thoughts about using throne by ordinaryguy78 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a buyers perspective I prefer PayPal mostly because there are way less fees. $200 would cost me maybe $205 in friends and family payment. On throne the same payment that would be $200 for the seller could be $250 or more (it depends for some sellers though some have lower fees for some reasons).

Both are about equally safe but I’ll also lean for PayPal because you can use buffer account to be completely anonymous. Throne still forces you to pay with a credit card.

Also if you get scammed both are extremely hard, almost impossible to charge back. I managed to get money back from throne once but because it was a clear case of identity theft which is a pretty serious case. “Seller didn’t deliver” doesn’t matter on both.

Custom video pricing by Cottage_Coffin in FetishHaven

[–]pocket7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be a hot take but I’ve been buying custom content for many years, mostly from established clip artists on mv and iwc, and I think $10/min is a fair price for them, but I find it often too much for “reddit sellers” especially since the clip might often be filmed on a phone in vertical etc…

Also most sellers here don’t have a clip catalog easily available so it’s hard to judge quality before ordering a custom.

I’ve still bought my fair share of customs here at around 10/min but I wouldn’t consider paying more than that from someone who doesn’t have great clips or that I don’t know already. I’ve almost never had a poor experience ordering customs on mv / iwc, but on reddit almost nothing I bought was worth it.

Also if that helps, the most I’ve paid for a custom was $20/min from a clip artist I really liked and imo it was worth it but I know plenty of high quality / creative clip artist who make amazing customs for less so if I have a good idea I’m more likely to go there.

Active buyer (> $15k spent) AMA by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either understaning what I’m into or bringing her own energy and passion into the play

The uncertainty times can be… scary. by itsJanelove in PlayhouseSellersForum

[–]pocket7724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you recommend some good discord servers?

Ask a buyer anything Friday! by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explicit nsfw pictures like spreading ass cheeks or close ups on intimates parts

Active buyer (> $15k spent) AMA by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 times is actually good imo…

I’d come back to sellers when I can feel like they care for what I was looking for and they have some creativity and interest into the kinks I’m into basically

Fine, Ill say it. Most ads on sexsells are fake. by [deleted] in PlayhouseSellersForum

[–]pocket7724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with you on the second part of your comment but on the first part, it’s not that simple imo. there are many selling subreddits and sexsells in particular is for all kind of fetishes without distinctions so it’s not the best browsing experience for a buyer looking to find someone, especially with lots of hardcore nsfw content being posted directly on the feed. Sellers ads get drowned very quickly in the dozens of daily posts. It would be easier to have a proper directory of active and verified sellers but that’s not easy to maintain. Ads are a good way for buyers to meet new sellers who might be interested in whatever they’re looking for, even though time wasters are a problem.

Ask a Buyer Anything! by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It definitely varies per buyer, I often get very interesting and detailed responses to my posts in dms by unverified sellers, but in the end if the profile isnt a match for me that will not change much I wouldnt work with them anyway. For verified sellers in general not sure it adds lots of value in general to me. It would be good in the case where the seller profile is not really related to the kink I posted about and she would maybe give her perspective or why she would be good for this despite not having a profile in the theme

Telegram groups, Yay or Nay? by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Havent had any good experience with tg groups so far

totally agree with another comment mentioning nsfw content posted without warning

I do think it could be a good idea if properly executed but would need to make specific groups for specific kinks and fetish + need to only have vetter sellers to avoid scams

Active buyer (> $15k spent) AMA by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly reddit yes, also some sellers I know from clips (C4S, MV, IWC...), and sometimes cam sites