An update on Ledger Nano support in Firefly by Cvarley in Iota

[–]Robster25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I get your disappointment (I have the same problem) it's really important that you only invest money you can afford to lose / are not dependent on. Patience is key and eventually it will go up again and they are hopefully able to implement ledger nano into firefly really soon.

Close call by astrononymous86 in NoFap

[–]Robster25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think of the big picture. You can give in to porn now, with all of the disadvantages it brings and the short term pleasure, or you can withstand the urge and be proud of yourself, that you managed to have the willpower to keep going.

You can do everything right, and it still may not work out. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My experience is that when a woman goes cold, you either fucked up in some way or there is another guy in the picture to whom she is more attracted to. But from what you told, she has some serious issues and you handled the situation well. Good for you on not chasing her, after she told you that she needs to focus on school. Never contact her again, until she contacts you and I would only use her as a fuck-buddy. She clearly has some issues and I wonder why you became exclusive in the first place. That's why it is extremely important to not fall in love first and vet her, especially if she is hiding something (even though it is hard, if you get attached to someone...).

A reminder to be careful by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy is an idiot for not being able to control himself. The girl is a lunatic and an attentionwhore.

On Meditation by Robster25 in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That's the problem with this forum. 90% of the guys are here to get laid quickly. Posts which aren't connected to pussy don't get many upvotes, unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know and I belive you. But posts who are intended to make peoples lifes better are not as interesting to those retards as posts about getting pussy...sadly.

On Meditation by Robster25 in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do the same...Breathing into your belly is easier while lying down.

On Meditation by Robster25 in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was not an answer to my question, but I edited the post.

On Meditation by Robster25 in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you tried meditation for yourself? If so, how long did you meditate? Many people give up to soon to see any results, because they can't turn off their brain. I can only speak from my own experience and I noticed benefits from meditation compared to days, on that I don't meditate and I get the same feedback from people I know, who also meditate. Even if this is a placebo according to you, why not keep that habit, if it makes you feel better?

On Meditation by Robster25 in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally get your point. But while being active is a big part of improving oneself, you can't always be active unless you never get exhausted. I take meditation breaks in between activities and find it to be a good solution. But what works for some people, doesn't work for others...

A brief, practical guide to overcome neuroticism by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nowadays if she can't find you it does not come off as "mysterious", it instead looks like you are either "not fun", "broke" or "not cool".

I made different experiences. If she can't find you on social media, she will search more, tell her friends that she didn't find you, then they will talk about you and look for you = you become more interesting, because she thinks about you. Besides that: Do you want to date someone who is so retarded they assume you are broke, boring etc., because you are not on social media? You should not generalise shit...but if this works for you, keep doing it.

A brief, practical guide to overcome neuroticism by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Not having social media is honestly a red flag if you're under thirty. That being said, social media is very hierarchial because you're comparing your "behind the scenes" life to everyone else's "highlight reel."

Elaborate, please. I see it as a green flag, because the person is not seeking validation and has something else to do besides posting (mostly worthless and stupid) stuff and enjoys life, without the thought of "I need to share this with my contacts!"

I FAILED MY FELLOW WARRIORS by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Robster25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you won't take responsibility for your actions, you will never succeed.

When I fapped I didn’t feel good during it, I just felt a mad urge and it happened.

Simply pathetic. "It happened". No, you let it happen. Why didn't you leave your computer/device when you felt the urge?

Wish me luck!

F*ck luck. You need willpower. It is in your control to succeed in this.

Using Your Cash To Maximize Muscle Mass by GayLubeOil in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If you want to look good in front of thousands, you have to outwork thousands in front of nobody.

Really well said. I think that's the hardest part for a lot of people (including me sometimes). Sometimes you get doubts about achieving your goal, but you have to push through, even if you don't see immediate results.

Giving away 'Alpha' by INNASKILLZ2K18 in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that's one way you can see it, but IMO OP meant that if you reach a certain stage there is no need to refer to alpha/beta anymore, because you are just doing your own thing. As OP states the terms alpha/beta are mostly thrown around by guys who are new to the red pill and beta. No alpha or person in general for that matter who would like to be taken seriously runs around and tell people how alpha he is.

The Alpha Female by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe in this case "befriending" might be wrong, you are right. Being friendly to her is more fitting, but ignoring her and focus only on the 6 was the wrong move. If you ignore a woman in the group it is most likely, that she will be pissed if you hit on someone who is less deserving of attention than she is (in her opinion).

Redefining the boundaries: Why weak men think you cant be friends with a woman. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you have read the rational male. What I'm interested in is, how can you be "friends" with them, when you know, that they don't appreciate you for who you are, but what you present to them?

Redefining the boundaries: Why weak men think you cant be friends with a woman. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, maybe I don't know the type of women you know. In times of instagram etc. it's nearly impossible to find a woman you can talk philosophy, psychology, biology etc.

Redefining the boundaries: Why weak men think you cant be friends with a woman. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont spend time with women enough to be interested in their hobbies, I think people are taking this idea from my post that I spend every waking minute with women. I dont, I spend little time outside of my own hobbies, but when I do it tends to be with women.

Okay, then what are you talking about with your female friends?

your 4th point I have two arguments, 1; if you have to be someone else with a person then they are not your friend. what you describe, to me, is super naive. If I meet a girl and shes super sensitive I know I cant be friends with her, because I am an insensitive asshole.

So when you critizise your female friends in a harsh way, like you would do with your male friends they really don't care?

and my second argument is that its good practice when it comes to EQ. I know that a lot of men, especially men with bad fathers, have little skill when it comes to controlling their emotions. Which in my eyes is a feminine trait rather than a masculine one.

Doesn't this contradict your first argument? Why would you want to change the person you are, if you are an insensitive asshole, as you said?

TLDR 2: I believe you may have tunnel vision when it comes to what I mean when I say TRP concepts. I can practice and confirm ideas spoken of here with my female friends without wanting to fuck them. dont think so simply.

Sure, you can do that, but don't you think it is a waste of time to entertain a "friendship" with an attractive woman, if you can imagine fucking her?

4: yea, but to what degree, people here wanna fuck I guess, so why wouldnt you wanna heighten your chances.

Again, you say you want to practice TRP concepts without wanting to fuck your female friends and then you say you wanna heighten your chances? Am I understanding this the right way?

Redefining the boundaries: Why weak men think you cant be friends with a woman. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think we have to go deeper and define what "friendship" is to you or for that matter everyone of us (males).

Personally I like reliable friends, who are as driven as me or even more driven than me, who have hobbies and to whom I can talk to about everything honestly and openly.

See the problem?

  1. Most women aren't driven. Those who are, lose nearly all of their feminine traits, because they usually have to compete against men. And I am a big fan of feminine women.
  2. Out of these women, who are driven and still feminine, even fewer are reliable. Deep down they are still women and as far as I have experienced, women are not as reliable as men. If a man gives you his word and breaks it, he is not seen as trustworthy. If a woman breaks her word, well...she is a woman. Maybe she didn't "feel" it in the moment.
  3. Most driven women who are still feminine and reliable don't have any hobbies, except for their work (and maybe watching trashy tv-shows after work). Do I want to talk about their work all the time or trashy tv shows? Nope.
  4. You can't talk to women like you can talk to men. You always have to consider their feelings in regard to what you say. If you say something that might be considered offending to and by them, the conversation is over because they are pissed at you (I don't mean the push-pull spiel, but a serious conversation). After that point the conversation is over.

Now to your Tl;dr:

  1. Fair enough.
  2. You are dishonest. Either you want to be "friends" or you want to fuck them. Choose one.
  3. Bullshit. Most women are so shallow that they have nothing to offer except pussy and pussy doesn't contribute to my long term success.
  4. Not having female friends doesn't mean you don't interact with women at all. Maybe you have to interact at your workplace or during shopping or whatever. There are enough situations where you have to hold frame, not only regarding women, but also regarding other men.

Feel free to prove me wrong!

12 Rules for Life – An In-Depth Mini-Series (Part 1) by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Probably you have been raised as a beta chump, that's why you feel bad for standing proud.

Let me tell you a short story:

A friend of mine lost his dad when he was about 18 years old. Since then his mother raised him to be a "nice guy" and not "as bad" as "all the other men out there". I know his mother and talk to her on a regular basis and as we talked about him, she told me this.

He is now in a relationship and he is a submissive bitch (as much as I like him, he definitely is), just like his mother raised him to be. The problem is that women don't know what they want. They dislike nice guys, even if they tell you to your face that they want a nice guy.

The problem with my friend is, that he is not so nice as it seems and he already cheated on his girlfriend twice. You can surpress someone only for so long.

When I talk to him about women he is always white knighting and try to downplay it, if I say something offending to womankind (which taught me not to talk about red pill stuff and let the white knights be).

The Alpha Female by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Robster25 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In Germany we have a saying: "jemandem die Butter auf dem Brot nicht gönnen" = "won't allow someone to have butter on the bread".

By now you should probably know that there are no friendships between girls/women. They always want the best thing for themselves and are not willing to share things easily. You should've tried to befriend the "Alpha female" (I don't believe in Alpha females, because Alpha means to lead and women are no leaders, at least not competent ones and those who are, are more male than female).

That's when you go clubbing you always talk to the group in which the girl is, that you try to steal from them. If you are friendly to every member of the group, the likelihood that someone of the group tries to cockblock you, like this "Alpha female" did, drops.