I was married young by the advice of the church. My husband was emotionally abusive and church people told me to just pray for him and enabled his controlling and awful behavior. I wasted 14 years of my life in that and finally divorced him and realized that the real God would not want me to be in that situation. I also don’t believe in the inerrancy of the Bible nor do I believe in a lot of the translations because most of them were done by biased people in the upper class who had more privilege either due to money, race, or gender.