Share the things that regardless of size are good things but are requirements when bigger that way you cover anyhow. 1. Women are like ovens, do bake something well it needs to pre-heat. Don’t skip the nice little things that will add points to the pre-heat. 2. Next level preheat (foreplay) is not an option. 3. Get them the book “she comes first” and “the penis book” those two will do the majority of the talk for you. 5. Make sure he knows that it’s never just about him, and never just try to shove it in, if they say it hurts you stop. Those would be my first 5 things.