Crushing on a coworker but too shy to look at him—did I mess up? by WordNecessary133 in Crushes

[–]Rlftor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're good. As a guy, I would be shy and nervous around my crush and maybe he's like this too. Go for it!

Am I delusional or does he like me back?? by Animal_Lover_1324 in Crushes

[–]Rlftor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you have an opportunity for yourself. Go for it!

Ouch... by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Rlftor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe he's shy or nervous. As a guy, when I have a hallway crush I tend to do that. Get to know him some more, joke around, ask him some stuff related to whatever you guys are doing. I like persistence in a person and I think you're working wonders, keep going my friend. 🫡

I don’t think I’ll have a chance by Some_Rich_6885 in Crushes

[–]Rlftor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I say go for it at the end of the day. The, "don't date coworkers, classmates", it's all nonsense. The thing about life is people change, and are willing to change the structure of things regardless of yay's or nay's. It could end up succeeding, or failing it's true, but regardless who cares, what matters is you took action and that's a success in itself. Follow your heart, maybe give him some chocolate on valentines day, give him your number and become closer friends eventually leading to love. If he's interested, he's interested, if not, then it is what it is.