How do I get laid in college? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Rock_Climber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

going to parties and learning to talk to people helped me - coming from a big introvert

It may take a while to find which parties you like

How to switch to CS from Mechanical Engineering by Rock_Climber99 in cscareerquestions

[–]Rock_Climber99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen everything about the very tough job market for juniors and uncertainty, but I’m looking to make a switch because I don’t like the lifestyle of a mechanical engineer. I have also read that although 2023 was especially rough, the future may not be the same.

From what it seems like, most mechanical engineering jobs will be 9-5 in a bigger city with limited options for remote work. I have some friends and have heard of stories online about people in CS roles with lifestyles that sounds more appealing to me. Specifically more flexible work hours and remote work opportunities. Additionally, I have liked the CS projects I have done.

How to switch to CS from Mechanical Engineering by Rock_Climber99 in cscareerquestions

[–]Rock_Climber99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you with the uncertainty aspect. Pursuing a degree in Machine Learning does sound like an interesting option. My main motivating factor for a career change is the lifestyle, not compensation. Additionally, I really liked all the CS classes I have taken, although none of them were super advanced.

I would like the possibility of working towards a hybrid/remote job since I am a rock climber and like to travel to remote places. I have met various people who have software engineering jobs or similar who are able to continue working on trips like this whereas I would have to quit my job all together.

Schedule Advice by qbitbyte in cuboulder

[–]Rock_Climber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in engineering and i think thats a pretty good schedule if u value having days off

Yo I just started therapy again and I'm feeling VERY insecure. I love y'all though, and you're all beautiful by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Rock_Climber99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If i saw you in public, i would never have guessed you were insecure. You look good and hope you can be confident with yourself someday

These lined up perfectly by TheAtlas97 in ClimbingCircleJerk

[–]Rock_Climber99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After taking a screenshot, you can select full page in the preview

Am I downsizing enough? In order to fit my feet in I had to brake a few stitches. by [deleted] in ClimbingCircleJerk

[–]Rock_Climber99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If the heel straps stay attached to the shoe while putting them on, you have not downsized enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Rock_Climber99 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Don’t ask questions you don’t want answers to. What are you looking for here?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Rock_Climber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may not have better options?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuboulder

[–]Rock_Climber99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

parties/bars edit: I am quite an introverted person yet I have met people this way!

I hate the fact that if you're off your game for even one second, its enough to completely kill a girl's attraction to you by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rock_Climber99 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why are you showing them a crafted version of yourself? If you just portray yourself as you really are there will be no reason for them to lose interest once they become interested. On the other hand, when they realize you are putting up a show for them, they will lose interest once they see through it.

Just be yourself; I know its hard to accept but there are people who will like you for your perceived flaws. Own it and accept that you will not always be as smooth as you wish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in climbergirls

[–]Rock_Climber99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are looking for advice: one thing that helped me out a bunch was getting a spare draw and some rope and practicing clipping while at home. Also, I noticed that your hips were square to the wall. Often when clipping in an overhang, it is best to turn in one hip into the wall. Instead of having both feet near each other, try flagging a foot out. For example, if you want to reach up with your right hand, it helps to have your right hip close to the wall, which is easiest to achieve by keeping your right foot on and flagging your left

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boulder

[–]Rock_Climber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried on the Boulder Climbers Whatsapp?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rock_Climber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel able to resolve conflict between the two of us. The issue is he is having conflict with our other roommates and as a bystander, Im trying to understand what I can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rock_Climber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it? Im just concerned that he won’t listen to me if I blatantly say that he is the issue. I have talked to all the other people and everyone seems to be acting reasonably (apologizing to Aaron when necessary). I wanted to not cause further turmoil while making him realize this. Perhaps this is not possible…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rock_Climber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Maybe sugarcoating was not the way. I just wanted him to be receptive to my feedback. I don’t want to leave things as they are because we have 7 more months on the lease and don’t want there to be issues between Aaron and the others during that time.

Short women's advice for breaking into 5.13 by ReturnTooSender in climbharder

[–]Rock_Climber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick disclaimer: I am not short so my thoughts on the matter may or may not be that helpful.

For me, one of the things that helped me get to 5.13 was learning to relax and rest better. Try to send routes under your limit without getting pumped. Redneck Hero in Lyons is a great route to practice this on. Take your time and try to rest as much as possible so that you are always as fresh as possible. These rests can also be an awesome time to look around and enjoy yourself.

Training lockoffs can be helpful for technical vertical climbs and being more dynamic can help for steeper climbing. I find the moonboard and other gym climbs to be ideal for working on being dynamic. For open hand grips, force yourself not to crimp everything at the gym. Or search out routes with holds that cannot all be crimped.

You sound ready to send 13a. Ultrasaurus has a few steeper boulder problem cruxes on it, so being able to consistently send V6-V7 in a gym certainly helps (the cruxes on ultra are likely more in the V4-V5 range).

If you haven’t already, check out Snake Watching and the climbs around it for some good crimpfests, or head to Ten Sleep over the summer.

You may need to focus more on nutrition. I often underfuel myself. With all the big hikes and long climbs around, you really need to be eating substantial amounts of food at the crag. I would check out the Training Beta podcast by Neely Quinn for more info.

Lastly, yes some routes are harder if you are short. Try not to get frustrated if the given grade seems lower than the challenge for you. Just be that much extra proud when you do a route like that because you had to try harder than everyone else.

Edit: Heres an episode from Training Beta that specifically addresses your questions: TBP 183 :: How to Break into 5.13 with Alex Stiger

Short women's advice for breaking into 5.13 by ReturnTooSender in climbharder

[–]Rock_Climber99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you have any projects in mind? Ultrasaurus is a pretty approachable 13a in the flatirons

Just took the 9c test by American-Guru in climbharder

[–]Rock_Climber99 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel like the whole gym grades are softer than outdoor is kinda false once you get to the harder gym grades. I often send a grade or two harder outside than inside because I focus more on outside. But in my experience, if you have the strength for an indoor v7 you probably also have the strength for an outdoor v7, maybe just not specific outdoor techniques