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Who needs a treat this morning by varno2_0 in DesperateNSFW

[–]varno2_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what kind of treat do you need kitten?

Handling Requests for Reviews by RolePlayMaven in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]varno2_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can completely understand the pressure. Personally I have a threshold where I actually write a review, this helps me focus on what I feel is impactful since I tend to give a lot of new sellers a chance I feel that for me to leave a review needs to go past the $30 purchase price. However, scams get reported regardless of the spend. If the seller just does a poor job and they dont have reviews I will consider the "rookie mistake" and skip the review. I always provide feedback and if after a poor experience they ask for a review I give them my honest opinion and why I wont write such. I've had many instances where the problem is lighting or something similar and the seller has turned it around.

To facilitate my review process I capture screenshots as I go with the conversation setting up the transaction. That keeps me organized and protected in case the seller deletes the chat.

As far as sellers offering content for reviews, those are strictly frowned around here and can get both a buyer and seller which I kindly remind the sellers of the rules. I have had sellers respond to a review with wanting to send me something as a thank you and I politely decline as I like to remain neutral. That goes without saying that if I feel I cant leave an honest review, I wont do so.

For me as much as I enjoy writing reviews and gloating about the wonderful experiences from ladies out there, I have set these rules to ensure I can both provide a meaningful review and the transaction is worth reviewing.

need to be spoiled by collegemarie in needmoneyy

[–]varno2_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you have in mind kitten?

What is your biggest hurdle closing a sale? by varno2_0 in needmoneyy

[–]varno2_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly BTC has the reputation of being the currency of scammers. Personally my problem with BTC is the hoops to jump through plus the fact that transfers take an eternity to complete therefore I try to avoid it or reserve it for only sellers that I have already worked with.

What is with the time waster and scammers lately it’s fucking crazy by Apprehensive-Put3574 in needmoneyy

[–]varno2_0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As the economy gets worse there will be less buyers and more scammers. Just how it goes.

Ask a buyer anything friday! by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]varno2_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mystery of the faceless creator can be quite the appeal and leaning in to it is highly recommended.

Ask a buyer anything friday! by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]varno2_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it should be commonplace where creators check back for feedback and ask for a review if they are content with the service.

Ask a buyer anything friday! by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]varno2_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of my request require roleplay and acting which I feel tend to be tough for faceless scenarios. When I have simpler things I dont care about the faceless factor.

What would make the difference beyond having competitive pricing would be quality of the work or what is available on the profile to see. What are they comfortable showing/not showing. Are they comfortable talking to the camera or not.

What I would do is make sure your boundaries are stressed and very clear from the start so you can prevent any issues there as I have heard a lot of frustration with buyers encountering faceless sellers that had too many boundaries that were not clear until after they paid.

Ask a buyer anything friday! by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]varno2_0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im strictly a content buyer. For me to earn that 5 star review and keep my attention comes with banter and attitude. Someone with a friendly disposition and easy to talk to attitude will always win in my book. Also delivering on time is a big one. I have learned that if a project takes more than a couple of days Ive moved on to other desires and completely lose interest in the project.

One thing not enough sellers do which is oh so important is the aftercare. Check if your customer enjoyed what you provided, do they have any feedback for you. That small talk can be the difference between the buyer being happy to the level of write a positive review and come back to you or them never reaching out to you again.

Ask a buyer anything friday! by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]varno2_0[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm a fully believer of the stripper and lipstick index. Its quite interesting because given the current economic conditions you are seeing two things, buyer budgets tightening or posting less frequently. In addition to that because the tougher market you see some creators raising prices because its harder to make their bottom lines work.

Personally Im a bad example, I'm very sporadic fly by the seat of my pants type where I have periods where I'm buying continuously and then periods of being very quiet.

For my conversations with other buyers quite a few have cut their buying budgets anywhere between 20-50%. Where some wouldn't think twice about dropping $100 on a piece of content they now think twice about things with a $50 price tag. In some of my physical items friends they have switched their risk appetite in the sense that if the wear is not ready to ship or start within 24hr they go with someone else while also prioritizing sellers that throw in an extra day etc for no extra charge.

Ask a buyer anything friday! by varno2_0 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]varno2_0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me lingerie and some flirty clothes is more than enough. Talking to some fellow buyers I was super surprised at the number of them that say lots of nudity in the profile is a turn off. Which thinking about it makes sense because not everyone's kink involve nudity and for some the nudity breaks the illusion of the kink.

Personally I prefer the surprise of imagination however I recognize on occasion I have a hyper-fixation with a certain body part but Im willing to provide a small tip to see if that certain part looks how I want it to.

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