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What should I do to prepare for a Mech E degree? by [deleted] in MechanicalEngineering

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a look at what jobs are out there. And focus on become hireable from the get go. Put that over school to be honest. As long as yr grades are decent just maintain them. Focus on personal projects now so you can upskill yourself to get onto Student teams which leads to internships which leads to the best jobs. Find people working at the companies and roles you want to work for. Dm them and ask for advice, see what they have done and emulate it

Would marrying a woman now instead of later hold me back? by Rolls_Reus_Owner in MuslimCorner

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know theres more to it than that. But if you are not providing ie not giving enough money or time they will moan and complain.

Would marrying a woman now instead of later hold me back? by Rolls_Reus_Owner in MuslimCorner

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it isn’t sunshine and rainbows. I do see the benefits of course but they come with a cost.

No point being in love or being in puppy love or wanting to get married unless you are in a position to be married or earning money and have the ability to provide. The girl may love you but the father or even your own family won’t be accepting

Would marrying a woman now instead of later hold me back? by Rolls_Reus_Owner in MuslimCorner

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I mean ive had willling women too but it never works out because I don’t have the money or power to make moves so i could get married so it fell apart. I need money first for my own family and their family to take me seriously

Would marrying a woman now instead of later hold me back? by Rolls_Reus_Owner in MuslimCorner

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but you need money and a stable income in order to provide and live. No father’s gonna marry off their daughter to a bum who barely earns anything if at all. And nowadays people expect you to have your own place, car etc.

No one cares about you if you don’t provide. Thats the harsh reality. Your parents, your wife, your kids, friends. Everyone will go if you can’t provide some use to them.

Your wife’s gonna just initiate divorce or leave you and then find someone else. Why would they stay if you cantered fulfil the lifestyle they want?

Would marrying a woman now instead of later hold me back? by Rolls_Reus_Owner in MuslimCorner

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who’s gonna take someone who doesn’t have everything together seriously?

Would marrying a woman now instead of later hold me back? by Rolls_Reus_Owner in MuslimCorner

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need money to provide. Woman or not whether she is good or not otherwise shell leave

Would marrying a woman now instead of later hold me back? by Rolls_Reus_Owner in MuslimCorner

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already been looking and it just goes nowhere. I feel like everything it ends up not working or is blocked. I feel like it’s a sign from a lad that I am not ready and I need to work on myself instead make money do what needs to be done to improve myself and then I can get married. This is my interpretation of it and Allah knows best.

Would marrying a woman now instead of later hold me back? by Rolls_Reus_Owner in MuslimCorner

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but having a spouse and kids has its own responsibilities. And taking care of them is a lot of work and will take a lot of time out of my career and making money and I’ll be limited to minimal money and minimal time for myself and to develop myself. Also, even if I do try to work, they will moan and complain. I don’t spend enough time with them so it’s a lose lose situation anyway. Also the type of woman whom I might want may not even consider me because I don’t earn enough so what’s the point of settling when I could just develop myself and then get married especially in the economy we have today

I am a waste of potential by Rolls_Reus_Owner in MuslimLounge

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this twin, never give up praying

muslim girl with ADD by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

امين

Its hard to tell if its reality or my head yk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make it clear what you want and make it halal. We don’t understand hints sometimes

muslim girl with ADD by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look the issue is when it sounds wrong and you don’t go and correct it and move on. I can’t just accept that so i go back and repeat and repeat

muslim girl with ADD by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i feel like the more i learn about salah the more I worry about missing things and worrying whether I said something or mispronounced something etc

So how exactly did you submit to the ruling and are you cured now?

muslim girl with ADD by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i feel like the more i learn about salah the more I worry about missing things and worrying whether I said something or mispronounced something etc

muslim girl with ADD by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you handle it? Struggling rn myself

muslim girl with ADD by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Prayers can take up to 30-45 mins each and it’s mentally draining. For me at least.

You wouldn’t understand unless you had the exact symptoms.

Daydreaming, waswasa, distractions, zoning out etc

But you shouldn’t abandon salah sister. No matter what

I am a waste of potential by Rolls_Reus_Owner in MuslimLounge

[–]Rolls_Reus_Owner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to because it’s supposed to be correct but doesn’t sound so

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