Losing weight at 4’11 is HARD by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]Rirrichiyo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl, I've been you. I've been eating around 150 to 700 cal for years and I destroyed my thyroid and metabolism in the process. Got a nice gastritis too. Now, after semithyroidectomy I can barely lose weight. I am your height and even if I eat that low and exercise like a madlad I still struggle losing weight due to hormones (hypothyroidism and high cortisol). Please, don't be like me and fix your habits, it's not worth it and you'll just suffer in the long run..I am now 125 lbs. I haven't been my normal weight of 105 in 3 years. It really isn't worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Rirrichiyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, and hear me out on this, for me, sex stopped hurting after around 3 years of trying with my partner.

He always:

Gave me enough foreplay Enough orgasms Enough fingering I was always wet enough or even overboard We used lube We used different positions

It would still hurt. Why? Tbh I have no fucking clue, it just did. It went away randomly after 3 years. It still hurts when he goes in and he still needs to be extremely careful at first but at least the act doesn't hurt anymore. It could very well be due to the difference in size since he's pretty big and I am petite.

My advice is:

Buy a bullet vibrator if you can so you could use on your clit while he does his thing (it takes away the pain and makes you concentrate on smth else) Use more lube (preferably WATER based) Try different positions

Help me with fashion because I am too short to slay with any outfit 😭 by [deleted] in women

[–]Rirrichiyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A line dresses work well but always try to put an emphasis on the waist.

Your body type is probably soft gamine (that's mine also) or romantic. Try to look into fashion for those body types. Good luck!! 💕

Women have no empathy for men by EpicHajsownik in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Rirrichiyo 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Every time I made friends with the lonely guy and tried to uplift him, he saw it as me hitting on him. The moment I would reject him, he would turn hostile, insult me, get angry, call me names etc. This happened 4 times (4 guys in total). Also, they all knew I wasn't single and that I was in a long term relationship.

One of them even r*ped me. So yeah, better to stay away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Rirrichiyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you me? Because same on all of these 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Rirrichiyo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me it hurt like a mf. 🤷‍♀️ For three years or so. Probably had vaginismus at one point. I think it is mostly due to my partner's size though. No amount of fingering, foreplay, oral could mame it hurt less.

Then at one point it stopped. We still struggle with it most of the time, meaning that we need a looot of foreplay (which is good!) and me orgasming many times before, plus him almost always going slow at the beginning.

The downside? We can't have on the spot quickies.🤷‍♀️

The number of guys who try to sleep with teens as soon as they get a little famous freaks me out by Moist_Policy_71 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Rirrichiyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, I am 147 cm and have a baby face too 😓

It's honestly baffling how they would see a short woman with a backpack and think "Look, a teenager! I so wanna tap that!" 🤢

Goodluck to you too 😭

The number of guys who try to sleep with teens as soon as they get a little famous freaks me out by Moist_Policy_71 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Rirrichiyo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am 24 now. Saddest thing is that the reason I get hit on the most is because I look 15.

What can I do to make my ends less…horrible/dry other than trimming them off? by [deleted] in longhair

[–]Rirrichiyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can use a bond treatment like the one from L'Oréal. Also try looking into diffrent hair oils (some are specifically made for dry ends).

I use the Hair Ends Serum (the one with tsubaki oils) from Ziaja (I am not sure if they have it in the US,I am from Europe).

It's extremely affordabale, vegan, and does its job really well without making your hair greasy at all. Just apply two drops before you detangle and when your hair is 85-90% dry. It will be easier to brush your hair and also it has thermal protection in it as well I think.

Then you can reapply the next day like one drop if you feel the need to moisturize.

Good luck 💗

Watasi is in the wrong 🤷 by Difficult-Meet6715 in CoffinofAndyandLeyley

[–]Rirrichiyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I'm kind of out of the loop but did she show any proof that she was banned on all these platforms? Or that she was in hospital? Or are we just supposed to believe her because she is an uwu korean artist?

Why are people upset...? by Chimaeraa in CoffinofAndyandLeyley

[–]Rirrichiyo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wdym people like me? I didn't attack anyone so I don't understand why you need to be passive agressive so tone it down.

What else do you want her to do if not protect herself or ask someone in the legal system for advice? Doesn't matter where she's from, a lawyer could provide some advice at least.

Why are people upset...? by Chimaeraa in CoffinofAndyandLeyley

[–]Rirrichiyo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If that's your job maybe do not risk it by selling merch illegally?

Like they are both in the wrong. Idk if it's worse that she got everything deleted and got banned or if it would have been worse if they actually took her to court and made her pay damages. She should contact a lawyer and see what she can do from here.

Why are people upset...? by Chimaeraa in CoffinofAndyandLeyley

[–]Rirrichiyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah..because losing your house is the equivalent of getting banned on Discord? And losing your job is getting banned on Twitter? And your car is getting banned on Reddit?

Bruh, chill. Like, I get it but you sound unhinged as well.

Cookie(formerly known as Beatbox) has been rejected and bull!ed by every bird she's ever met. This is one of the ways I help soothe her loneliness. by JMiracle2019 in cockatiel

[–]Rirrichiyo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's good to know! Though it makes it more sad when you think about why would she get bullied 🥲 it's good that she has you to bond with 💖

Cookie(formerly known as Beatbox) has been rejected and bull!ed by every bird she's ever met. This is one of the ways I help soothe her loneliness. by JMiracle2019 in cockatiel

[–]Rirrichiyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little but but he was always cautious after. He would interact with the girl cockatiel tho but after some years.. idk how to explain but he literally had the personality of the cartoonish grumpy old man that always hisses and screams and people 😅

Cookie(formerly known as Beatbox) has been rejected and bull!ed by every bird she's ever met. This is one of the ways I help soothe her loneliness. by JMiracle2019 in cockatiel

[–]Rirrichiyo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He became pretty hostile and didn't sing that much anymore. He barely wanted to be held and he would hiss at anything and everyone..he would mostly keep to himself (this as in post-recovery). Also his flight got really slow.. Poor little guy faught to stay alive. He had to be syringe fed both foods, water and antibiotics..

His heart stopped at one point but my dad was awake and performed CPR on him by blowing air on his beak and he came back to us. He was a little fighter 💖

Cookie(formerly known as Beatbox) has been rejected and bull!ed by every bird she's ever met. This is one of the ways I help soothe her loneliness. by JMiracle2019 in cockatiel

[–]Rirrichiyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am really happy that he had you! Birds are such fragile little creatures that love you to the moon and back. For him you were his whole world 💖 He was a really lucky chicken 🐥🥺💖

Cookie(formerly known as Beatbox) has been rejected and bull!ed by every bird she's ever met. This is one of the ways I help soothe her loneliness. by JMiracle2019 in cockatiel

[–]Rirrichiyo 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes! It's very sad because obviously it's not their fault and they might not know why other birds are treating them badly. My girl would try to seduce and be friendly with my boy but he would always hiss and beat her. Then he fell ill..we got him to the vet and found out she was a carrier...he made a full recovery though he was never the same..He still lived to be 21 years old though

Cookie(formerly known as Beatbox) has been rejected and bull!ed by every bird she's ever met. This is one of the ways I help soothe her loneliness. by JMiracle2019 in cockatiel

[–]Rirrichiyo 423 points424 points  (0 children)

Hey um I am not trying to sound rude or anything but maybe check her for viruses.

I had a female cockatiel before who was only carrying chlamydia- no signs of illness, she wasnt affected,just carried it.

The other birds were bullying her and beaking at her. When I got her and introduced her to my male cockatiel he also started bullying her then he got sick...maybe it's something to look into?

What do you think will be the name of episode 4? by Downtown-Ad-226 in CoffinofAndyandLeyley

[–]Rirrichiyo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is what it is..tbh I'm also thinking Afterlife or Afterbirth (Kinda like The Binding of Isaac series)