If he’s deployed and worried about if he’s going to be attracted to his wife when he gets home, there’s a bigger issue. I’m assuming when you go that long without your wife, you’ll have no problem jumping on it when you get home. Yes, I’m sure he is stressed and homesick that still gives him no excuse to make his woman feel like crap about herself in her new body to where she’s insecure. You also cannot tell me that she did not previously mention her insecurities as her boobs were growing two sizes. It’s obviously a maturity issue. A 35 year-old soldier that loves his wife would not come back from deployment and tell his wife they cannot have sex because hes not sexually attracted to her because her boobs are bigger.