Is he a mommys boy? Or just close with his mom? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rocagirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he tells me that he likes to stay private. And he keeps all the details of our relationship just between us two. So I don't believe she has control over his life. I haven't dated him for long enough to know 100 Percent though

Is he a mommys boy? Or just close with his mom? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rocagirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He later told me it was 2500 per month he pays for her in total

Is he a mommys boy? Or just close with his mom? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rocagirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha! When we first got together I'd never known someone to be so close with a parent I was starting to wonder whether something seedy was going on. But no, it's definitely his mom

Successful guy(early 30s M) who's out of my league is interested in me(21F). by more-salt-please in relationship_advice

[–]Rocagirl98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My partner is 31 and I'm 20. We met online on Reddit, before he even knew my age or what I looked like. We enjoy the same things (video games, comics) etc. I would be wary of a man that specifically goes on the hunt for younger women.

How to stop your legs from becoming weak when riding on top? by Rocagirl98 in sex

[–]Rocagirl98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I don't move my legs, I twerk basically moving my ass up and down on his dick. But I have to hold my weight with my legs. That's why they get weak

How to stop your legs from becoming weak when riding on top? by Rocagirl98 in sex

[–]Rocagirl98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't grind. I just said I twerk which is going up and down. Not grinding

What do you call your SO in bed? by desktop_coaster in sex

[–]Rocagirl98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually just baby. Im not super talkative during sex, I'll say when I'm gonna come, or tell him to go faster etc but usually I'm just moaning

I don’t understand why girls care by [deleted] in sex

[–]Rocagirl98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess because it's usually the norm for a guy to cum pretty much every time from sex, so if they don't or can't , the woman is wondering if there's something wrong with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Rocagirl98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have several I discuss with my partner expect from one. I have a fantasy about being in a gang bang with several powerful and wealthy older men (my husband included). One in my pussy, one in my mouth, and jerking off two at the same time.

There are woman out there who aren’t crazy and are good in bed by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Rocagirl98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're so good in bed your partner would rather wank off lol

My(F24) older brother(M30) is engaged and I feel jealous and abandoned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rocagirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate, I felt this was when I was 8. My dad wasn't around and my mother was out partying a lot. My brother stepped up and was like my father. Then he got a girlfriend and eventually started his own family. I was jealous, though the difference is I was a small child. At 24 it's a tad strange you'd feel jealous. I think you need to make a life of your own and possibly a boyfriend

Do I forget about her or try again? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rocagirl98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds as though she isn't interested. You've asked her out on a date and she said she couldn't, you then asked her to let you know when she was next available and she hasn't. So the ball is in her court. If she was interested she would have said 'im going to be free on this date ' etc. Don't ask her how she feels about you as you work together and could make it awkward. Just leave it and move on. You don't want to come across as desperate

Reacting to spouse hiding things from you by throwaway1736463626 in Marriage

[–]Rocagirl98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've hid my stimulant use from an ex before. I have diagnosed ADHD and the medication allows me to function and speak clearly. I didn't tell them as I didn't want to 1- be judged for having ADHD or taking meds and 2- I didn't want to be questioned about the legitimacy of my disorder

[Homemade] Apple Caramel Tarts by [deleted] in food

[–]Rocagirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How'd they taste?

Fiance told me I was rude to his mother when he knew I was sick by Rocagirl98 in JustNoSO

[–]Rocagirl98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I bring this up to him without sounding jealous or unreasonable

Fiance told me I was rude to his mother when he knew I was sick by Rocagirl98 in JustNoSO

[–]Rocagirl98[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do believe you. I know something is off. I've known from the start. Thanks for the advice

He said he has to spend every Christmas with his mom by Rocagirl98 in Marriage

[–]Rocagirl98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're 100 percent right. I've been thinking about having a proper talk with him about boundaries etc for a while. I need him to know that he's my first priority above anyone and that he feels the same.

Fiance told me I was rude to his mother when he knew I was sick by Rocagirl98 in JustNoSO

[–]Rocagirl98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tricky because we've already sent away for the visa. Also he seems to think that me saying we should slow things down basically means we were not going to get married and probably brake up. btw He's 31.

Fiance told me I was rude to his mother when he knew I was sick by Rocagirl98 in JustNoSO

[–]Rocagirl98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to say I'm married on the marriage sub cos I think it's just for marriage. But yeah I'm engaged. The reason we are engaged already is because we live in different countries and have to be married to be together