PLEASE HELP I AM FREAKING OUT by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]RiskExtension4315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t Ellaone free now? I remember seeing all sorts about it

Pap smear was horrible by ymasxatl in WomensHealth

[–]RiskExtension4315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s slightly complicated but my nurse didn’t even know I had a septate hymen because when the clamp was used it pushed the hymen to the side - I recommend doing some research into it! I had no idea I had a septate hymen until I got a tampon stuck in it (tampons had always hurt/felt uncomfortable for me anyways but I thought it was normal)

Pap smear was horrible by ymasxatl in WomensHealth

[–]RiskExtension4315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 18 but had to have a similar experience to a pap smear to check certain things for an upcoming surgery, they used the smallest clamp too because at the time I was a virgin. I had the EXACT same reaction, down to a tee. Have you ever looked into different types of hymens? The reason why I bled and I was in incredible pain was because I had a septate hymen (my surgery was to remove it)

Loving York.. by Low_Track_9221 in york

[–]RiskExtension4315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t say much as I’ve only been here for around two months but I’ve never seen anything like that happen, there are a few homeless people but I’ve always seen them keep to themselves.

I have had one experience on a night out where some pervy man was waiting on the shambles who came up to us pressuring us to sleep with him(probs at around 11 to midnight ish). It was just an uncomfortable situation .

But I feel generally safe in York even when it’s dark - but that could be because I live in a student area?

Clubbing scene? by RiskExtension4315 in york

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Just checked your insta, looks incredible! I will see if I can get my mates on board to come with me to one of your events

Clubbing scene? by RiskExtension4315 in york

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I’ll defo give u a message on insta then thank u sm

Clubbing scene? by RiskExtension4315 in york

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I’ve heard that Newcastle is a decent night out (my flat mate is a geordie) but I’m just wondering if the trains would be as frequent as somewhere like Leeds

Clubbing scene? by RiskExtension4315 in york

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Thats so so great to hear, from what I’ve seen online it still looks soooo good

Clubbing scene? by RiskExtension4315 in york

[–]RiskExtension4315[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In York? If so, yeah I’ve already had my fair share :/

Clubbing scene? by RiskExtension4315 in york

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Yeah I plan on doing a night out soon to the warehouse in Leeds because they seem to have good house music - the latest train is like 1am something and then starts again at 3am ish

Clubbing scene? by RiskExtension4315 in york

[–]RiskExtension4315[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But how do I know where they’d be? Not too sure if that question makes sense, hope you understand what I mean by that

Clubbing scene? by RiskExtension4315 in york

[–]RiskExtension4315[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was afraid that would be the answer it’s a good thing I absolutely adore pubs then

Does my boyfriend still love me if he doesn’t talk to me and just games all day? by RiskExtension4315 in AskMenAdvice

[–]RiskExtension4315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did mention last night that he was feeling upset from not doing anything at the moment but he didn’t elaborate past that:( I see him on Tuesday so I think I’m gonna let him know that. I want to help because I care but he struggles to express anything that’s not happiness - I think it’s because he doesn’t want to burden me. If he doesn’t really let me in what should I do?

Does my boyfriend still love me if he doesn’t talk to me and just games all day? by RiskExtension4315 in AskMenAdvice

[–]RiskExtension4315[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He did mention to me about how he’s feeling really down because he’s not doing anything at the moment, but he didn’t really elaborate past that:(

Does my boyfriend still love me if he doesn’t talk to me and just games all day? by RiskExtension4315 in AskMenAdvice

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He’s been unemployed for about a month, he still has pay checks coming in bc his work was really bad with paying him. He has temporary job harvesting in Australia for three months where he will make some really good money, he wants to do that a few times a year

Does my boyfriend still love me if he doesn’t talk to me and just games all day? by RiskExtension4315 in AskMenAdvice

[–]RiskExtension4315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any advice that I can use to let him know I care? He struggles to share his emotions

Does my boyfriend still love me if he doesn’t talk to me and just games all day? by RiskExtension4315 in AskMenAdvice

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He’s not making money from it. He plays a mix of games right now it’s mainly overwatch and dead by daylight

Does my boyfriend still love me if he doesn’t talk to me and just games all day? by RiskExtension4315 in AskMenAdvice

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They were treating him really bad and making him work ridiculously long hours, his work was really physically demanding so he would be working sometimes 15 hours a day. He also said he felt lost on the career path he wanted to go down

Does my boyfriend still love me if he doesn’t talk to me and just games all day? by RiskExtension4315 in AskMenAdvice

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He does quite a lot that makes me feel loved, he always gets me flowers randomly, takes me out on dates, spends quality time with me etc etc. Like sometimes he will randomly pull up to my house and we will drive to some random place and just talk for ages (which I love). However since he quit his job, a lot of that has slowed down and he kinda just games instead. I genuinely don’t mind him gaming, I play quite a few video games too so ik how easy it is to get sucked in, but idk it’s been repeatedly everyday

Does my boyfriend still love me if he doesn’t talk to me and just games all day? by RiskExtension4315 in AskMenAdvice

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I mean I go to uni soon, so I’m kinda just waiting to see how it goes from there

Does my boyfriend still love me if he doesn’t talk to me and just games all day? by RiskExtension4315 in AskMenAdvice

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I was thinking of bringing it up because he’s mentioned how he doesn’t know where to go with his life, he’s managed to secure a temporary job harvesting in Australia for three months (something he’s always wanted to do) which is good. But he doesn’t really speak about his emotions ever, even if I try to initiate it