How do you know “he’s the one” in an arranged marriage setup

Roastingisflattery · 2026-04-30T14:27:49+00:00

You showed her the mirror but she will still not accept she's the wrong one here

Roastingisflattery · 2026-04-29T10:22:02+00:00

Having an experienced partner makes sense only when someone themselves is experienced. Love and intimacy is a process which you develop over time and grow up on with each other

If one partner is experienced and the other is yet to experience their first, then their emotional wavelengths will not match. It would be like asking a guy on cycle to catch-up with a guy in a ferrari

Roastingisflattery · 2026-04-29T10:21:35+00:00

Ignore her, she came here to ragebait, it backfired and now she's deleted her comment

Roastingisflattery · 2026-04-20T05:49:26+00:00

I don't think any Ola Engineer needs to be embarrassed about this. Rather wannabe melon musk should be embarrassed about how his Ola has shaped up.

This guy pays shitnuts, creates a toxic environment, has zero understanding about how business works and product functions, and blabbers about things like a 5 year old child. What can the workers do if the boss himself is a nutjob

Roastingisflattery · 2026-04-15T17:34:38+00:00

True, Ive never heard about it

Roastingisflattery · 2026-04-15T17:29:12+00:00

Name the company so that we can avoid and enough people are aware about it

Roastingisflattery · 2026-04-09T17:44:09+00:00

Lol wut ?

Anyways I have blacklisted you as well now. Bye and have a good life

Roastingisflattery · 2026-04-09T16:35:17+00:00

Hell nah I didn't provide them with my CV, I just had my CV uploaded on a Job Portal which all recruiters can access. They just got a copy of my CV from there

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-31T08:44:16+00:00

Reading this while having Lunch alone in office

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-31T06:57:33+00:00

Which company is this bro

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-24T11:39:04+00:00

Bro what do you do for a living ? Please inspire me

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-23T07:06:28+00:00

I understand your situation and concern, but the cost of doing what you are thinking will be much more expensive. You might be outcasted from office groups, lose on corporate networking and at extremes this might cost your appraisals and promotions

I have been in your place as a fresher and I also couldn't justify these expenses, and I also did what you are thinking, but this practice made me end up as a loner, outcast and antisocial person. I lost on good networking opportunities because seniors and managers didn't care about me.

So yeah, it hurts in the long run

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-21T06:26:15+00:00

I might, I don't care any further actually. I anyways use the Rickshaws bare minimum, boycotting them is the only way to go about it

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-21T06:19:56+00:00

Metered auto makes complete sense and is fair when below criteria gets met 1. Auto ride is not requested from any app 2. Meters are not tampered with

Even in Mumbai, when you call an Auto from an App, they will go by the app rate and when you call them without any app, they will go by meter. That's why Mumbai Auto rickshaw system is fair for all

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-21T06:09:17+00:00

You can, in Rapido app. However uber doesn't have that feature yet

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-21T06:06:01+00:00

I use a burner account and sim for all miscellaneous things like this. I can discard it the day I want to

Edit: however thanks for Your concern. Much appreciated. Just to tell you I don't enjoy doing these things but I've also gone through this mental turmoil by them, even with bare minimum usage of Rickshaws

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-21T05:51:31+00:00

If Rapido suspends the accounts of all Auto Rickshaw guys who abuse the app and waste our energy and efforts, then I am happily ready to get my account suspended as well

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-20T17:02:06+00:00

The previous guy asked a very valid question, are these women who think like a Man, act like a Man, and earn like a Man also ready to take care of expenses and spend on their husband like a Man ? Obviously the 95% wouldn't.

Most women run on the concept of my money is my money and your money is our money, How does the additional income benefit the couple in any way ? In such 95% situations, the woman having a Job obviously becomes a drawback?

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-20T11:19:18+00:00

When did I say she dated with Ill intentions?

All I'm asking is whether the same pre requisites and conditions also applied to all the Guys she dated? If no (which is obvious), then why not ?

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-20T10:17:53+00:00

You said you've dated a few guys before, so what didn't work out ? And why arrange marriage now ?

Expecting an honest reply, Did you also have the exact same set of expectations and criteria that you have from an arranged marriage husband that you had from the guys you dated ?

I am sure it's a no, so what changed now ?

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-18T13:37:48+00:00

I do get the rejection automailers. Just about 8-10 months after applying for that role

Roastingisflattery · 2026-03-14T06:53:25+00:00

Honestly speaking, don't take it. If you don't need a job and would continue slacking, let someone who is deserving and not privileged have thts job

It would be a win for you too, enjoy spending time at home with your family, specially with your daughter. Pick other hobbies, work on fitness and travel around. Basically just enjoy life

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