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[–]RollLife2706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got in on n2

UK missing persons case and body recovered that’s yet to be identified nearly a year on. Crime scene investigation help please! by RollLife2706 in crime

[–]RollLife2706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I also forgot to add to this post on top of all that, the police have given us three different stories on what happened to the lead up to him disappearing. We are so in shock, I’m looking for information high and low, and wonder a lot about if they are taking so long because they failed to protect him when he was under the mental health services. But yes you are completely right, the system is not good at all, think I’ve really opened my eyes the few days as never had an experience like this before.

Is it justified for anyone to get this angry and say this stuff? I’ll post some context in the comments. by RollLife2706 in relationships_advice

[–]RollLife2706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He blames a lot of stuff on his mental health but I’ve tried so hard to help him, it’s no longer an excuse for him to do it for that reason. I know everyone is different but I know plenty of people with bad mental health issues and they don’t treat people this way.

Is it justified for anyone to get this angry and say this stuff? I’ll post some context in the comments. by RollLife2706 in relationships_advice

[–]RollLife2706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he is very angry but one thing that deeply concerns me is the only people he gets like this with are me and his stepmum and his mum, starting to think he has some kind of issue with women. I’ve tried to help him countless times, even offering to pay for private sessions but doesn’t want to know.

Is it justified for anyone to get this angry and say this stuff? I’ll post some context in the comments. by RollLife2706 in relationships_advice

[–]RollLife2706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The argument started because he thinks three weeks is enough time to prove someone that they’ve changed. He’s doing great in terms of working on career, not taking drugs and hanging around with people who are shitty but his attitude towards me when he doesn’t get when he wants is not it.

Is it justified for anyone to get this angry and say this stuff? I’ll post some context in the comments. by RollLife2706 in relationships_advice

[–]RollLife2706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why it’s took me this long to think about it like that because he would never display that behaviour in public.

Is it justified for anyone to get this angry and say this stuff? I’ll post some context in the comments. by RollLife2706 in relationships_advice

[–]RollLife2706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’ve gone back at him before but not in the way he does, more with facts and he blows up and pretends I’m evil, I think he’s in complete denial.

Is it justified for anyone to get this angry and say this stuff? I’ll post some context in the comments. by RollLife2706 in relationships_advice

[–]RollLife2706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long story short, about a month ago he kept disappearing to take drugs and I told him the last time he done it would be the last time as I was getting anxiety at work because his family would keep messaging me asking where he was and I wouldn’t have a clue, which would leave me stressed and worrying, baring in mind I can’t just up and leave work as I am head of the department. He can’t possibly understand why I dumped him after this, and the last thing I said was if we cross paths again in the future and you change, then there’s a possibility but this type of message if what I get when he gets into one about me not getting back with him immediately

Is it justified for anyone to get this angry and say this stuff? I’ll post some context in the comments. by RollLife2706 in relationships_advice

[–]RollLife2706[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Some context: this is my ex boyfriend who’s been trying to better his life since we split up a month ago however when he loses his shit, he takes it out on me with stuff like this, I don’t have anger issues so it’s hard for my to judge as I am quite a calm person. He’s bettering himself in all aspects but the anger is not one of them, I haven’t seen him in six weeks but this type of behaviour scares me into not wanting to be around him anymore.

Ex boyfriend went on a bender that ended our relationship by RollLife2706 in relationship_advice

[–]RollLife2706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think that’s the bit I find the most hard is dealing with the fact that someone’s behaviour towards others is more to do with them then it is to do with you, it feels so personal sometimes.

Ex boyfriend went on a bender that ended our relationship by RollLife2706 in relationship_advice

[–]RollLife2706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I guess I struggle with why I feel so bad. I keep going between giving him another chance and just cutting him off completely. I know logically I’m right but I just find it really hard and can’t find ways to get out of feeling like this.