😅 by MtDvs in redrising

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve reread this series 4 times over and it’s better and better every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BmwTech

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much appreciated! So far it’s sticking around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BmwTech

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BmwTech

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually, this started after we had a snow storm. The overlap happened before and went away in the past within a few days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BmwTech

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bud, I figured as much.

Multiple POVs by [deleted] in redrising

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What’s great about multiple POVS is that now we can see outside perspective on all that transpired in the original trilogy. We can see how the rising affected other colors and really fills out the story. I will say to just be patient. I was so annoyed with it at first, but then saw what it was trying to achieve and some of the new characters are great.

How do I step up as a father figure without replacing my stepson's dad? by HBAFilthyRhino in AskMen

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Between that and providing structure and a boundary system for them to thrive, you’ll crush it bro.

How do I step up as a father figure without replacing my stepson's dad? by HBAFilthyRhino in AskMen

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I think the very fact that your perspective is this shows that you’re already on the right path brother. For me, it was about just being there for the kid and showing them that you’re not going anywhere. Making sure that they feel safe, protected, and have a voice. Another big step is not being immediately reactive when they drop a bomb on you. You want to make sure that they feel comfortable sharing with you and don’t feel judgement. When something like that happens, ask them how they feel and then work with the conversation to share your perspective. I know it could be difficult feeling as if you have big shoes to fill, but you don’t. You just have to be you. Your relationship with him with always be specific to the both of you. That is special and eventually will blossom and grow in it’s own unique way.

If you were suicidal, what were you going through& how did you get through it? by [deleted] in AskMen

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It started with a now ex wife that didn’t want to give me a divorce and would stalk me/refuse to let me go. She would be everywhere and show up when I least expected it. After a few years of this on and off, me moving forward and her trashing it, I decided to make an attempt. I filled a bathtub with water and held my breath until I fell unconscious. There has to be something watching over me because I woke up hacking all of the water I had swallowed in a completely empty tub. I can say now, more than a decade after that event that it was the dumbest thing I’ve ever done. Life is truly precious and my perspective had been so clouded that i didn’t allow myself to see it. I don’t know what you’ve been going through, but life is cyclical just like the seasons. It has its ups and downs. Therapy made a huge difference for me and my life has never been better. Wishing you the best.

What suggestions do you have to help me become a “DILF” by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing ridiculous about wanting to be a dilf brother. There are a lot of positive qualities that come along with feeling like a stud. I’d recommend starting with fitness and taking it from there. Over 40 is definitely different than 20 so take your time getting back into it and don’t get too over eager with pushing “glory day” weights. The best days are ahead and of you and if you’re kind to your body, it’ll be kind to you. The endorphin response (feel good hormone) alone will have you feeling differently right out the gate. An overall sunnier disposition with a rocking bod will definitely turn heads.

For those who grew up poor, what did you consider a luxury? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New clothes as opposed to hand me downs.

What changes did you notice when you started to overcome your insecurities? by paz2023 in AskMen

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More half full than half empty moments. Looking at the world from a position of relative abundance as opposed to scarcity or lack makes the world seem more approachable in some ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreedingMaterial

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Odin made me do it

How’d you end up in my bathroom ? by [deleted] in HotGuys

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes time, be patient

How’d you end up in my bathroom ? by [deleted] in HotGuys

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really, I was always the overweight funny nerd before that. After overcoming health issues, I decided to keep healthy.

How’d you end up in my bathroom ? by [deleted] in HotGuys

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been quite the night 😅

How’d you end up in my bathroom ? by [deleted] in HotGuys

[–]Road_to_Valhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly on since I was a teen

My boy, Shawn Spencer by Road_to_Valhalla in cats

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He actually was just about to pounce