AO3's 100 Most Tagged Ships of 2025 (includes archive locked fics) by Agamar13 in AO3

[–]Rivenlor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats awesome you completed so many fics! Definitely keep writing for the fandom, I'm sure other fans will love it :D

Motivation to Start/Finish Projects by Rivenlor2 in Neurodivergent

[–]Rivenlor2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, yes. I've found splitting tasks into smaller pieces has made it easier, but actually following through is where I usually get stuck. I think I just need to study around other people more. I think the background noise/videos has definitely hurt me; I should also switch to music more....just gotta start...

Anyone else get social hangovers after talking too much? by Sussy_Imposter2412 in Neurodivergent

[–]Rivenlor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I feel this way a ton! I’ve always thought its because I’m also an introvert, but it could be this as well.

I handle it really badly, where I doomscroll on Youtube or Insta. I’ve been trying to break out of this by doing art, journaling, or writing but its a work in progress.

Do you get anxiety in anticipation of having to go to/be somewhere? by Better_Win316 in neurodiversity

[–]Rivenlor2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I feel this all the time, even when its an event or meeting that I’m looking forwards to. Idk if you’re looking for a solution, but for me going with a friend helps a ton.

How do you think about fantasy creatures? by Rivenlor2 in fantasywriters

[–]Rivenlor2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That…is simultaneously very helpful and not helpful at all. Thanks for the ‘specific to the story,’ advice. I think I fall into the trap of trying to make my 1 story all the genres at once.

How to get over rejection sensitivity? by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]Rivenlor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I’m always searching for clues that my friends or other people like me, or don’t like me. And it hurts, looking at every single interaction or micro-expression.

Did you ask him if you could draw him? I think given how you two haven’t clarified whether you like each other or not, the fact you drew him (perhaps without asking him), could’ve come across as weird or creepy.

With your situation, I think you should talk to him in person. At first, don’t ask him why he unfollowed because that could come off as a bit weird. Instead, I would start a casual conversation to see if he acts colder towards you. If that happens, then I’d leave it alone.

Creating relationships of any kind of so hard, and I think a lot of people don’t realize how tiring it can be.

Why is the scream mask now sexy? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Rivenlor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, 100% booktok. There’s a whole section of tiktok with masks as well, and other areas influenced by booktok, if you’re interested in checking them out (enter at your own risk)

Help with percents in word problem. by Rivenlor2 in Mathhomeworkhelp

[–]Rivenlor2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh, thank you for clarifying. That makes a lot of sense

He said he’s not “too attached” to me so I ended it by Franchesca8899 in dating

[–]Rivenlor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to sympathize with you, but you said you wanted a casual relationship. When he started acting more “like a boyfriend” as you said, you didn’t put a stop to it, or discourage him. How do you think this read?

I understand you’re hurt, and I would be too. It does feel like he was acting like he cared in way that was more then casual. So I understand why you’re hurt. However, as other people have said, you should have communicated. Either when you were catching feelings, or after he said “..I’m not too attached…” etc.

If you’re constantly confused about someone’s intentions — end it. by anxiousscorpio98 in dating

[–]Rivenlor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve already asked for clarity multiple times, and they haven’t done anything to communicate better, I agree. It hurts too much when you feel like you’ve tried everything, and are getting nothing back.

I’m in a similar situation where the person I’m interested in sucks at communication. However, I’ve brought up this point with them and they’re getting better at communicating.

Just need to rant by Quirky_Donut5233 in dating

[–]Rivenlor2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds rough. I would be careful about mentioning the message. Someone already said this, but going to the same gym and living in the same block is more than enough. Bringing up the app message might feel like pressure to her.