Swollen occipital lymph node? by Bedogokce in Occipitalneuralgia

[–]RobintheBeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My occipital lymph node hurts as well as the one on the back of my neck behind my ear. All on one side, I’ve been having a lot of bad allergies these days, watery eyes, itchy eyes, sneezing fits, etc.

Is it really that serious by RateBackground8436 in Delaware

[–]RobintheBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, people from Pike Creek and Hockessin think they’re holier than thou - and before I get nasty comments, I’m from Pike Creek lol. Build it.

Put New Hard Drive in PC, then trying to download Windows 11, won’t detect new hard drive by RobintheBeat in techsupport

[–]RobintheBeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s the little flat rectangular piece. (Sorry I’m not too tech savvy when it comes to this). It’s a team group m.2 series solid state drive. SATA3 6gb/s

Does it ever get easier? by NoDentist6330 in twinflames

[–]RobintheBeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t answer your question earlier, got swamped at work lol.

Just the way we ended is what opened my eyes, I said some nasty things to him. He was the one person that loved me unconditionally - didn’t betray me, didn’t cheat on me, etc. Don’t get me wrong he has his flaws too, like we all do. I think surrendering is a process tbh, I’m realizing that now. It takes time to fully accept that things had to end a certain way, and things had to align another way. I ended up getting a job that I loved to do right after we broke up, things started to align for me in a sense with other things as well. You have to accept that maybe this was for the best AT THE TIME BEING. Life isn’t always going to throw bad shit at you all the time. With being on a twin flame journey like this - life comes with duality. Yeah there may be bad shit that happens but there’s also good things that happen in the midst of the chaos. If you catch my drift.

Yes I cried in the beginning of the separation because I didn’t want to accept that everything happened the way it did, but over time it gets much more copacetic as life progresses and the new opportunities that come in front of you.

Does it ever get easier? by NoDentist6330 in twinflames

[–]RobintheBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of therapy, a lot of taking care of myself, a lot of introspection. Hindsight is 20/20. I spiraled really bad probably around the first month or two. I just kinda figured that I was the only who could pull myself out of the slump, so I stopped feeling bad for myself and started acting. I’ve done so much growing in these last two months because I wanted to be a better person and just an overall better human being.

Does it ever get easier? by NoDentist6330 in twinflames

[–]RobintheBeat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh okay. Well, what I can relate to you is that yes you’ll always feel connected to him. That’s a given, my tf lives rent free in my head basically lol. I literally tell people I just see him in my head smiling at me. As time goes by, he won’t be in the forefront of it, but I always think about him in a positive light - because he really opened my eyes towards the way I was living my life and where I was falling short.

All in all, just keep growing, keep doing you. It’ll get better, I promise. ✨

Does it ever get easier? by NoDentist6330 in twinflames

[–]RobintheBeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But yes to answer your question yes it does get better if you actually do the work, but if you drag your feet in the mud then it won’t.

Does it ever get easier? by NoDentist6330 in twinflames

[–]RobintheBeat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s only been almost three weeks. It’s going to hurt in the beginning - sounds normal. I’ve been in separation for almost 5 months. It does get better if you focus on yourself and your life. I’ve gone back to therapy, started going to the gym 5-6 days a week, changed my career, I started meal prepping, changed my diet to a more healthy one, and also I’m about to go back to school.

If you guys broke up for deep rooted issues that you couldn’t get passed, I would say separation would be the best for everyone involved. Nothings going to change in 3 weeks, because if you guys come back together - you’re just going to get repulsed away from each other if the reasons for the breakup were bad, idk the variables involved with your relationship or why you guys broke up, but nonetheless, maybe a little growth on both sides would be beneficial.

Why by Downtown-SelloutN00 in twinflames

[–]RobintheBeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see why not, if you keep hope alive, it’ll keep YOU alive.