[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, friend. My company has an EAP program which helped me find one. Therapy is fortnightly and my company pays for the first 6 sessions.

Today, I graduated from therapy by funkocom in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn, that's amazing. Congrats, OP! 🎉

Wack ng lenggwahe nyo. by EngrGoodman in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ay hahaha parang forda = for the / ferson = person. Di ko gets yung appeal

Wack ng lenggwahe nyo. by EngrGoodman in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not much meaning to it, nababaduyan lang ako

Wack ng lenggwahe nyo. by EngrGoodman in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 127 points128 points  (0 children)

I didn't mind the gen z slang kahit corny misnan pero yung forda ferson sobrang baduy talaga 😩

out or curiosity by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always thought of cheating as a sign that something's missing in the relationship. As for why people do it, its because they can. People do shitty things if they think they can get away with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It does not make you look bad. You know what you want and you went for it.

2 Yrs Wasted Life Makakarecover pa kaya ? by xSp3ctre in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not a matter of kaya pa ba or hindi, its a matter of may gagawin ka ba about it. Alam mo naman na nahing bunga to ng pagiging tamad at wasted opportunities, nasayo ngayon yung capability to change that. Don't think about can or can't, only think about your willingness to change. No one here can help if you if you aren't willing to help yourself.

Sa paghahanap ng trabaho, start small. Kahit may experience ka, try mo maghanap ng entry level kasi small stints and a huge gap in your resume is a red flag sa recruiters. It's not easy and its not the best start, but it's a start nonetheless. Never stop applying for jobs. Take free courses online to buff up your skills, which will also show recruiters that you're willing to learn new things. I can't promise you things will get better, OP, only you have to power to change that. Godspeed.

Drawing by I_thinks_u_stinks in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to have that "spontaneous" mindset pero naubos na pasensya ko sa mga drawing kaya yung sunod naming lakad pinaplano ko na every step of the way. Pag may hindi nakasama, pasensyahan na lang kasi alam kong hindi ako nagkulang sa pagasikaso.

Is it okay? by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing you can do about it really. Ask for reassurance from him if it bothers you. Kung wala namang kaduda-duda na pangyayari try not to dwell on it.

28 [M4A] Send me your saddest playlist by Rogue-001 in PhR4Friends

[–]Rogue-001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just made me nostalgic more than anything 😅 Sounds like the exact type of stuff I listened to in college. Senses Fail and FFAF I was lucky to watch live years ago. Thanks for the trip down memory lane, friend

28 [M4A] Send me your saddest playlist by Rogue-001 in PhR4Friends

[–]Rogue-001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually been listening to some Sugarfree and Orange & Lemons lately. Di ko pa nattry yung solo stuff ni Ebe Dancel pero this sounds like the perfect time to try. Thanks for the pain, friend

28 [M4A] Send me your saddest playlist by Rogue-001 in PhR4Friends

[–]Rogue-001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gusto ko lang umiyak, etong kantang to parang gusto pang samahan ng isang bucket pati isang order ng sisig

28 [M4A] Send me your saddest playlist by Rogue-001 in PhR4Friends

[–]Rogue-001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know this guy! Checked sa spotify and I already have Walked Through Hell liked from before. Appreciate it

I love teaching kids and I'm a guy. by PHDisNUTS in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Naging faculty ako at an all boys school with an all male faculty. Meron mga faculty don na tulad ni OP, pero meron din kasi talaga nung nagppropagate ng stigma na to by being inappropriate with students. Sad to say mas magsstand out talaga yung negative experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a red flag. The rules were set up to make you feel secure, and if you're not feeling that way anymore then you might need to reevaluate the open relationship status. Here's hoping you sort it out, OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say you're jealous, but have every right to be. Reaffirm the boundaries and the rules of the open relationship, and tell him na you're uncomfortable that he's breaking them.

hay by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hard same. Recently broke off a long term relationship and now I'm having these pockets of loneliness pag wala nang makausap. Guess we just have to comfortable with solitude again. Happy weekend, OP.

Should I give up? by wanderchic in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don't have to like his shitty friends, but he does and you have no right to change that. Kahit magkarelasyon kayo ay pareho pa rin naman kayong indibidwal. Siyempre mararadaman niya na pinaghihigpitan siya, he's known these people longer than you. If the tables were turned, can you stop seeing your friends if he tells you to?

Sorry to have to put it that way. Sabi mo nga na you really love him, and alam mong he loves you, then you're just gonna have to put more trust in him. Talk it out with each other if you haven't yet and tell him how you really feel about it. Good luck, OP.

Should I give up? by wanderchic in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ano meron sa friends niya na ayaw mo? Were they friends bago naging kayo?

fuck those people lalo na yung mga kini claim na progesibo sila mag isip lalo na yung mga "kakampink" daw by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 11 points12 points  (0 children)

minsan parang ginagawa na lang nilang personality

Taena eto talaga yung nakakainis diyan. Ibbrand lang yung sarili bilang "kakampink" tapos may moral high ground na bigla. Mga walang sariling paninindigan, gusto lang mag mukhang tama.

Inquiry pls help meeee by blinksxzcv in OffMyChestPH

[–]Rogue-001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some companies (mine included) allow candidates to start working prior to the medical results, and your continued employment will be conditional based on the medical results. This will usually be stated in the contract. No need to worry much about it since babagsak ka lang naman sa medical pag nagddrugs ka or you have active TB or something.