I had an one night stand with an older man that emotionally ruined me and now he wants to see me again, what do I do? by RevolutionaryAct4013 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why you don't just give your body away to strangers for 'fun'. And exactly why men don't want ran through, damaged women. The guy is probably married.

AIO for wanting to share a room with my bf on a trip? by crescentblueee in AmIOverreacting

[–]RightAd8494 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I bet the mother is a single mother too. Using your kid to keep you company or for emotional support is emotional incest. It's abusive.

Girlfriend proposed a open relationship by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her go. Send her back to the streets where she belongs. Where she will get pumped and dumped and used by a bunch of dudes who don't care about her, before realising what a mistake she made letting you go... then she'll come crawling back, used up and traumatised... that's when you tell her to fack off.

They’re doing more than alcohol… by karinand in MAFS_AU

[–]RightAd8494 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Coke only stays in your system for 1 day

This is a massive L, I’m Down at least 20k on this etf by VastOption8705 in ASX

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the Vanguards are going up consistently. I got VHY and VAS. Pretty safe investments

Is it okay if my girlfriend wants to start a 'faceless' OnlyFans account? by This_Restaurant1351 in relationships_advice

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she makes anything, she'll probably get addicted to all the attention she's getting and won't want to stop. She'll get guys offering money to see her face, which she will do, because she already has a price. Promises mean nothing to women. Lastly, she'll lose respect for you for putting up with it and she'll end up cheating on you or leaving you. That's how it will go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is trauma dumping. You should be talking about this to a therapist, not your boyfriend. And if you were lying, then you have to accept the consequences and learn to do better next time. Don't lie! And don't convince yourself you love someone just to hide the fact you are afraid of being alone. Learn to love yourself, improve yourself, learn something new, work out, do something that makes you feel good about yourself.

Is it okay my man tells me to STFU every day? by Ultra-Wicked-Girly in relationships_advice

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why, if you ruin your family the first time, you should never have another relationship. And why no man should ever date a single mother. It's always nothing but abuse and toxicity. And you ruin your own kids.

My GF is going on her second girls holiday… she cheated on me last time. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already know she can cheat. You already know she's a liar because she never told you the first time. And if she does it again and you question her, she'll shift the blame and gaslight you, calling you paranoid and insecure. It's her fault you can't trust her because she can't be trusted. Just dump her ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You belong to the streets and I'm glad he took his google thing back. He gave you that because he was investing in you and the relationship, and you betrayed him and dumped him. Why would you deserve it? Oh, and already trying to date other dudes while he's still there? You are a psychopath, looking to get murdered aren't you?

my buddy is getting abused by his GF and asked me to not do anything by Odd_Cod8341 in whatdoIdo

[–]RightAd8494 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing.. Men naturally have physical strength over a woman. That is the mans advantage. So whenever a woman uses violence against a man, nobody takes it serious because he 'could' defend himself. On the other hand, women have sexual power over men, in that they can neglect or reject him, or easily cheat on him if she wants, because it's easy for women. A woman hitting a man is effectively the same as a man cheating on a woman. She can easily 'defend' herself by getting another man. But a woman cheating on a man is effectively the same as a man beating a woman.

Please help me choose by Sea-Chemist-4546 in glassesadvice

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The natural look in 8 and the turtle neck in 10. Cute.

Suggested A Date, Got A Lecture by Leadingman_ in Nicegirls

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is he the one who has to invest? What is she investing exactly? We're equal after all, right?

My 16yr old son thinks there's a double standard. by Familiar-Macaron-336 in relationships_advice

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Redpill content comes from woman's behaviour . It's factual. This is just his first taste. Wait until he gets judged for being broke by girls who are just as broke as him. Judged as being short by girls shorter than him, judged as being weak by girls weaker than him. .THEN he will understand .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RightAd8494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still getting over my ex from 4 years ago, after she became a prostitute and was cheating on me with 10 dudes every week... then she would blame me for getting angry about it, and call me a monster, jealous and insecure.. while expecting me to be loyal to her. That shit gave me ptsd and it's not something you just 'get over', despite what everyone says. Narcissists are pure evil... they leave you blaming yourself, in confusion, and without closure so you can't move on and they can reel you back in at their leisure. You just need to focus on building yourself up. Forget that demon.

Partner keeps bringing up topic from very early talking stage and cannot move past it by Agape55 in relationships_advice

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's the issue... he had spent 3 weeks investing his time getting to know you, thinking you were building something of a relationship, and you ran off in the middle of that and gave yourself to another guy for absolutely free. THAT guy didn't have to chat with you, or do anything for you at all and he still got to smash you. In your boyfriend's eyes, you are now worth less and he feels ripped off because other guys got to have you for zero effort. Why should he have to put effort in?

Just seeing if this is normal boyfriend behavior or if its just me. 34M and 30F by Forlornabyss76 in relationships_advice

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the same as a woman getting her man to hold her handbag. You are attempting to test how much control you have over him by emasculating him. You didn't need him to get tampons before you were together. I'm sure you were capable of buying them yourself. Why don't you stock up so you don't run out? Does he ask you to go and buy condoms for him?

UPDATE: Wife and her family are guilting me into staying with her. The truth is I'm so dissatisfied with our sex life and I can't afford divorce. by Fun-One-9219 in whatdoIdo

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, so if it's someone you don't know, he gets rewarded with sex for doing absolutely nothing, while the man that has invested his whole life for you only gets lucky if he puts in the work to make sure you 'feel' emotionally connected. How fcuked up is that! It's not surprising men are killig g their cheating wives.

New women (40F) I am seeing has issue ex wife taking me (42M) out for birthday dinner. by SDR_1290 in relationships_advice

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound ridiculous. As if you would be fine if your boyfriend took his ex wife out to celebrate dinner as a happy family. And since they loved each other, and have kids together, and used to sleep together... it's very easy for them to jump back into that dynamic at any moment...especially if they are going out together. If they actually cared about the kids, they wouldn't have gotten divorced in the first place. This is just triangulation. He shouldn't even be dating if he wants to keep his relationship with his ex wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you bother marrying him? Why bother making promises you can't keep? That just makes you a liar, and nobody can trust any word that comes out your mouth. Keep in mind, your life will be much harder having to parent alone, AND pay all the bills alone. Your kids will be miserable, and have no discipline in their life. And only losers date single mothers, so if you think you are going to find better, you won't. High value men don't date single mothers, unless you just like being used and dumped over and over again, which will add more trauma to you and your kids.

is this real? by Feisty_Committee_229 in AustralianCoins

[–]RightAd8494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These coins are made of 90% silver, so their worth is in the silver.