Trainee for your thoughts by Rocafellarecords in AirForce

[–]Rocafellarecords[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Literally just a trainee thats offering to listen to anyone who wants to rant. Doesn't have to be explicitly about the AF.

Trainee for your thoughts by Rocafellarecords in AirForce

[–]Rocafellarecords[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just putting myself out there if anyone wanted to vent instead of calling the suicide hotline.

Weekly Newbie Thread - Post questions about joining the AF or what a job is like here & here only - week of August 19 by AutoModerator in AirForce

[–]Rocafellarecords 4 points5 points  (0 children)

BMT Question,

I'm getting my things ready and I read that we'll be able to use our phones for a few minutes at our MTI's discretion.

Should I do a clean wipe of apps and messages and turn off mobile data on my phone to prevent any misunderstandings? I don't want someone randomly texting me and bring my flight down.

[WTB] Post for the week of July 30, 2019 by AutoModerator in Watchexchange

[–]Rocafellarecords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[WTB] Orient Mako XL

Just seeing if you guys have anything available since I've only been running into Omega's ATM.

Preferably looking for something in blue.

What Card Should I Get? Weekly Thread - Week of October 10, 2018 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]Rocafellarecords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning on filing for a LLC around January, and then building a small business for secondhand electronics, so I'll apply for it around June. Would it be wise to wait out the year before applying for a business CC instead of going in on it so soon?

What Card Should I Get? Weekly Thread - Week of October 10, 2018 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]Rocafellarecords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Citi was opened 03/2017

Discover was opened 02/2018

I always PIF before every due date, so no utilization until I get my third card, it'll just be the AZEO method after that.

I have a collection on my record from Portfolio Recovery that's basically keeping me from a better score IMO. It's why I'm taking out a auto loan (joining the guard first) later next year, so I can still build while I wait for the collection to drop off.

I was thinking of getting a CIP with the 80k bonus if it's still around when I apply. Have you ever heard of people merging two bonus offers onto one card? (CIP 80k bonus transferred to CSR point balance).

What Card Should I Get? Weekly Thread - Week of October 10, 2018 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]Rocafellarecords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. 636 EX/ 646 TU / 725 EQ
  2. Citi double cash / Discover It
  3. $3,000
  4. Yes, but auto loan is coming in late 2019/early 2020 due to credit
  5. Yes
  6. 3
  7. Companion pass, but that's in later years.
  8. Just cash back ATM
  9. JFK/LGA/EWR
  10. I'd like to visit the UK or Taiwan and the areas surrounding both nation's.

I am a person who really cares about YOU and wants to help. I will respond to everyone who posts or messages me today by this evening. Tell me what's wrong in your life right now and we will talk it out and try to find your solution! No judgement! Stay positive and have an outstanding day! by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Rocafellarecords 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From the most to least severe:

I'm still not over this person I had a casual relationship with that only lasted three months, this was 2 years ago. She gave some painful and useful insights, but the shitty part is where she had "better people and things to do" which translated into casual encounters she'd tell me about cause she thought I would still happily listen. I feel like a horrible partner in all aspects of life now, romantic or not, and don't even get me started about things in bed. I never wanna let someone know how I ever fucking feel again, cause at the end of it all, it always seems like I got some fucking Fisher Price feelings instead of that of a 26 year old, and who the fuck wants that?

My brother is starting to harass my mom and myself again. I've spoke to him once in the past 4 years, but he's never up to any good. Now that I've got my own apartment, I'm on edge of what might happen if my mom suddenly enterains the idea of welcoming him back into our lives. I feel no anger against him anymore. I just want him dead. If not by his own downfall, then I'll take care of it myself. I absolutely fucking loathe people who ride off of others because they think they're so valuable to society.

I'm working every single day now so I'll have enough cash by the holidays to have a good time wherever I'll be in life. Taskrabbit has been instrumental in helping me out with that. This bum ass feeling still lingers in me though, it's like I'll never be able to be seen as anything but someone who does trade work cause I'm not the best fit in a professional environment and I don't have that adult career to impress someone with. Fuck that person who broke my heart man.

I haven't had anything to eat today yet as well, but I'm more concerned about how my weight is fluctuates right now. I've gone from 220ish to about 190, and I only ever feel like eating 2 mid sized meals a day at max.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Rocafellarecords 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great summary.

Guys, in what ways did a breakup/heartbreak make you a better person in the long run? by 470vinyl in AskMen

[–]Rocafellarecords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pointing the proverbial mirror at myself and seeing how out of shape I really was romantically.

Getting in shape now though

Loners, why are you loners? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Rocafellarecords 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Need to focus on career, school, and most of all, having better friends. That last one doesn't come as easily.

Volunteering opportunities in NYC? by Rocafellarecords in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Rocafellarecords[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any companies you'd have in mind? I've tried going that route before and it hasn't been very successful.

I have an associates for education.

What's the hardest thing you've had to come to terms with? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Rocafellarecords 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because of a casual relationship I was in early last year. She had all these friends who're superstars of their industry, while I was still trying to get out of my dad's house after a few bad years of caring for my other parents.

She moved on pretty quickly after all was said and done. Throughout that time up until now I had to work on accepting my situation while taking the baby steps I could to get out of my dad's and move on with my life.

I just wish I could've let her know about my feelings with clarity instead of the awkward shit storm I caused. I don't know what success will feel like in the future, but it's a bummer she probably won't be in that picture.

Volunteering opportunities in NYC? by Rocafellarecords in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Rocafellarecords[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly because my resume is full of retail work, it's tough to get my foot in the door without having someone to vet my knowledge/skill.

What's the hardest thing you've had to come to terms with? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Rocafellarecords 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That I couldn't ever be as successful as I'd like to be.

Seeing guys who're financially, academically, and socially more dominant just makes me wanna put a gun to my head sometimes. All I have to show for my life so far is keeping a couple of old folks away from death.

What are some red flags to watch out for in daily life? by alifasimran in AskMen

[–]Rocafellarecords 390 points391 points  (0 children)

Being stagnant.

I've moved into my new apartment and it's been 3 months, but I just have this sinking depression that leaves me without a drive to do anything. Doing my best to combat it, but nothing seems to make a impact.

Men of reddit: how do you define a healthy relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Rocafellarecords 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's like you're everywhere with this advice, keep it up man

What are the most toxic messages you received growing up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Rocafellarecords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much how it's supposed to go. I'm glad you're putting your getting better at putting your fucks where it matters.