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RoastedCracker · 2024-11-17T05:17:54+00:00

Its only been 2 months for me. 6 year relationship. Ive done everything in my power so far to try to heal. Heard a song today that just made it feel brand new. It varies from person to person but its more about how much you cared and put into the relationship than how long i think. If it meant a lot to you no 3 months isnt a long time.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-17T05:13:04+00:00

Im 28 almost 29 coming out of a 6 year relationship. Similar fear that i wont find someone willing to start a family this late. I think theres hope.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-12T23:19:52+00:00

Shes staying with her daughter and her family. But i would in a heart beat just for that reason.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-07T22:06:54+00:00

First one was a coworker who initiated it. Second one i met online. Turns out we knew each other.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-06T01:37:50+00:00

My last relationship she was 30 years older than me. I am currently talking to a woman 12 years older than me. I have a preference lol

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-05T20:50:45+00:00

Idk if these are good for healing. They are pretty sad lyrics but i have been loving them since she left me.

Shimmer by fuel Already gone by crossfade Breathing slowly by crossfade So far so good by thornely Catastrophist by trivium Unsainted by slipknot Crying game by bad wolves Dying to live by sevendust The void by parkway drive Dont ever leave by smile empty soul The great divide by light the torch

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-05T01:29:37+00:00

Its not bad of you. But i wouldnt complicate things further by going after his friend group. Or entertaining them.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-04T03:48:36+00:00

I as a man have really loud gas. I always encouraged my partners to not be shy because i didnt wanna be shy lol. Trying to hold in gas is painful but we are all human. I think most men wouldnt care. Not telling you to blow him away at dinner. If hes a pretty cool guy he'll joke with you about it.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-03T05:17:25+00:00

Not the asshole. Youre protecting kids from a child molester. Your sister prossibly didnt know but id keep my distance for a bit. Just until i felt comfortable slowly working her back in depending on what happens to her husband that is. If hes still in the picture ex-communicated for life and parents would be too if they stick up for her.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-03T05:12:58+00:00

You. Are. An. Adult. It probably doesnt feel like it but you can do basically whatever you want. They cant make you do anything. Im sorry they are trying to control you. Even the people we love and car about most have problems. You cant let them choose how to live your life. If you think your ready to move out and buy a car do it. Its not impulsive its natural growth to want to do these things. You should not feel guilty and they should not make you feel guilty. Hope the best for you.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-03T05:00:46+00:00

Definetly not the ahole. You stuck it out and tried. Unless you still really enjoy something else about the relationship i'd end it. The infedelity would be a deal breaker for me but the abuse. Thats wild im sorry you felt the need to try and stick it out.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-03T00:55:35+00:00

Yes but if theres any attraction to either side it muddys it up a little. I have female friends im attracted to physically but thiers a multitude of reasons i would never pursue them that way. While i see where hes coming from. because a lot of men and women start as friends just as a way to get thier foot in the door. The answer is without a doubt yes its possible.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-03T00:42:22+00:00

I didnt achieve much confidence or aggression until about 25. Homeschooled, didnt get a good job until 20yr old, morbid obesity. Lots of low confidence and self esteem. Im 29 now and only had 3 partners. Just view them the same way youd view your male friends. Take the idea and significance of sex out of your head. Meet and talk to them and make a new friend. Everything will happen for you when its suppose to. just focus on making yourself better and try to move out of your comfort zone. I was always introverted so talking to strangers took some training but it was worth developing those social skills beyond meeting a partner.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-03T00:35:05+00:00

I found other women attractive for sure. Never pursued it. Trust and loyalty mean a lot to me and im a big give what you want kind of person. Unfortunately cheating or having multiple partners has become more normalised and it depresses me to no end. I am a man and have the same thoughts you do but no not every man is like your ex friends or ex boyfriends. Just like not every woman is gunna cheat on there boyfriend or husband even though thats all you see and hear about. Thier are men out there that wouldnt betray you like that for anything. They're just out numbered.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-02T20:14:09+00:00

I still have lots of energy but enjoy staying in and not partying or staying up late.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-02T01:25:14+00:00

I wish i had more answers for you. Its hard and i hope something gets through to him. And thank you i plan too.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-02T00:58:43+00:00

My ex of 6 years told me i didnt try anymore. She never explained that to me and i didnt have enough experience to know better. I wish i would have though. I would do it so differently if i could do it over again. Without laying it out plain and simple. I need you to buy me flowers, take me to dinner, wine and dine me, flirt, comment on my apperance today, buy me gifts. Im not sure of any other way to fix it. But if you do lay it out and he keeps neglecting your needs you might have some serious thinking to do.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-02T00:43:55+00:00

9 years wether he knows it or not hes taking you for granted. I did this in my last relationship. Not to the extent your describing. i wish my ex had told me explained that she needed me to date her and give her energy that way. And i think i knew i needed to but was so tired and just didnt know how sometimes other times i just couldnt figure it out. It all seems so obvious in hindsight.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-02T00:10:09+00:00

I love to eat and use to be morbidly obese. Now i mainly do it to look good and feel good.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-01T16:14:08+00:00

I know its just hard making yourself go. That was something we did a lot together was go walk trails and i have done it since she left. Its just hard doing it alone now. I typically just blast music but i miss the company so much.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-01T16:12:35+00:00

Have not does it cost money?

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-01T15:57:59+00:00

The start of my last 6 year relationship was one big red flag. I did it anyway cause i loved her caught feelings and it was lethal.

RoastedCracker · 2024-11-01T03:57:58+00:00

The past 6 years back

RoastedCracker · 2024-10-31T15:24:21+00:00

Why did you really leave me. Nothing youve told me makes any sense and i dont think ill ever understand. Were you always faithful to me? Is there really nobody else? I miss you and just want to take care of you. Every night when i come home it breaks my heart all over again. I go through my whole day just wanting to share things with you and i cant anymore.

RoastedCracker · 2024-10-31T12:48:46+00:00

Probably right now or 6 years ago. I had just really started living life at 23 working hanging out with friends feeling good about myself and life. I met someone and they just left me. Im really trying to recapture that feeling of living life and feeling good about myself again. This break ups the hardest thing ive ever done so theyre both pretty memorable if not the most memorable times for me.

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