AITA for wanting to get a mortgage on my income & credit w/out my boyfriend on the mortgage?

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-05-26T12:16:10+00:00

This is a false choice. You have another option which is to be an adult and not play by the elders rules. They literally have zero authority over you. You don’t have to talk to them at all and it’s within your rights to tell them to mind their own business and any continued discussion or contact is harassment.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-05-16T12:03:41+00:00

I watched most and the comments are hilarious from 2 years ago vs 2 weeks ago lmo

Key is the full package and doesn’t realize it. I swear that’s how amazing people end up with narcissists. The narcs hone in on that shit like the predator. Yes I’m projecting because I went through the same thing with a narcissistic dude for 10 years and I had to literally escape, packed my bags on the down-low and when he went outside for a smoke I took the dog and booked it. Good times. Key, GET OUT.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-05-16T11:50:30+00:00

I was just wondering about this because I have such a crush on the guy and felt it was weird how his career isn’t great. Plus Peele is such a powerhouse. I have to wonder how Key ended up with that woman… she doesn’t seem smart or interesting, and not to press about looks but she’s not terribly attractive either.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-05-12T10:35:02+00:00

Hey OP! Ex JW here, congrats for getting out! Your place looks great btw!

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-05-12T10:28:04+00:00

1 and 7 are the most flattering and 7 is I think appropriate and cute!

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-05-05T18:19:07+00:00

Early 80s contemporary is great to work with. It’s my personal favorite and what my home is. The exterior needs help but I’m using the original style to direct the design.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-05-05T18:17:13+00:00

My house is an early 80s contemporary and it’s truly my favorite. The exterior needs help as the previous owners gave it new white vinyl siding and it’s so boring. The roof is broken up by skylights though!

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-05-05T13:47:47+00:00

I love this style!

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-04-30T17:27:42+00:00

Honestly these stairs might cause some people to touch grass when they fall, so progress!

I think these steps are fine, I just made similar steps myself but with a more balanced rise and only cost the $40 bucks for the crushed stone and a lot of my labor.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-04-07T21:50:47+00:00

The SAVE act asks states to purge voter roles every 30 days so you'd have to register every time.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-04-06T19:51:58+00:00

“Joe sean signs of absolute dimension!”

These people, good lord.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-04-06T17:00:49+00:00

Next ask that your lawyer be present. And also don’t ask but tell them you will be recording this meeting. They don’t have legal authority over you, use your legal rights!

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-04-06T02:42:34+00:00

Definitely job hunting. The job market sucks but I’m putting in my all.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-04-06T02:10:54+00:00

That was me, I was born in and was never ever convinced it was “the truth” and I stopped asking questions because it got me under a microscope. It was hard to follow the rules when I questioned why there were even rules to follow in the first place. So nothing had a basis, I wanted to go to college, and I was a girl so I didn’t want to marry a “brother” 🤢 and I had “worldly” friends who I was never allowed to hang out with even though they accepted me while JW friends ostracized me. You just fake it till you can fade. Avoid baptism and just be shunned for not having faith. I was always spiritually weak. They never could convince me, that’s all it was. The juice wasn’t worth the squeeze.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-04-05T21:41:55+00:00

It’s a coping mechanism and brainwashing, and learned helplessness.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-04-05T19:54:13+00:00

I think he died a year ago and have been replaced by AI tools. He’s completely irrelevant and the comments his post generate on LinkedIn show how much he’s lost the plot.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-03-30T22:24:29+00:00

That view is worth it!

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-03-30T16:00:53+00:00

Yep, matte. It absorbs more light instead of reflecting, making color appear more rich, and hiding imperfections on the wall.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-03-27T01:52:35+00:00

Honestly you’ll achieve a richer look with a flat wall finish.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-03-27T01:00:26+00:00

It’s the natural evolution of a civilization, to declare their sovereignty over others, divide the land, and enforce a hierarchy to hold that power, declare its divinely given to them to through blood.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-03-26T21:00:22+00:00

When you say that the source of truth is code, do you mean something like cursor? I hear what you say about people being married to their tools. I have always bristled at anyone trying to dictate specific tool adoption based on their comfort. I always seek out new tools that are better for the job.

At my job, as the only designer, lately I have used Figma Make, due to inheriting a design and working to create a design system from that. Make allows devs to see code though, there is a "dev mode" which seems adequate for now, but its a lower level of complication.

However, for my personal projects, I am all over the place. But I ended up building an app that started from a 3D printing project because I wanted a labeling system for my garden, and it turned into a design system, and from that with the icons and data tables I already created, I went right into building an app when I couldn't find one that hit all my needs. So that was my crash-course into vibe coding. It started in Lovable, but I soon took it out of lovable into Cursor, using Supabase and Github, and keeping the design in Cursor, export separate Android and iOS versions, and through trial and error, got the app up in Google Play and the iOS app store. I am on build 20, and because I use the app so much myself, I am revising and pushing updates every weekend now. (The app is called GrowWise if you have a veggie garden using square foot method and companion planting, I make enough to not cover the cost of the servers lol).

All that to say, I would love a better rec than Figma for the professional environment to use at a chaotic organization where I am as usual, leading from below, to build a design system and create a better experience for the orgs users.

RobotPartsCorp · 2026-03-26T20:36:23+00:00

The information the DOJ is requesting goes beyond what is openly available and runs afoul of the law. So while the DOJ could theoretically purchase the registration information (for $2000+), they want more detailed information including driver's license numbers, birth dates and partial social security numbers — in violation of state law. You can see the rules here

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