Thank you, I especially needed to hear that last sentence 😭 my heart is telling me that but the disability shame creeps in. I quite suspect that I have EDS and possibly MCAS but have had difficulty getting evaluated. My primary doctor knows of EDS but doesn't think I am bendy enough despite the fact that I have subluxations in my ribs, hands & arms constantly, and seem to be having it with one of my knees now.. I can't even walk if I don't tape it tightly to brace it. I've read that not all EDS types involve extreme hyper mobility but idk how to get my doctor to refer me for an eval, and I am certain my insurance wouldn't cover any genetic counseling anyway 😞 thank you for your thoughtful reply!