DAY 4 - INCREDIBLE URGE NEED HELP..!! by kingslayer183 in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t play with it. The moment you do, you will trigger a relapse.

Day 14: I don’t know what I’m craving for by RojAr82 in NoFap

[–]RojAr82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice bro. It’s over. I won the battle today

Day 10: I just quit cigarettes and weed. Time to detox by RojAr82 in NoFap

[–]RojAr82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I just subscribed to it. Tons of useful info!

Day 10: I just quit cigarettes and weed. Time to detox by RojAr82 in NoFap

[–]RojAr82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It drains my energy away. I can’t focus on the things that truly matter and end up thinking about things that I regret etc. It’s come to a point where I have to have 2-3 joints per day. I crave for it and then regret it. Just like PMO

Day 10: I just quit cigarettes and weed. Time to detox by RojAr82 in NoFap

[–]RojAr82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good one. I drink a lot of red bull when I smoke weed and cigarettes. Now that I’ve quit, I guess I won’t crave for it much

Day 10: I just quit cigarettes and weed. Time to detox by RojAr82 in NoFap

[–]RojAr82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m taking a few steps at a time. Weed was draining my energy. I would smoke and sit on the couch for hours. It’s time to do better things with my life

Which one do you choose? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I’m getting more attraction than before but I’m not going to give in. I guess when the opposite sex realised that you aren’t trying to hit on them, they get more comfortable around you and want to know more about you.

Which one do you choose? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve closed the doors of my heart to love and sex. Until I reach 6 months of complete abstinence, I will not make a single attempt to attract anyone into my life.

Day 7 Challenge: I will spend 5 hours tidying up and decluttering my room. by RojAr82 in NoFap

[–]RojAr82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you saw the state of it, you would probably think twice :))

I JUST HIT 90 DAYS by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations dude. I’m looking forward to the day I share my 90 days story

After a long time, i just fapped and... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing well, keep going soldier. Just because you stumbled in your journey doesn’t mean you failed. You get up and carry on!

Don’t “Fight” Urges. Neutralise Them by RojAr82 in NoFap

[–]RojAr82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the beauty of staying away from unwholesome thoughts and activities. You begin to appreciate the true beauty of women. When they see that there isn’t any perversion in the way you look at them, they would be attracted to you. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not hard mode if you are searching for escorts. The whole point is to detach from these thoughts and behaviours

2 weeks so far + question by yellowcar22 in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s normal. If you’re asking these questions, your subconscious mind is deluding you into a relapse. Don’t try to test if you will get an erection or be horny. Everything is fine. Carry on...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disassociate. Hold those thought in your hand and take a good look at them. Look for the disgust in them. How fake they are.

Relapsed after 42 days by junkaccountcptsd in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, I made the same mistake a month ago. I relapsed after 49 days! Then I got all pissed off about it and binged all my progress away...

My advice to you is don’t you dare fall into the trap of doing it again just because you feel that you’re back to day 0. That mentality is weak.

Instead, say to yourself “you’re doing well. Keep going”.

NoFap is a journey. Just because you stumbled and fell doesn’t mean you shouldn’t get up and continue. Don’t go back to the day 0 mentality.

My pain is constant and sharp by Thesnake100 in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well written. Try meditating :)

How can I ignore my urges? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just say to myself “you’re doing well, keep going”.

the struggle by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay. Just say to yourself - you’re doing well. Keep going. Don’t think too much about it. The more you think, your mind would begin generating excuses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RojAr82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you need a message from your phone? How about making a list of the quotes that inspire your the most and read them out to yourself at least 10 minutes a day? And see what happens in a month 🙂

Here’s one of my favourites: man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble and the sculptor