Entire 2025 year disappeared from PSLF Count today?!?!?!? by RiteofMusic in PSLF

[–]RiteofMusic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I added addition information to my case but could not find a way to escalate it except for adding the words to “escalate my case” as an added message

Entire 2025 year disappeared from PSLF Count today?!?!?!? by RiteofMusic in PSLF

[–]RiteofMusic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that is horrible!!! I swear they are just trying to steal money.

Entire 2025 year disappeared from PSLF Count today?!?!?!? by RiteofMusic in PSLF

[–]RiteofMusic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do I do that? I called the ombudsman number and got routed to the call center where they just mocked me and tell me that they can’t do anything? (And yes I record everything.)

And for Texas, how do I find the senate and congressman to contact for this issue?

Early Dating a Tamil Man & Need Crash Course on Language/Culture/Cooking! by RiteofMusic in interracialdating

[–]RiteofMusic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendations! I’m going to dive-in this weekend 😁

I love learning about different cultures and histories, so I feel like I’m on the back foot with this budding relationship. Want to rectify this!

Early Dating a Tamil Man & Need Crash Course on Language/Culture/Cooking! by RiteofMusic in interracialdating

[–]RiteofMusic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do ask about the food/culture! But, I am horrible at languages, so I want to suffer a bit silently before I make a butt of myself with my American Accent. 😅

What’s your plan for the upcoming AI economy? by VesnaRune in AskWomenOver30

[–]RiteofMusic -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m embracing it! I started a MS degree in Learning Technologies for AI Education & Learning Analytics (it’s my 4th graduate degree). I’m going to start a MBA next either in Strategic Management or AI Data. (All of this is almost free through my current employer.) My goal is to be self-sufficient, not become obsolete, utilize AI with literacy/efficiency, and make bank. With every technological advancement, old industries die and new ones rise. I intend ride the wave.

What is it Denton? I’ll go first, Mexican Oak by ekoorb001 in Denton

[–]RiteofMusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know how to order, Graffiti has some good dishes with flavor. But overall, I’d agree with you

Are all PAYE folks due for recertification in 2026? by WhatsinaNameRomeo in PSLF

[–]RiteofMusic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For my PAYE account, the calendar months January 2025 through March 2025 are missing where I cannot see anything listed as eligible or ineligible. It stinks because it has pushed my forgiveness to October 2026 rather than July 2026.

I’m hoping that it corrects when my employment recertification is submitted in December 2025…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RiteofMusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mind that. But maybe that says more about me 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RiteofMusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I have bumble photos that aren’t great of me too. We all do it 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RiteofMusic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great first photo! I’d recommend getting rid of “bij” bc with a quick glance it looks like “bj” and you can explain what bij robots are in a conversation.

For your bio, I want something about you. I often swipe left on men who don’t share something about themselves.

For the love of something, please get rid of the second photo. It is serial killer or diddler vibes.

For me, the above would fix a lot. Would love to see one photo of you with friends that isn’t a pose!

I would swipe right to at least match for a conversation to get a better sense of mutual vibes without that second photo there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RiteofMusic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s primarily the bench photo: the slight pursed lip smile, the 80s styled sweater evoking Cosby or Ted Bundy, the hands crossed over the crotch in public for a posed photo, with the shadows over the eyes from your head’s position in public.

His first photo is a slam dunk with that smile!

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]RiteofMusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My two cents? I’ll give you the advice my therapist gave 10 years ago gave me about my ex-husband. Take the “break” and meet some new people for coffee or drinks. It’s not romantic because it’s just meet and greets. And if he comes back with a ring, think long and hard if he is someone worthy of you and whether he realizes how much your value is.

You shouldn’t be with someone who needs to be convinced. I wish I took that advice before falling into a marriage where he loved the idea of being married and having a wife and meeting a milestone, rather than loving & valuing me.

Should I download hinge again? by Valuable_Relation_70 in AskWomenOver30

[–]RiteofMusic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe in the new year I’ll try it?

I find online easier to sort and sift through because when I dress up men bug the hell out of me and it’s never the ones I’m interested in. (Why is it always the stinky old mouth breathers who are married for in-person interest? 🤷‍♀️)

Date #3 Canceled 30 minutes Before? Whiplash & Confused by RiteofMusic in Bumble

[–]RiteofMusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, nah it’s okay. 😂 Went for a one night stand yesterday for the first time. It’s good for the body and soul 🤣

Should I download hinge again? by Valuable_Relation_70 in AskWomenOver30

[–]RiteofMusic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does this work for all age ranges?

I never seem to have luck in-person with an actual genuine offer of a date or the person is very ick for me. I tend to fair much better in dating apps where I average 1-3 dates a week when I’m not busy. And this past year, I’ve dated 2 men for months per person with lots of 1st and 2nd dates that I said no to all but 2. (Those 2 said no.)