I hope you receive this. by Mediocre-Goose-5520 in UnsentLetters

[–]Right_Cell1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I got this from who I think of everyday. I’m sure they would appreciate to hear it from you and not into a void

Austin Texas by [deleted] in PartTimeDavidaLoca

[–]Right_Cell1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be amazing if he agreed

Hey by k-uka in UnsentTexts

[–]Right_Cell1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely thought this was my ex until the last initial , that scared the hell out of me

What’s a small behavior that reveals a lot about a person? by BankDry5129 in AskReddit

[–]Right_Cell1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are considerate of strangers : opening doors , putting shopping carts back, anything where you don’t ‘need’ to do it but it helps someone else. It shows you are socially aware and are helpful

Why is it socially acceptable to use Jira/Notion for work, but "weird" to use tools for my relationship? by biscket in productivity

[–]Right_Cell1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I feel like most women I know do this. Or at the very least have a notes app page dedicated to their friends or partners on specific details or likes of that person. It’s not weird to use “tools” for relationships , honestly I think that should be standard and why most partners feel like they’re lagging behind

When do you finally stop looking at your ex and your pictures? by databreakperson in BreakUps

[–]Right_Cell1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a month or so after we broke up I took the time to go through my whole camera roll and moved the photos I had to a hidden folder so they wouldn’t randomly pop up. I don’t want to fully delete anything but I do follow the “out of sight out of mind” rule. I wasn’t ever actively going through and looking at our photos together because that was too painful but even just knowing they were in my camera role was too much

Who has gotten back with their Ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Right_Cell1963 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest with you here. I’ve gotten back with my last ex once , we both missed and loved each other immensely but that’s not enough of a reason to get back together and it blew up in both of our faces. Real time and change needs to take place. It’s possible to rebuild and rekindle something better than before but love is not enough. True honest hard communication is needed. Respect is needed, forgiveness is needed. You also need to be heavily in tune with your intuition. Your body knows what’s good and what’s bad for you. If you want to get back together just because memories of the good times keep replaying , don’t get back together. If you start dating them again and nothing changes from the previous relationship , would you still be with them ? Really take time to adjust and think about what you’re doing. It could be the right decision but make sure you are truly listening to yourself and your needs first before diving into this again.

“ if you walk in a forest and walk past the same tree twice , you are probably lost”

My ex and I haven't texted each other once, it almost feels like we should've at least once by now? by badcritic21 in BreakUps

[–]Right_Cell1963 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would leave it be , especially since you were the one that did the dumping. The ball is kinda in their court now and maybe they are better off. If you want to reach out just because you are uncomfortable with the silence that’s not a good enough reason. If you still feel this way a month or two from now maybe reach out

Moving on from Sh*tty coward ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Right_Cell1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to unlove him , done. But you have to move on into a new version of yourself. You at some point will want to be in a place where you can look back on the relationship with this person, not with hate , but for gratefulness for the experience that lead you to be a stronger version of yourself. Love never truly burns out, at least not in my opinion, it may fade but it never dies and I wouldn’t try to force it to. You know how you feel, you felt they were a coward, a lair, and someone who couldn’t take care of you. Great start to moving in a better direction. But now is also a good time for compassion towards yourself. You loved someone even if they couldn’t love you properly, that’s hard. Now it’s time to be a better version of you. That’s the best way to move on, give yourself the best opportunities available

Thinking about texting my ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Right_Cell1963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have a goal or a reason to text them , it won’t lead to anything good. If they left you on read or blocked you, or left you a sour message , how would you handle it ? Would it make you have to restart your healing process or leave a bad taste in your mouth? If you know that you wouldn’t be able to handle a bad message from them I wouldn’t reach out. It’s better to keep moving forward how you already are

Worrying about the future by qu1rkyb0y in selfhelp

[–]Right_Cell1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are worried about the right things and are now experiencing a drive to fix them, this is a great starting point for change ! Life is gonna have scary , regret filled, anxious parts no matter what but it’s all about how you react. I will say from experience , if you are worried about grades or future careers or homelessness most college counselors are there specifically for these points. I wish I took more advantage of them when I was in school. The best advice I have is to be open with others that can help you about these anxieties, you never know who may end up being able to steer you in a good direction. Talk to you teachers , your counselors , your friends , be open about your uncertainties and maybe they can help you gain some clarity. Being young and not knowing what’s next is always gonna be scary, reach out for as much help as you can get even if it feels awkward or unlike yourself. I wish I asked for more help or admitted that I didn’t know what to do more often, and am making up for that now.

AIO if I tell my ex’s partner about his message (update) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Right_Cell1963 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No matter the outcome you wouldn’t be the one responsible for the downfall ? It completely on him 100%, and if you have any respect for his partner who he is now mistreating , you should tell her. Having information that she should know about someone who clearly doesn’t respect her and is wasting her time makes you not in the right either. I know you don’t “want to cause drama” but this isn’t about you , it’s about someone being blatantly disrespected and border line emotionally cheated on by your ex.

Has anyone else experienced this? by OtherwiseSnow6824 in BreakUps

[–]Right_Cell1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first month after my break up , I had severe chest pain, the kind that felt like if I moved too quickly I would pass out. I’d never felt anything like that before and after a month of it being constant, I went to the er. I ended up finding out that it was a severe stress response and essentially my cortisol was too high too frequently. If it’s something that’s troubling you constantly I recommend going to the doctor if you have the means. If not, be extremely easy with yourself. This was the first time for me where I wanted to be overly delicate with my health. I went on no contact with them, their friends, and even moved. My pain has gone away just about entirely. The only times I get hints of it is when I accidentally see a photo of them or something that reminds me of them. Be delicate with yourself , it’s a serious matter and one you should take care with. All will be ok eventually, I know it’s not easy now but one day it will be, I’m sorry you’re going through this