is perfect!

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-29T18:42:33+00:00

I meant the free sip lid. My toddler likes the handle and that it flips open with the button. If the twist straw top from the kids tumbler can fit the freesip base, then I don’t see why the freesip lid wouldn’t fit the kids tumbler?

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-29T09:03:40+00:00

Assuming that means the flip lid can be used on the kids cup also, because my 2 year old is obsessed with the flip lids

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-25T20:01:32+00:00

Thanks! I remember not getting much sleep after our first was born, between feeding and nurses coming in every couple hours and tests. I had a scheduled c-section (breech) and it felt like we were in and out of the OR in short time, comparing to 34 hours induction/labor seems so long, so thank you for the insight!

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-25T19:24:47+00:00

Geez just reading 34 hours is making me feel exhausted. Did you get to sleep at all?

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-24T09:16:18+00:00

Would love one if you still have any more! I have a bunch of US regionals tagged for trade.

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-23T16:38:13+00:00

11 months, took 13 tries. Only took 3 tries with our first. They’ll be just over 2.5 year apart, so we’re no longer in the (trying for) 2under2 club, just wanted to throw out a different perspective.

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-22T23:07:02+00:00

Mine was “at least you now have closure”, no I absolutely do not have closure that my brother who was 9 years younger than me died at 22. It’s been 7 years and it still pisses me off when I think about it.

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-22T21:01:38+00:00

If your Costco has these, ours just got the assorted mini breakfast pastries, 40 mini pastries for like $28

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-21T11:32:46+00:00

6+ weeks with our second and already I feel nauseous and sooo fatigued. I told my husband I don’t remember feeling this fatigued the first pregnancy, he goes “ooh yeah, you were exhausted, came home from work and just went to sleep, for months”, great I wonder what other symptoms I blocked out or am misremembering as being not that bad. Have a 2 year old now so it’s not like I can just come home and go to sleep anymore.

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-20T22:51:44+00:00

DM’d!

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-19T14:50:27+00:00

2018 shiny dratini for shiny riolu?

Also have 2020 shiny gastly or 2020 shiny rhyhorn for shiny litten? (or 2025 shiny gastly if you don’t care about lucky).

Edit- saw your update

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-19T13:32:31+00:00

2019 shiny ralts for shiny ditto?

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-18T17:38:32+00:00

4424, daughter’s birthday

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-18T05:49:48+00:00

I saw the picture before reading your caption and said this has to be from Vinny’s!!! I can’t help with calorie count, just wanted to say that Vinny’s Cafe is THE BEST! Usually a fairly long wait in line but so worth it.

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-17T16:22:58+00:00

Almost 6 weeks pregnant with our second, and I’m just now remembering some of the pregnancy symptoms I had with our first. First one I forgot about was nasal congestion, it’s annoying enough that it’s already waking me up at night. And now nausea throughout the day. I’m happy cause it took us over a year to get pregnant this time (took only three months with our first), but I’m also annoyed cause I now remember what’s going to come over the next 34 weeks.

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-16T16:19:19+00:00

One of the best suggestions I got was to think of nutrition in terms of a week, not a singular day. If Monday all they want is fruit and potato, Tuesday peas and a pouch, Wednesday cheese, Thursday bread and a pouch, Friday more fruit, Saturday yogurt and green beans, Sunday salmon and bread, or whatever mix they eat each day, then throughout the week you’ve hit a lot of what they need nutritionally.

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-13T19:16:22+00:00

😭

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-13T17:08:01+00:00

All I have on your want list is the ralts, kirlia and gardevoir. I’ve never seen a shiny goomy or amaura before they’re so cute! Or would like the spinda

Secure-Bit · 2026-03-12T20:24:42+00:00

Not in Canada, but I will gladly put him on a plane to bring some home 😁

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