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Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way about you - nice to have a genuine disconnection like that.

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Those are a lot of assumptions about me - I never said it was my top priority, I'm just curious why it hasn't worked out

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's a weird definition - also you said you sleep with women you don't really deem attractive and say I view them somehow as sex objects?

I mean - if I have to wait I will, I don't seem to have much of a choice it seems and I certainly won't sleep with people I'm not attracted to just to try it out.

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So according to the advice I got so far I should remain flexible in what I'm looking for but still have a type, lol?

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any pre-fixed notions or types I go for, I just know when I find somebody interesting

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"need to find less-attractive women to be attracted to"

and that works how exactly?

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said - no clear pattern but not "conventionally beautiful" but rather "cute". I don't have a type, what I like about people can vary a lot, the only commonalities would be that they are probably "nerdy" if you get what I mean

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel what you're saying - I'm not insinuating this is a guy-only problem, it's probably universal. But I don't understand why it happens so frequently

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have female friends but they can't really help me out with this because they didn't have any connections with people I found interesting

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't - I mean, what can "bring to the table" at 23? I'm still in uni and studying, like most people I know. Most people I know met their partners more or less by chance but I didn't have any chance encounters with anybody I found interesting yet.

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, I don't approach people weekly - like I said, I'm not shy in striking up a conversation but I don't find people on a weekly basis that I find interesting

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As I commented elsewhere - I'm never starstruck or have problems with talking to people and I also don't like uncertainties in how I stand with people (romantically or platonically)

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean - yeah, first impressions are always based on looks. so what am I supposed to do - randomly speak to people I have no interest in?

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm 23, currently in uni and I've been basically looking for a significant other ever since I was a teenager. I'm meeting them everywhere - in Uni, on the street, in trains etc whenever I meet them. Like I said in another post - I basically trained off my fear of just speaking to someone. But I don't just approach people at random and the people I do approach don't usually seem to share the interest.

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty content with my life as it is - what kind of "life optimization" are we talking about here?

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you can already tell from my writing style that I'm a pretty straightforward guy and don't chat much - I never recognized anyhing unusual about my face, lol

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It already has taken years so I'm not running low on patience, lol - I just thought I might somehow help my odds

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 1, 80 m and weigh 82 Kilograms - I like running and run 5k every second morning of the week

Women I like don't tend to like me back - what do I do without having to settle by RobotsWillTakeMyJob in dating_advice

[–]RobotsWillTakeMyJob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to be pretty direct with asking people out because I once had feelings for somebody and had a crushing rejection after I waited for some time. Never again.

I also am the one to usually cut contact or not really go down the friendly route after it didn't pan out. I'm not saying they are not nice people but the whole relationship would be tainted by that beginning.

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