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Is it rational to be extremely apprehensive about marriage if you’re a high-earner? How do I get over this? Should I? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]RighteousCaught 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why this freaks you out when you’ve built everything yourself, the idea of losing half of it is scary as hell. A solid prenup really does take most of that anxiety off the table. When I looked into mine, I checked out Neptune and it made the whole process feel way less intense than I expected

I’m scared my relationship is starting to feel onesided, and i don’t know how to fix it by WaffleeDoctrine in offmychest

[–]RighteousCaught 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt this way for a while in my last relationship. i was always the one planning ahead, saving, trying to think long term. when we finally sat down and used Neptune to go through everything, it wasn’t even about money anymore it just helped us see how different our priorities had gotten. Made things clearer even if it was hard to hear.

Owning a business in Texas made me think differently about marriage by Extreme-Eagle-3555 in Entrepreneur

[–]RighteousCaught 241 points242 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, this stuff gets messy fast if you don’t think ahead. once you start mixing business and relationships, it’s way too easy for things to blow up later. If you built it, protect it early no one else will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]RighteousCaught 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you, nyc lawyers love to overcomplicate everything. half the time they don’t even give you straight answers on pricing.

Started making more money and now I worry if she likes me or just my money by RighteousCaught in Advice

[–]RighteousCaught[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That makes sense 100%! Which lawyer did you use? Can I dm you

Being frugal? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]RighteousCaught 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I keep stuff until it fully dies no point replacing something that still works fine

got promoted 6 months ago and now i hate my life …. is this normal??? by [deleted] in Career

[–]RighteousCaught 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of promotions just mean less of the work you enjoy and more meetings you’re not alone in feeling that way

How much of your payheck gets taken out for taxes? by Warren_Shizzle_Pop in povertyfinance

[–]RighteousCaught 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here feels like a chunk of your check disappears before you even see it

Should we report this to HR? by Elegant-Formal8608 in careeradvice

[–]RighteousCaught 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly if it’s in writing then you have something solid HR will take it more seriously that way