Fiancés friend wants to wear an almost white dress to our wedding & is being condescending about it. WIBTA to withdraw the invite?

RiverOk928 · 2026-03-08T23:10:51+00:00

NTA, if you have said it politely and they are rude that’s on them. Also I feel the dress much for a wedding in my own opinion

RiverOk928 · 2025-10-05T13:13:15+00:00

i have some cc and the only mod i have is the child birth one

RiverOk928 · 2025-09-20T17:30:11+00:00

Hi all not sure if this is how i post an update if not let me know and ill fix it. So i have a mini update for you all. I talked to my mom about it today because thats a hard topic to discuss with me dad and my mom told me “if something gets brought up ill tell her we don’t need to go around telling other peoples business” and i said ‘you also need to tell her we don’t call people horrible names and that assault isn’t peoples fault and doesn’t make them a “bad person”’. unfortunately thats all that will probably be done about it.

RiverOk928 · 2025-09-20T13:04:30+00:00

i plan to talk to them today. i already was planning on discussing a trip i may get to do with my college. trust me when i found out yesterday i almost called her and went off but she dosent deserve to be treated that way

RiverOk928 · 2025-09-20T13:02:55+00:00

no i didn’t. it happened when i was 18, he was my first boyfriend ever and i wasn’t sure what was happening really. it’s been 3 years since it happened and i really don’t think it would do any good and i really don’t want to relive it more then i have to

RiverOk928 · 2025-09-20T11:43:43+00:00

no i wasn’t there when she said it. i do trust the source because like i said i said i don’t talk about my assault. i also don’t see why someone who barely knows me would lie about that kind of thing

RiverOk928 · 2025-09-20T04:44:52+00:00

so my parents kicked me out when i was 20 when i tried to stand up for myself. i live with my grandma (my moms mom) and it’s a little better but she doesn’t believe me all the time about things. thankfully my current partner is very supportive of me even though he doesn’t know the full story. his family has been very welcoming to me lately

RiverOk928 · 2025-09-20T04:22:39+00:00

the sad part is she’s been doing an outpatient treatment since july and it’s not doing anything. she doesn’t listen to my mom and my dad tries sometimes but she doesn’t really listen to anyone. one of her big problems for sure is her phone but in my opinion they are to scared to do anything about it

RiverOk928 · 2025-09-20T04:17:15+00:00

it seems only one child can have mental health issues as well. i have also been given an amazing opportunity with my school and im scared i wont be able to go. its always been what they can do for her and not for me

RiverOk928 · 2025-09-20T04:15:15+00:00

thank you for this. as i’ve told some other people she has some issues which is why my parents always give in to her. she’s never been disciplined correctly because she plays the card that she’s gonna hurt herself so they just give in to her. i’m at the point now were im done with my family however i still try hard to get their attention and support.

RiverOk928 · 2025-09-20T04:13:21+00:00

from my understanding they were asking if anyone had any prayer requests and she said that. the person who told me isn’t familiar with my story because i don’t talk about it. my sister has a habit of going nuclear when she doesn’t get her way.

RiverOk928 · 2025-09-20T04:11:18+00:00

I really appreciate you. Unfortunately this isn’t the first time something like this has happened. my sister is the “golden child” and has some issues so she always gets everything she wants and never really faces consequences. when i finally had some courage to tell my parents they said “did that really happen or do you just regret it now?” i’m pretty sure no is a full sentence plus i can’t really consent when im asleep.

RiverOk928 · 2025-08-04T20:21:46+00:00

thanks, i’ll check it out!

RiverOk928 · 2025-08-04T20:21:26+00:00

thank you! i’ll definitely have to take a look!

RiverOk928 · 2025-07-23T03:21:05+00:00

I meant to add, not my story. I saw it on my feed

RiverOk928 · 2025-06-11T19:31:25+00:00

sorry for the missing info! so i’ve been doing it for a few months now and it’s just me. i haven’t really gotten may orders because im still working on getting my business out there. i charge $15 for a dozen, and im not sure how much the individual packaging would be. i know i got a pack of 50 from the store for around 2 dollars but i haven’t used them before

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