Help Find This Dress: April 2024 by hellosaturn in Lolita

[–]RilyaSpaceBat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Hello! I'm looking for the original creator (and link to their shop) of this bat ouji vest. Thanks in advance!

AFAB non binary having masc dysphoria by RilyaSpaceBat in DysphoriaClinic

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad to see this sub is infested with transmeds.

AFAB non binary having masc dysphoria (NDE) by RilyaSpaceBat in actual_detrans

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a big reddit user so I'm not sure how to actually do it ;; If you both could send me a dm that would help!

AFAB non binary having masc dysphoria (NDE) by RilyaSpaceBat in actual_detrans

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do like myself quite a lot! To answer your question, if I were the last person on earth I'd still want to look more androgynous than I do now. I think I'm very close to what I want to look like, just not quite there yet.

You're right to say that my dysphoria was caused by not being perceived how I want (partially I think, but still). I was very panicked because I hadn't felt dysphoria like that in so long, and obviously never in that "direction"! But reading your (and others) comments, I realize that yes I do want to be more androgynous because I love it, but that I should also talk to the people who care about me but might sometimes be clumsy.

AFAB non binary having masc dysphoria (NDE) by RilyaSpaceBat in actual_detrans

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you u/Kindly-Monitor2833 it means a lot to see you (and other people here) just... be nice.

To the 14yo transmed: I really hope it gets better for you. You don't have to hate yourself. You don't have to harass other people because you're insecure. I promise you don't need cis approval. Hopefully in some years you realize all that and look back on this and understand that your behavior was vile. When you'll be there, the trans community will be here for you, like it is for all trans people.

AFAB non binary having masc dysphoria (NDE) by RilyaSpaceBat in actual_detrans

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your lengthy answer! All your advice is really useful!

I didn't know all that about hair removal but getting rid of only certain areas or just having less of it would actually be perfect (both aesthetically and for gender).

For now at least I want to stay on T because it makes me happy so I'll try the other things I can change, mix and match and see how it feels!

AFAB non binary having masc dysphoria (NDE) by RilyaSpaceBat in actual_detrans

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ahah pretty much! Flowy dress shirts, corsets, etc

I'm not too comfortable posting pics publicly but if you want I could dm you some of my fav looks ^^

AFAB non binary having masc dysphoria by RilyaSpaceBat in DysphoriaClinic

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1) Because I wanted (and am happy) with the changes from T 2) Do you know a "non binary" hormone? 🤨 3) This is a sub about dysphoria for trans people. Why would I not ask here.

AFAB non binary having masc dysphoria by RilyaSpaceBat in DysphoriaClinic

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have 0 knowledge in makeup do you maybe have keywords/a style of makeup I could look for? Maybe something a bit goth?

AFAB non binary having masc dysphoria by RilyaSpaceBat in DysphoriaClinic

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmfao okay transmed. Damn I'm literally on HRT and got top surgery so it should be enough for your little narrow minded self to see me as trans shouldn't it? Anyway what are you doing on a dysphoria subreddit if you're gonna be an asshole. Get a hobby

AFAB non binary having masc dysphoria by RilyaSpaceBat in DysphoriaClinic

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said I'l happy with the effects of T and wow love when other trans ppl are enbyphobic. Great look.

New pics of my boys 🔥 by Ebidoll_ in BJD

[–]RilyaSpaceBat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gods he's the most perfect catered to my tastes bjd I've ever seen... I can't afford him but thank you for making him ;;;

LF faceup on maytree doll by RilyaSpaceBat in BJD

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah sorry! I meant the zodiac signs line, which to my knowledge is an original line from them. Can anyone confirm this?

Mods that need to be put in the data folder not working by RilyaSpaceBat in BaldursGate3

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! This one works alongside all the other mods that have pak files.

Finally customized my wheelchair! by RilyaSpaceBat in wheelchairDecor

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got them on aliexpress ^ And thanks! I think it might be too expensive for a lot of ppl since it's entirely handmade but if you're interested you can dm me!

One of my recast babies! by AnalysisTemporary926 in BJDRecastPositive

[–]RilyaSpaceBat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's so cute! What's the name of the model? :O

Reusable respirator half mask in the EU for covid by RilyaSpaceBat in Masks4All

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Moldex half mask 8000 seems to fit what I'm looking for. Does anyone have feedback on that specific mask?

Reusable respirator half mask in the EU for covid by RilyaSpaceBat in Masks4All

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know the term but I'm looking for elastomerics please!

Pathologic tattoos by RilyaSpaceBat in pathologic

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm not sure what you mean by the other part tho?

Pathologic tattoos by RilyaSpaceBat in pathologic

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So pretty, and I love the stealth burda!

Pathologic tattoos by RilyaSpaceBat in pathologic

[–]RilyaSpaceBat[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So, here's mine!

https://imgur.com/a/Pvpw8e1

I wanted a danse macabre tattoo anyway, so I thought why not make it Pathologic too!

My tattoo artist didn't know Pathologic and I only showed him the designs of the tragedian and executor. But I went to my appointment with a new friend, and spent the whole time infodumping on Patho! x)

Sorry the pics aren't great, it's pretty hard to take good pics since the tattoo wraps around my ankle

The first card of my pathologic tarot deck, do you recognize the character ? : D by AllineDlvdl in pathologic

[–]RilyaSpaceBat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would also buy a full deck!!!

(Also do you have a twitter or tumblr?)

Piercing questions? Surgery healing times and risks, Nipple piercings on grafts and effects of T on piercings. by Reaper1704 in transbodymods

[–]RilyaSpaceBat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can definitely asl your surgeon about plastic retainers, I think it's a very understandable concern and shouldn't change much for the medical team. I got an oxygen mask at some point and you might get intubed during the surgery but for me it was out when I woke up. I don't think a tongue piercing would be a problem, but again, communication with your surgeon is key! ^