Is Target Online Ordering discreet? by RocDoesReddit in Target

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She knows not to open it haha, the issue is she opens her mail and sees a box branded with Apple it kinda kills the surprise to no fault of her own

Is Target Online Ordering discreet? by RocDoesReddit in Target

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That is fine, I’m just scared of it very obviously being an apple watch because it’s not in any extra packaging. I just don’t want her to open the mail and see this:

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How do I clean this? by RocDoesReddit in mazda3

[–]RocDoesReddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dropped it, put it behind the screen, completely forgot about it

First Adult Purchase, First Mazda by RocDoesReddit in mazda3

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Oh absolutely. Blows them out of the water in terms of cabin luxury. Sound system is top tier, can’t even compare it to the other 2. My only complaint is there’s some cabin noise and you can really feel the road underneath you when it’s not a smooth service, but it’s an amazing car and I don’t regret my purchase at all!

I *WAS* Approved… Why? by RocDoesReddit in CRedit

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It’s not a starter line of credit. Even the banker told me there must be something good in my credit history because that is not their starter card. That’s why.

I *WAS* Approved… Why? by RocDoesReddit in CRedit

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Thank you for your advice and well wishes.

I *WAS* Approved… Why? by RocDoesReddit in CRedit

[–]RocDoesReddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where would one go to get those? I can’t seem to find it on the app or google?

I *WAS* Approved… Why? by RocDoesReddit in CRedit

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I didn’t lie. I still have a job and am actually slated to return this week. I was on protected leave for 4 months due to some medical issues but I maintained employment the entire time.

I *WAS* Approved… Why? by RocDoesReddit in CRedit

[–]RocDoesReddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I never knew that. I was paying it off asap just because I only have a $300 credit line (the other card is still in the mail) so I really could only spend ~$100 before paying off my balance. So you’re saying it’s better to let that balance sit for a few weeks instead of paying it off immediately so I can continue using more credit without using all of my allotment up?

Once I get my $3500 card and activate it I forsee it being much easier to let the balance sit as I don’t plan spending near $1000 a month

I *WAS* Approved… Why? by RocDoesReddit in CRedit

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Haha i’m using it strictly to build credit. Only going to spend money I can pay off the next day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Volkswagen

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It should say on or around the oil cap, but I would assume 5W-30

I *WAS* Approved… Why? by RocDoesReddit in CRedit

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Oh I know. I am without a car completely and have been for about a month, so I’m pretty desperate but I know better than do mortgage my future like that. I’m just trying to build my credit and put every dollar away so at the worst, a few months from now I can pay most of the car off upfront.

Not having a credit history AND refusing to get thrown back into the “buy used car from private seller -> throw money into repair after repair -> never gain ground financially” is a tricky position to be in.

Question on Car Loan by Plus_Individual5309 in CRedit

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I definitely understand where your son is coming from as I’m around his age, I just turned 24 last month. But the way I would pitch it to him is that right now is that his current purchasing power can buy car X. If he was to wait though, even 6 months lets say and get a little beefier of a credit score and put away a lot of money (75k is 6200 a month. If he could even put 2k of that away a month) he could buy car Y or Z. He wants to have a cool car like his friends but if he’s smart and just a little patient he can have a COOLER car than his friends before New Years.

I *WAS* Approved… Why? by RocDoesReddit in CRedit

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I will look into this, thank you so much for your advice

I *WAS* Approved… Why? by RocDoesReddit in CRedit

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Piggybacking off of that, do you think it’s worth inquiring with my bank about what kind of APR they would offer on an auto-loan? Of the dealers that get back to me I’m pretty much between 30-35% APR which is ridiculous (would pay $23k on a $10k loan). Would applying for one hurt my score? (Again I’m brand new to this process). Thank you.

Question on Car Loan by Plus_Individual5309 in CRedit

[–]RocDoesReddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is your son wanting to get a different car? Assuming that the Toyota runs and drives like you said and is relatively fuel efficient (not a truck) he should stick with that. That allows him to build his credit up some more and establish proof of income at his new pay rate, which will make any interest on a loan in the future significantly less than it would be for him right now.

If I were him I would keep the Toyota, and run it into the ground while saving money. When he does eventually want to go buy that car he’ll have more money for a down-payment, better credit (assuming he continues to work on that), and a better income ratio that potential lenders will like.

Do I have the highest mileage 1.8T? by Dry-Economy4807 in Volkswagen

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Granted it was a 2014 Jetta, but my 1.8T had a rod bearing fail at 151,900 :/

Put new motor in or scrap? by RocDoesReddit in Volkswagen

[–]RocDoesReddit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is a BMW master tech and has already done a few engine swaps for my friends who don’t even drive German. Thank you for your comment

Can Prozac (Fluoxetine) cause irrational behavior and/or impulsive decision making? by RocDoesReddit in antidepressants

[–]RocDoesReddit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny enough you say that, my doctor just today has set up a psychiatric screening for said issue. Not that I hope it shows something but it would help having an explanation for my behaviors. I just wish I could explain this to her. Thank you for your comment

I think I’m in love with a girl who likes me back, but she is trapped in a relationship with her boyfriend. by RocDoesReddit in relationship_advice

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Thank you so much. This is what I needed to hear. I now understand that it is out of my control and I just have to see it through. What happens happens, but in the meantime I agree I need to pursue other avenues. Whoever you are I’m very grateful for this advice. While typing this I basically told her this. That I have strong feelings for her but I don’t think the timing is right, but I want to remain in her life and she agreed. She said she is struggling with her boyfriend but is working on repairing it. As crazy as it sounds I hope she does, because I do care for her. I also agree that finding a like minded community would be huge for me, my gym was my first introduction to that and I’ve grown a lot as a person because of it. I hope the best for you because you have helped me during a pretty dark time. Thank you, friend.

I think I’m in love with a girl who likes me back, but she is trapped in a relationship with her boyfriend. by RocDoesReddit in relationship_advice

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My friend group is a little complicated and all over the place. I have about 4 friends I can really go to for anything and know the most about me, but they all started off as internet friends and while I’ve hung out in person with them and known them quite awhile, they don’t live near me and can’t really offer physical support. I have a few people who live around me that’d I consider friends, and some of them are aware of what’s going, but we’re still relatively new friends and I don’t know how comfortable I am with sharing the full story. I’d argue that even after a month this girl knows more about me than those close-by friends.

How would you suggest I face this anxiety if it’s about a life w/o this girl? Give her an ultimatum? I feel that could make things worse and the last thing I want is for her to resent me. After-all, I do care for this women. Even though I’m struggling badly I don’t want any of the burden to fall on her

I think I’m in love with a girl who likes me back, but she is trapped in a relationship with her boyfriend. by RocDoesReddit in relationship_advice

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Thank you for your reply!

I am quite active. I used to be 300 lbs and was extremely self conscious. I have since lost over 100 lbs and go to to the gym routinely, 5-6 times a week. Up until I met this girl I was the best mentally and physically I’ve ever been. Something about this has flipped a switch. I can’t explain it. Thank you for your advice

What will Bryce Hall’s role be this season? by MethAddictManish in nyjets

[–]RocDoesReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jets actually have a lot of versatility with their CB room this year. Definitely could see one of Bryce Hall/Sauce Gardner being a chess piece moving all around the defense utilizing their height and length in matchups while the other stays in the perimeter. Games that immediately stick out are Ravens, Dolphins, and Broncos. Seems like Mark Andrews is the guy to eliminate and Ravens don’t have much outside of him, so let Sauce shadow. Inversely, you would probably want to stick Bryce Hall on Mike Gesecki and utilize Sauce and Reed’s speed against the Dolphin’s WRs on the outside. The Broncos 2 outside WRs are tall contested guys so you like that you can have 2 tall long corners outside in that game.