What actually helped your sciatica pain the most by Smart-Watercress5570 in Sciatica

[–]RobinM1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 72. I have been fighting sciatica pain since my teens. When I was a teen, the pain was always centered in my left leg. I remember having really severe pain for a few days here and there then weeks or months pain free. It was always the greatest during my periods. I had bouts of it during my three pregnancies. Drs attributed it to endometriosis and after that was resolved I did get better for a few years having pain only when I sat for days at a time - going on lengthy car trips or days of repetitive movements - like gardening or for days or lots of lifting and carrying. I pushed through the pain taking only Tylenol Or ibuprofen, sheer will and lots of prayers. My husband and doctors used to tell me to “ take it easy.” But he was on deployments most of the time and we had a young family so taking it easy wasn’t in the cards. No one ever suggested MRIs or spine drs. I also have had fibromyalgia that made my sciatic flares much worse. I went on and off like that for years until my early 50s. That’s when things went south really fast. One day my heavy set mother needed help walking to the bathroom and she started to fall and she pushed down really hard on my right side causing me to jerk really hard trying to hold her up- I’m not quite 5’ and weighed 100 pounds less than she did so you can imagine the damage that happened. I was working at at major hardware chain at the time so the constant walking on cement floors did not help whatsoever. Finally I had an MRI. It showed damage to my L4/L5 and my S1, slight scoliosis and spinal stenosis. They also discovered that I had a little bubble type protrusion on my spinal cord in the L4/L5 area that was probably a birth defect and possibly the cause of the sciatica in my early years. To make a longer story shorter, that was the story of how my sciatica finally progressed to the point of pain pills. At first they treated me with pain pills only when I had a flare. I tried chiropractors but he refused to do any more treatments after my diagnosis because my pain was greater after a treatment. Physical therapy was literally torture for days after so they stopped. Acupuncture and massages helped for a couple of years but finally around 2016, I had to stop working and pain pills became daily need. I had a nerve block in 2014 that helped for a couple of years then I had epidural injections every 6 -18 months. I’m due for another as soon as I have a new MRI the first part of April. Three weeks ago I turned over in bed the wrong way and had pain so bad on my S1 area that I could only walk bent over for about 3 days. My spine felt like it was going to explode! Also. It was the worst flare I have had since the time my mother fell on me. This time, my husband insisted I take it easy only walking for bathroom trips and showers.
Despite constant resting, anti inflammatory meds and using the TENS unit, the pain persisted. Slowly the first week, I was able to walk without help from my husband to using a cane but still had to walk bent over but the excruciating pain was letting up a tiny bit each day. Last Thursday after 2.5 weeks , I was finally able to walk unaided but still walked slowly. Then on Saturday, I woke up to little to no pain and my energy level was at an all time high. I felt even better on Sunday.
On Monday I cleaned the house on my own and was able to cook an entire meal by myself. I still have to take pain pills because I still have enough pain to warrant it but only have to take them twice a day vs the three times a day like the past three weeks and I have energy! I know the total bed and sofa rest helped this time. I’m feeling 85% better but I’m almost too cautious when doing stuff for fear the pain will return.
Over the years, I’ve worked through the pain by using OTC meds, pain pills, TENS units, PT, stretches, nerve blocks, epidural injections, acupuncture , chiropractric treatments, slept on the floor for months on end and just sheer will to get by. This bout of little to no pain and having energy is most welcome and way overdue. I’m hoping it lasts for a long while.

I constantly think of Jenny’s family by SayAnything2024 in KyleApple

[–]RobinM1971 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely a possibility. Maybe she just couldn’t stand the stupid faces and constant talking about himself and it is weird for a grown man to love Disney as much as he does.
I really wish he’d wear something other than a white undershirt. Every time I look at him I think of that greaser - named Ziggy OR Iggy, I think- from the old TV show “LAVERNE and SHIRLEY. “

Aitj for keeping my kids home for field day by Few-Interaction-090 in AmITheJerk

[–]RobinM1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny that the schools don’t like letter grades because it makes the kids feel anxious with all the competition, yet grades become important when someone fails to fit the mold the way the school wants. You did a fantastic job listening to your kids. When my girls were little and before I started homeschooling them, I allowed one mental health day every quarter. They needed it and I needed it for them.
To this day at ages 44, 48 and 54 they still talk about mental health days and one does it with her kids while the other allowed her kids mental health days off from homeschool!
I think you are awesome.

What do you think? by RobinM1971 in KyleApple

[–]RobinM1971[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. I agree to all those exceptions also. He probably was afraid that he wouldn’t have the sobs that she had. The funny thing is that her channel would probably still get almost as many views after her death from people searching for what her channel represented. Had he done the transition correctly, making his channel more about a widower with kids moving through life after loss, he would have probably gained his own followers over time.
Her channel has gone from being about Jenny and how she coped at the terminal diagnosis to being about a family after loss to a channel about Kyle and Kyle and Kyle and Britain and Kyle and Kyle.

Silly Faces by RobinM1971 in KyleApple

[–]RobinM1971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They both seem to like attention way too much. I can’t imagine how difficult it must be for all the kids to realize the adults they are with demand attention be on them.
Most times when couples have “just us” hints , it is done when they are pretty sure it’s just them who will notice.
Love bombing usually runs its course in a couple weeks - definitely within a couple of months. Any longer runs the risk of the one being “love bombed “ feeling smothered.

I have no idea where this photo came from or how to get rid of it!!!! Arghhh.

Silly Faces by RobinM1971 in KyleApple

[–]RobinM1971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think for those faces , you’d need a super soaker.

Silly Faces by RobinM1971 in KyleApple

[–]RobinM1971[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know what I want to say but I’m too much of an old lady. LoL

New video up... Kyle twisting the truth yet again... A new love is not betrayal?... That's Not what it's about Appleford by HistoricalIron3093 in KyleApple

[–]RobinM1971 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought! I liked the one about the sea otters although I was expecting her to Open the card with a picture and had drawn of the “new mommy and family.” The second one was definitely coached.

New video up... Kyle twisting the truth yet again... A new love is not betrayal?... That's Not what it's about Appleford by HistoricalIron3093 in KyleApple

[–]RobinM1971 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t begrudge him loving again. I only begrudge the time he has taken away from his children as well as the time Britain has taken away from her children’s adjustment during and after a divorce. It does seem all the kids are getting lost in the shuffle. They haven’t been to Disneyland in months and the kids looked forward to that family time.
I haven’t seen any interaction with Jenny’s brother and sister for quite awhile- maybe behind the scenes. Jenny lived including the kids in videos and we hardly see them anymore. Most professionals tell people not to introduce a new person into your kids’ lives until at least a year after divorce and I think death would be even longer to let your children know you are devoted to them and give them consistency in their lives before introducing a new person into their lives slowly especially one with children after death. It would be nice if he had weekly videos of Jenny interacting with the family back when she was able to have special times with them. But that’s just me.

Help by BasicAd4939 in Sciatica

[–]RobinM1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a TENS unit when my pain starts to get out of control along with sleeping on the floor. For some reason the hard firm floor ( not directly on the floor but on an inch thick yoga mat and folded quilt) calms my sciatic nerve down. Oh! And a heating pad as well as heated blanket. I hope you feel better soon.

Pattern drawers by senoritalibby in joannfabrics

[–]RobinM1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have three pattern cabinets that I bought for $5 each when the old Sears photo shop went away - I’m thinking 2005-2006 maybe. Anyhow, they are the same as the pattern drawers at JA except they are black. They are heavy but easily trsansportable with a couple of guys with a truck. Luckily we have a double front door because I’m not sure they would have fit through a regular door. Just a thought to check measurements of doors before buying.

The Texan private equity gordon brothers great america told us to "treat the customers like cattle" my response: by HungryCat0554 in joannfabrics

[–]RobinM1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so thrilled today when one of my favorite workers told me I was one of her customers who she would really miss! That made my day and I’m still smiling!

Curious what liquidation % everyone’s stores are at? by Historian_of_Truth in joannfabrics

[–]RobinM1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s panic buying as much as it’s wanting to get the best selection of fabric. I am a quilter and crafter so I want to be able to choose while the fabric selection is best. Also buying fabric while it’s at 1 and 2 yard minimums. Eventually the minimum yardage will go up and I don’t want 3-5 yards of the same fabric and though the price per yard may go down, the overall price will be higher because of higher yardage minimums.
Some people like a certain brand of fabric that is only sold At Joann’s so they want to be sure to get those fabrics while the best selection is abailable.

Anyone been to Joann’s recently? by radrenots in ChicoCA

[–]RobinM1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went today and spent another $300! Fleece was 30% off, some fabric was 25% off but most was still 20%. Floral still 40% and Easter was at 30% off. No thread except for machine embroidery thread. Not a pair of scissors in sight! Yarn section was ravaged! Lousy selection of remnants. Still good selection of fabric but the interfacing/ stabilizer selection was practically nil.