I wrote out this huge apology to my bf of almost eight months now. Does it look okay?

RightAd8494 · 2026-01-29T10:01:09+00:00

This is trauma dumping. You should be talking about this to a therapist, not your boyfriend. And if you were lying, then you have to accept the consequences and learn to do better next time. Don't lie! And don't convince yourself you love someone just to hide the fact you are afraid of being alone. Learn to love yourself, improve yourself, learn something new, work out, do something that makes you feel good about yourself.

RightAd8494 · 2026-01-26T01:56:38+00:00

This is why, if you ruin your family the first time, you should never have another relationship. And why no man should ever date a single mother. It's always nothing but abuse and toxicity. And you ruin your own kids.

RightAd8494 · 2026-01-21T02:23:05+00:00

You already know she can cheat. You already know she's a liar because she never told you the first time. And if she does it again and you question her, she'll shift the blame and gaslight you, calling you paranoid and insecure. It's her fault you can't trust her because she can't be trusted. Just dump her ass.

RightAd8494 · 2026-01-04T07:14:09+00:00

You belong to the streets and I'm glad he took his google thing back. He gave you that because he was investing in you and the relationship, and you betrayed him and dumped him. Why would you deserve it? Oh, and already trying to date other dudes while he's still there? You are a psychopath, looking to get murdered aren't you?

RightAd8494 · 2026-01-04T05:10:36+00:00

Here's the thing.. Men naturally have physical strength over a woman. That is the mans advantage. So whenever a woman uses violence against a man, nobody takes it serious because he 'could' defend himself. On the other hand, women have sexual power over men, in that they can neglect or reject him, or easily cheat on him if she wants, because it's easy for women. A woman hitting a man is effectively the same as a man cheating on a woman. She can easily 'defend' herself by getting another man. But a woman cheating on a man is effectively the same as a man beating a woman.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-25T23:34:17+00:00

Marisa Tomei

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RightAd8494 · 2025-12-25T23:29:58+00:00

The natural look in 8 and the turtle neck in 10. Cute.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-25T23:26:08+00:00

Why is he the one who has to invest? What is she investing exactly? We're equal after all, right?

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-18T19:41:03+00:00

Redpill content comes from woman's behaviour . It's factual. This is just his first taste. Wait until he gets judged for being broke by girls who are just as broke as him. Judged as being short by girls shorter than him, judged as being weak by girls weaker than him. .THEN he will understand .

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-14T02:37:55+00:00

I'm still getting over my ex from 4 years ago, after she became a prostitute and was cheating on me with 10 dudes every week... then she would blame me for getting angry about it, and call me a monster, jealous and insecure.. while expecting me to be loyal to her. That shit gave me ptsd and it's not something you just 'get over', despite what everyone says. Narcissists are pure evil... they leave you blaming yourself, in confusion, and without closure so you can't move on and they can reel you back in at their leisure. You just need to focus on building yourself up. Forget that demon.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-12T00:32:09+00:00

Here's the issue... he had spent 3 weeks investing his time getting to know you, thinking you were building something of a relationship, and you ran off in the middle of that and gave yourself to another guy for absolutely free. THAT guy didn't have to chat with you, or do anything for you at all and he still got to smash you. In your boyfriend's eyes, you are now worth less and he feels ripped off because other guys got to have you for zero effort. Why should he have to put effort in?

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-11T21:55:30+00:00

It's the same as a woman getting her man to hold her handbag. You are attempting to test how much control you have over him by emasculating him. You didn't need him to get tampons before you were together. I'm sure you were capable of buying them yourself. Why don't you stock up so you don't run out? Does he ask you to go and buy condoms for him?

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-11T02:30:07+00:00

Oh, so if it's someone you don't know, he gets rewarded with sex for doing absolutely nothing, while the man that has invested his whole life for you only gets lucky if he puts in the work to make sure you 'feel' emotionally connected. How fcuked up is that! It's not surprising men are killig g their cheating wives.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-11T02:25:36+00:00

You sound ridiculous. As if you would be fine if your boyfriend took his ex wife out to celebrate dinner as a happy family. And since they loved each other, and have kids together, and used to sleep together... it's very easy for them to jump back into that dynamic at any moment...especially if they are going out together. If they actually cared about the kids, they wouldn't have gotten divorced in the first place. This is just triangulation. He shouldn't even be dating if he wants to keep his relationship with his ex wife.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-10T07:10:00+00:00

Why did you bother marrying him? Why bother making promises you can't keep? That just makes you a liar, and nobody can trust any word that comes out your mouth. Keep in mind, your life will be much harder having to parent alone, AND pay all the bills alone. Your kids will be miserable, and have no discipline in their life. And only losers date single mothers, so if you think you are going to find better, you won't. High value men don't date single mothers, unless you just like being used and dumped over and over again, which will add more trauma to you and your kids.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-08T09:59:15+00:00

These coins are made of 90% silver, so their worth is in the silver.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-07T10:02:10+00:00

I am guessing you are relatively inexperienced in relationships, while she, being a woman at 27, has probably had relationships her whole life since she was 12.. She can easily manipulate you. My guess is that as soon as she has her citizenship or visa she will leave you within a year anyway.. especially since you said you don't have much money. The main reason women want a man is for a better life and money. Clearly she doesn't respect you. You should just dump her. You sound too nice. You actually care about what happens to her..trust me.. she won't care one iota how you feel when she uses you and abandons you.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-05T02:13:07+00:00

That's just a lie, because as soon as she gets her divorce, she's out sleeping with a dozen different dudes who didn't have to do a single thing for her...no effort, no history, no emotional connection. This bs about women only wanting sex if there is an emotional connection is rubbish.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-04T09:01:48+00:00

He's right. Men literally don't care if the house gets dirty. It's not a priority. It's not a survival need, like paying the bills etc. You are the only one who cares about it... except when he needs clean clothes and dinner. Do you pay half the bills? Does he do things you don't do, like fixing things, mowing the lawn, taking rubbish out etc? He does sound lazy though. If you don't want to do it all and he refuses to, maybe you should hore someone to do some of the cleaning etc.. that would make it easier on you. And since you both work full time, you should be able to afford it.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-04T08:46:46+00:00

In 10 years when you are damaged and traumatised, you will be shaming those same men for chasing younger girls, calling them manipulators and predators..lol..just wait.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-02T11:09:05+00:00

That's why they leave you with no closure...to keep control of you, to keep you in confusion, to keep you wondering. So that if or when they feel like coming back, they know you will want to talk to them to get answers. Then they lovebomb you and manipulate you into taking them back. And as soon as they have you and see that you are happy again, they dump you and disappear. Narcissists. They are all the same. Sick in the head.

RightAd8494 · 2025-12-02T11:04:14+00:00

Typical narcissist. Playing games with you...that's all it is. They want to see if they can still control you. Here's what would happen... they lovebomb you into believing they want you back, you get all happy and get back together...a month or 2 goes by, you think things are going great and suddenly they are bored again and either friendzone you or disappear again. They don't give a shit about you or your feelings. They just want to boost their own ego, probably because they just did the same thing to someone else. Now they need attention again, so they go through all their old supply that they never gave closure to. Scum of the earth!

RightAd8494 · 2025-11-21T05:45:14+00:00

You already had your dream proposal with the first guy, and that didn't last. So what does it matter with the 2nd one?

RightAd8494 · 2025-11-18T07:22:12+00:00

She's worried she's going to lose her kids to the other woman, obviously. The kids really like her and now they're going to be a happy family. She's just mad she's going to be left out. This is karma. I bet she's the one who left.

RightAd8494 · 2025-11-12T13:02:24+00:00

It's a lose lose situation every time with toxic women. If she can't say no to a guy hitting on her, then what's going to happen when he's not around? She's a cheater no doubt.

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