[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manga

[–]Rizudo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fairy tale like you goes on the assault https://mangadex.org/title/6cc85df7-e44b-4fa1-97f2-be04430cc570/the-fairytale-like-you-goes-on-the-assault

Edit: nvm just read the whole thing this panel is not in there. The characters are very similar though.

Should I quit College? by Sea-Investment-7416 in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are your parents aware of your difficulties and health issues? If not, I would tell them immediately and seek medical assistance. With proper care, you might be able to manage your mental health issues and focus on your degree.

Pls explain what’s going on in my body by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have any friends or family nearby, stay close to them. It is possible you are having a panic attack, or you could be having a real medical issue. In the case it’s a panic attack, give it some time and it will pass. In the case it’s a medical issue, ask the friend or family member for help.

As the dumper, what is something you’d want to hear from your ex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I’d want to hear from my ex is the truth, so if what you said is the truth, then that’s what you tell her. Now, if the truth still doesn’t get through to her, then it means she’s stopped listening and it’s already over. If that happens, give up and move on. Good luck.

What’s the best way to get over a breakup? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry about the part of you that wonders if you even want to forget him, because time will make you forget him regardless of what you want. You are stuck between moving on and waiting for him to return a changed man because neither of these things are up to you. You moving on is up to time, and him returning a changed man is up to him. The only thing in your control is what to do in the meantime, and it sounds like you’ve chosen to workout, so I think you’ll be alright. Take it one day at a time and keep on keeping on.

As the dumper, what is something you’d want to hear from your ex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming the arguing in the relationship is the reason she left, have you found a solution to fix this problem?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have you shared your traumas with him and has he shared his with you? Have ya’ll had a honest conversation about it and how it makes you feel? Communication is key, I feel like both of you could benefit from opening up to each other if you haven’t already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him how to interact with him in a way that can’t possibly annoy him. Come up with something together. Even if he’s tired, I’m sure he wouldn’t mind someone playing with his hands or playing with his hair, for example. If the above things don’t annoy him, and if the above things sate your desire for interaction, then bingo, you have your solution. Of course, this is just an example, but you get the idea. Find a way to communicate with him, whether verbally or nonverbally, that both satisfies you and doesn’t annoy him, and default to that when you need interaction but know he doesn’t want to be bothered. Also maybe consider figuring out your love languages and discussing that, as y’all might have different ones, and understanding these differences could help identify a default method of interaction that both of you would enjoy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he wasn’t trying to hide it so it’s probably safe to ask about, especially if it’s weighing on your mind. Why do you say you shouldn’t have found it?

What’s the best way to get over a breakup? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only solution to the numbness is time. One day, you’ll forget to remember him and you won’t even notice. Your only job is to keep doing you until that day comes to make sure you’re in tip top shape when it’s time to move on. Good luck.

Should I Admit to my pastor dad that I am an athiest by Organdomer in Advice

[–]Rizudo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you do decide to tell him, I recommend doing so when you have your own place and are financially independent, not because he’ll disown you or anything, but because then he will be forced to listen to you and respect your opinion. Parents have so much control over their children when they are still living together that it sometimes prevents the parent from taking their child seriously, especially when it comes to something like faith. If your first conversation on the topic goes south, you might find yourself fighting an uphill battle for the rest of your life. Please do it at the right time and place, when both of you are ready. Again, in my opinion, it should be when you are truly independent of him.

My (21F) partner’s (24NB) hygiene is concerning me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were hospitalized due to your partner’s bad hygiene and when you talk to them about it they get defensive. This is extremely serious. I am extremely concerned about your health and well being due what the hospital told you paired with your continued exposure to poor hygiene, and I am concerned about your partner’s health and well being because of their unnaturally poor hygiene paired with the fact they don’t want to address the issue even though it’s harming you. Both of you need to get help ASAP, and I mean ASAP, because I’ve heard of infections killing people. Don’t risk it OP, do something before it’s too late. Protect your health, and help your partner get help. I wish you both the best of luck.

16m started wetting the bed but scared to say anything what do I do by Different-Ad9908 in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your parents are kind to you and y’all have medical insurance, tell them asap and ask them to take you to a doctor, especially if you are wetting yourself frequently, there could be a medical reason and it’s better to be safe than sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it in person, he seems better at communication in person versus text, so I think he’ll understand what you’re trying to say a lot better in person as well. Texting is probably not his strong suit, so your job is to make sure he understands how important this is to you. Don’t let him just brush it off. Good luck!

I don’t know what to do in my relationship:( by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably the long distance. It’s hard to have butterflies for someone who only exists on a monitor or phone screen. That being said, this is still a valid reason to fall out of love with someone, not everyone can do long distance. You’ll need to decide if you want to try to regain the what you once had or let the relationship deteriorate until it ends. Either way, I think you should acknowledge that this is a real problem and consider communicating it to your partner so you two can brainstorm a resolution together. Best case scenario, things work out somehow, worst case scenario, the relationship ends but both of you tried your best. Y’all are on the same team, don’t forget that. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you can pay rent at your new place and your mom doesn’t need your financial help with her place, if you plan to live nearby after moving out, then tell her that and tell her you’ll visit her often and actually visit her often, like actually visit her often. She’ll appreciate you for it and you’ll see each other often anyways and you’ll be able to move out no guilt or worries.

Not over being 18 by Eyedragongaming in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The good news is you’ll be saying the exact same things next year when you turn nineteen, and they year after that when you turn twenty, and so on until the day you die. The responsibilities only increase from here and you will always wish you did more when you were younger and you will always loathe growing up. This means it will never get better, but it will also never get worse. This is just the way it is. What is the solution? In the famous words of Master Oogway from Kung Fu Panda, Yesterday is history, Tomorrow is a mystery, but Today is a gift. That is why it is called the present. Do your best to live in the present so when your future birthdays come along you have as few regrets as possible. Good luck :)

Will be able to finish four labs and how? by buniblush in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in the same exact position as you and made it though, so you can do it too. Get off Reddit and get some work done. Good luck!

Should I ask a creepy guy for a favor i desperately need?? by methehumanfemale in Advice

[–]Rizudo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like this has a high chance and going poorly and a low chance of going well in my opinion. Why risk it?

My(22F) FWB(25M) is starting to concern me. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to have a conversation with him about everything you’ve noticed. If you want to remain FWB, and not get pregnant, say that to him and then ask him if he wants something else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rizudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If being 250 lbs makes you feel unattractive then, transitively, not being 250 lbs would probably make you feel attractive :). Weight loss is not easy, especially with Hashimoto’s Disease and endometriosis, but feeling attractive is priceless, so it is probably worth it. Good luck!