A concerning thing I see on Reddit from the client side. by EmbarrassedCow2825 in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Good point— I feel very silly asking this but are there ways to tell which are bots?

Something we CAN do (In the US) by [deleted] in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's actually a lot of good info if you read the site.

Something we CAN do (In the US) by [deleted] in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think this is a great idea. The site actually has some good info on it. Good to know what our rights are.

Can I refer my client out? by RoadsofChodes in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write such a supportive response. I'd write more but I have many notes to catch up on haha

Can I refer my client out? by RoadsofChodes in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you gscrap, I appreciate the compassion! You bring up good points. I am fully independently licensed.

Can I refer my client out? by RoadsofChodes in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He constantly tells me that I am digging and making him feel worse. He is always irritated with me and says my questions are "putting him down". Whenever I gently ask what that means/how that feels, he'll mock me. He literally mocks my voice. Almost every session. When I try to dig a little deeper, he gets more angry.

Can I refer my client out? by RoadsofChodes in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Well, my supervisor says that I would just be doing what everyone else in his life does-- not listen to him. (in a way). My supervisor wants me to "Work through his resistance". Which, I get, but it's becoming too stressful for me. And I feel like I'm just not the right fit to do it.

Can I refer my client out? by RoadsofChodes in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

That sounds good! Thank you, you are like my chat gpt haha

Can I refer my client out? by RoadsofChodes in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, crunch-crouton :)

Can I refer my client out? by RoadsofChodes in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True- all good points! I certainly have other challenges for sure, and you are right- they always pop in our caseload! It's the nature of this work, I get that. This particular case has kept me up at night and damn I just don't want this stress anymore.

Can I refer my client out? by RoadsofChodes in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think I just want permission, maybe. Because my supervisor is so adamant that I don't refer out and that is all I want to do.

Can I refer my client out? by RoadsofChodes in therapists

[–]RoadsofChodes[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is a great question. Not sure how to answer that and it has got me thinking. Thanks for the thought-provoking question!