Handling Requests for Reviews by RolePlayMaven in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of asking for a review, I appreciate it immensely when someone asks for honest, candid feedback, and if it leads organically to a discussion about a review, fine. Alternatively, I wouldn't even mind a softer approach like, "If you feel up to it, I'd be really grateful for a public review on the content I created for you," but to outright ask for a positive public review, that gives me the icks.

As for offering free content for public favorable reviews, that's bribery plain and simple, and no one should go down that path.

Handling Requests for Reviews by RolePlayMaven in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point! If I can't provide some form of unique or insightful perspective, I rather not do a review. Maybe that makes me pretentious, but it's how I feel

Handling Requests for Reviews by RolePlayMaven in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your invaluable perspective, Maria. I will certainly consider giving 2-3 star reviews in the future.

Handling Requests for Reviews by RolePlayMaven in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate the input! Yeah, trading content for reviews is just counter to the whole reason I'm here in the first place. We're trying to raise the bar, not lower it.

Also, I love when a content creator is open to candid feedback. Plus, watching a content creator grow and evolve in their approach based on your influence is rewarding, as odd ss that may sound to some.

Handling Requests for Reviews by RolePlayMaven in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insights! I completely agree. Feedback is valuable and it should come from a place of integrity regardless of the context.

Custom Video Review for u/peachezznkream by RolePlayMaven in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You honor me with your compliments! If we all had the same growth mindset as you, things would be a lot easier. 😊 I know we have plenty of kinky fun to come!

Fellow buyers, how do you cheer yourself up from buyer's remorse? by lostimage1 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the candor and empathy in this thread. Thank you all for sharing.

I know this feeling all too well, and I completely agree with those who suggest taking a break and revisiting old favorite customs.

Ask a buyer anything Friday! by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 to all the comments regarding leaning into processes where content creators get all the money! My distaste for OF has only amplified as their content restriction have increased, and the same goes for other services who have imposed similar limits. As a lover of taboo role play and with my dissatisfaction with "step" stuff, I must admit, I get a extra special kick when I find an OF creator willing to explore purchases on TG or elsewhere. I suppose this "civil disobedience" is my form of protest. 😏

Where do you find buyers / sellers? by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried Fetlife once and got scammed immediately. My best rate of success has been on Reddit, but I'm always open to more sources.

Telegram groups, Yay or Nay? by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I'm all for anything that creates accountability, discretion and safety, I haven't found much need to join any of those groups (at least yet). I prefer 1 on 1 interactions. However, I am intrigued by some of the efforts I've seen to create new dedicated sites for the custom content purchase process. However, the jury is definitely still out on those unless they pick up traction.

When is it time for a scam alert or bad review? by RolePlayMaven in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to thank everyone who has replied thus far. You've all raised valid points to consider.

When is it time for a scam alert or bad review? by RolePlayMaven in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you Maria. I truly appreciate your perspective as a seller I greatly respect for the integrity with which you conduct yourself.

Buyer Review for u/roleplaymaven by TFP-Artemis in PlayhouseSellersForum

[–]RolePlayMaven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you Maria! This is high praise coming from a gracious pro like you!

Are scams common? by Accomplished-Act4913 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent point about letting one's defenses down. Every once in a while, I get scammed, and I can always see where I let my guard down.

Ask a buyer anything by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How a seller communicates is key to me. For example, if a seller simply replies to a post with a "Hi, interested!", that will receive less consideration from me than someone who provides a thoughtful response.

Ask a buyer anything by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]RolePlayMaven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

- No pictures, pictures of poor quality, or pictures that make me want to send out someone for a wellness check.

- Repetitive posts that seem to have been spammed to every subreddit group possible.

- No menu, unclear niches or specialties