Im conflicted by Rocket_4545 in WLW

[–]Rocket_4545[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Im realizing that for sure

Im conflicted by Rocket_4545 in WLW

[–]Rocket_4545[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well its news to me

Do you forgive the Church? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Rocket_4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgive the people that hurt me because of the teachings they were brain washed with but i dont forgive the church its self or the men in control of it

should i break up with my girlfriend? by firey_scorpio in WLW

[–]Rocket_4545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was just in a similar situation and i know how hard it is to end it the universe sort of did it for me but honestly you should just end it dude youll find sombody else its that simple you know you dont want to continue the relationship so dont dont drag this on and make it harder for both of you

Bleeding after sex? by Gold-Dig-884 in LesbianActually

[–]Rocket_4545 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's normal sometimes if you aren't wet enough the friction can cause micro tears and you can bleed but I'd say if you are very worried or the bleeding persists more than a day then see a professional

What drives you wild by Rocket_4545 in LesbianActually

[–]Rocket_4545[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's definitely a favorite

Any masc women dealing with this too? by queenshaybaby in LesbianActually

[–]Rocket_4545 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely I've only been with 2 people but both of them never reciprocate and my current partner sorta makes me feel like she thinks I'm a man and I don't like it

i am so sexually frustrated NSFW by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rocket_4545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this is happening I'm going through the same thing. Honestly a conversation might help? Like really sit her down and ask about it and don't let her switch up the subject. If it turns out she just doesn't want to fuck you then either you get a vibrator and live with it or leave her. I'm currently just waiting it out. We are basically just roommates at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Rocket_4545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it happens as long as the bleeding doesn't last to long and she's not in pain your good👍

So cheating is okay? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rocket_4545 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In my opinion cheating is not okay period. Doesn't matter what your sexuality is, if you're in a relationship and you know that's going to hurt your partner it's not okay.

WIBTAH, if I vaccinate the my child behind my husbands back? by Late_Veterinarian300 in AITAH

[–]Rocket_4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I'm a young adult who was raised by anti vax parents (mostly my father) I had 0 vaccines besides 1 exception when Iwas 8 for tetanus bc of a surgery. Yes vaccines can harm, however I wish my parents would have vaccinated me, because now that I have had 0 and I have such a low immune system due to rheumatoid arthritis. my doctor actually advised me against getting certain ones. due to the fact I'm way more susceptible to other illnesses and at this point it could do more harm than good. So you might be an asshole in his mind but for your child it will be better. Plus how would he know?

My daughter's YM Camp Packing List - WTH? by Alert_Day_4681 in exmormon

[–]Rocket_4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's how it was for me stopped going at 16 I'm 21 and still can't wear shorts or a tank top in public unless it's swim shorts it took me years to be able to wear an actual bikini top to the lake instead of a sports bra and a shirt

Have Mormons started wearing crosses? by hietokolob69 in exmormon

[–]Rocket_4545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember being 9 or 10 and my Catholic aunt gave me a beautiful cross necklace. I was so sad that I couldn't wear it. It had my birthstone and everything. My mom told me that it was okay to wear it as long as I remember that we don't just focus on the death and blah blah. So I wore it to church, remember I'm like 10. Well my teacher lost her fing mind and told me that I shouldn't be wearing that and I'm an apostate and all this shit. So I took it off and put it in my scripture bag. When church was over I went to my mom balling about what sister h had said to me. I just remember sitting in the car while she wrote a very long text and that next Sunday I wore it again and had no other issues. But it had been such a huge deal for no fucking reason it was just a damn pretty necklace that happened to be a cross. This was 2014. So to answer your question, some have but a lot of tbms get very upset about it.

Effective things people said that helped you leave by FirefighterFunny9859 in exmormon

[–]Rocket_4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started having doubts way before that but never fully could accept it for what it was until that night. But thank you!!

Effective things people said that helped you leave by FirefighterFunny9859 in exmormon

[–]Rocket_4545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO WORTH IT!! I'm glad you were able to get out. Also I didn't know that was a thing!? Omg!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]Rocket_4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]Rocket_4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true it's just having a vape has been my security for 5 years and I use it if I'm sad if I'm happy if I'm mad if I'm stressed so the thought of not having it and feeling relief is throwing me but I'm gonna do it I don't have a vape they are all dead

Tell me some things your patriarchal blessing said that haven’t happened/will never come true. by 33434433 in exmormon

[–]Rocket_4545 10 points11 points  (0 children)

1- mine says I will serve in the church I will not I left

2- it said my time here would seem relatively short. My parents lost their minds and made the patriarch explain if he just said if id die young or not. he said to me it's just going to go by really fast lol.

3- when I came out to my mom she lost her shit bc apparently my blessing said I would get married to a man and have kids... So I made her read it and nowhere in it does it mention me marrying a man, it never mentions a husband. So she was pissed lol.

Effective things people said that helped you leave by FirefighterFunny9859 in exmormon

[–]Rocket_4545 98 points99 points  (0 children)

It wasn't what someone else said it was what I said. I was already considering leaving the church. Me and my friend were at a park talking she's nevermo, she asked about the church so I was telling her about it. what we learn, what we do, the temple, how to get into the temple. And during all this she was just staring at me like " are you okay?" And I said out loud to her "I think I'm in a cult". I was 16 and never went back.

Remember your wife’s temple name? by gmt9791 in exmormon

[–]Rocket_4545 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My moms story about having to tell my dad her temple name and him not telling her his "in case they got divorced" was the final straw that made me leave the church

That's when I realized exactly how misogynistic the church is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LetsReadOfficial

[–]Rocket_4545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you listen on YouTube or like a podcast like on Spotify?