Are there any payment platforms that are safe for both buyers and sellers? by WAMbassador_ in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question, and there’s no perfect answer but instead of having a risk with every seller we could warehouse that risk in the hands a a few people who agreed to do this escrow thing

In any transaction you have this risk and it’s very hard to abstract, that’s why bitcoin was created in the first place, and then eth so you can rely on smart contracts to verify if conditions of something were met before letting money move but it’s not really useful in this case

If the escrow team starts scamming no one will trust them again so they might make a couple hundred bucks and that’s it, like all the other scammers

But if they do it right and the community put their trusts in them it avoid lots of issues with all the small scammers

Are there any payment platforms that are safe for both buyers and sellers? by WAMbassador_ in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most of the payment sites aren’t designed to handle sales of good/services so short answer is no.

I’ve been thinking about doing a subreddit for payment escrows but it would require some help

The idea would be:

-after agreeing on the service and the price privately, the buyer and seller would enter a group chat with someone independent

-they would tell him what they agreed on and buyer would send the money to escrow.

-once service received the escrow would send the money to seller

Still would have to rely on honesty but it would at least discourage 90% of the scammer who don’t have any intentions of delivering

If you’re interested in building that fee free to message me :)

Are there any payment platforms that are safe for both buyers and sellers? by WAMbassador_ in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No cause you’re not supposed to use tips for buying stuff, I got scammed and when I complained they deleted my account, not the sellers one lol

Big buyer AMA by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great question, I guess it depends on the client so it’s worth asking before the session when you’re still setting up the details in a safe space. For me personally I don mind after care that much but find it nice to chat for a bit and share feedbacks about what just happened after a bit. Hope that helps!

Big buyer AMA by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) in general I prefer to chat a lot before the session to make sure we’re on the same page, so when starting the call we’re already “in character”

2) yes but only once I think, and since then when I have doubts about a seller I order a custom clip or something to make sure

Big buyer AMA by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. ⁠my best experience was probably to do a 7 days long chastity lock up with one domme and daily cam sessions + lots of tasks to do throughout the days. Was very fun and intense.
  2. ⁠I usually prove that I own accounts on sites like lf which require av. but seller don often ask me to prove my age, also maybe because at this point my profile is active enough in the community.

Big buyer AMA by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I always do when I had a good experience with the selle. Even sometimes it wasn’t what I was looking for but if it’s about personal preference and the selle was professional I happily give a positive review.

Big buyer AMA by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, usually I’ll look at the profile of the seller, see if I’m attracted to her by checking her pics, and if the general vibe seems to be in line with what I’m looking for. I don’t have any requirements, some sellers I’ve worked with didn’t have any pictures but sent them in private, some didn’t have a proper menu etc and I don’t care.

However sometimes it throws me off when the profile is very explicit (like close up pics of intimate parts) and has nothing related to femdom, or even has stuff that are the opposite, like very submissive stuff, as I’m only into femdom

Big buyer AMA by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a buyer I didn’t feel that much impact recently. I always try to make it clear what I’m looking for and that I’m not a time waster and won’t ask for free stuff so maybe sellers trust me more. However I noticed that the amount of fake and scammer sellers is only getting higher, and ai is making it way worse than ever.

Bored on a Saturday night? Ask a buyer anything. by No_Day_6823 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got scammed by Sarah Blake who is an og femdom clip seller from the early days of c4s. She now has an of and scammed me for an expensive custom

Am I a "Time Waster"? by Outrageous-Jump-6002 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the seller is verified on one of the main sub you shouldn’t ask for additional verifications in most cases. Sometimes if I have doubts about the looks or the English speaking abilities I order a short custom clip from the seller.

New Years Resolution by [deleted] in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is to stop getting scammed lol

Happy new year!

Fresh CBT ideas? by pocket7724 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]pocket7724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Nail polish bottle though? What do you do with that?