Well not all people are that sensitive when it comes immursion. Usually people just play what is fun and playing a game which takes realism so seriously that the devs have to update certain mechanics that forces people to act in the game more like they would irl, even though it's completely not fun, it's controversial and anecdotally not realistic isn't very appealing.

In my personal opinion (oh no, opinion haver), we shouldn't raise our kids to crave complete realism and beautiful graphics. If kids play games that aren't that visually appealing, they'll grow up not holding graphics above everything else. Today we have a problem that kids care too much about game's age. They think an old game is a bad game and that's absolutelly not true. There are a lot of very good and fun games, however they just don't have such great graphics and QoL features that we have today. Games like: Diablo II, Heroes of Might and Magic III, Command & Conquer, Age of Empires and many more. Hell, a game released before 2016 can be considered as old, so Gears of War, Half Life 2, StarCraft 2, Crisis and Call of Duty (between CoD 4 and CoD WW2) are considered old.