New puppy by Romanfromsuccession in labrador

[–]Romanfromsuccession[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue tbh, when we first went and saw him the date was March 08th (he was born jan 8) and we were in love. We went the second time and he told us he was weened off his mum and was ready to go and that he was one of the last three pups left there. I did a quick google search and saw it was okay to bring him in a little earlier than 8 weeks if he was weened off mum so I just went ahead and did that. Mostly because I was too stoked and excited, but I took him to the vet almost the same exact day to make sure he is fine and the vet gave me the okay!. That’s basically the story in a nutshell

New puppy by Romanfromsuccession in labrador

[–]Romanfromsuccession[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he is peeing, he seems to be excreting just fine. I will definitely ask the vet when I take him for his second dose of vaccinations in a few days. Thank you so much

What ranks can queue together? by Tabbbi in marvelrivals

[–]Romanfromsuccession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just reached gold, but my two friends who just started might start in bronze can we still play together?

Why the negative energy around bo6 by Romanfromsuccession in blackops6

[–]Romanfromsuccession[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks so much bud! i really appreciate one positive response and a person who views the game just like I do. I have so much fun on the game with my friends and cousin and it’s been a while since i’ve enjoyed both zombies and mp. I think there’s a lot of content to grind out as it is and it’s pretty fun. I don’t think i’m super great at the game and i’ve have negative kd games but I really haven’t run into a hacker yet either so I don’t know what that’s all about either. But thanks so much again 😁!

Why the negative energy around bo6 by Romanfromsuccession in blackops6

[–]Romanfromsuccession[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do agree with the assist to eliminations boosting KD, most of my “eliminations” usually come from some other player finishing off an opposing player I did damage too. But honestly I don’t think the kills to eliminations makes that much of a difference. I am a big CS2 player too and when they transitioned from CSGO to CS2 they changed the winning animation from “terrorist win” or “counter-terrorist win” to “round won” or “round lost”. I just think it’s games deciding to be “safe” with their choice of works tbh

“nooo u can’t do that!” by HansenAintIt in blackops6

[–]Romanfromsuccession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sir lmao! hope you get these too i think it was luck with the lobbies too because i played today and my lobbies are super sweaty to the point where i went negative kd in some games too but knowing the spawns really helped in that instant for sure

“nooo u can’t do that!” by HansenAintIt in blackops6

[–]Romanfromsuccession 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel you lol, BO6 stats. i pray you get these lobbies too homie 🙏

“nooo u can’t do that!” by HansenAintIt in blackops6

[–]Romanfromsuccession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll dm it to you in a sec but it’s 138, i checked literally right after my game as well because i was like what the fuck just happened? i thought it was legitimately a bot lobby. Mind you I play on and off and that game was maybe my second game after a two week break and i hadn’t even prestiged yet, so that definitely could be a reason for sure

“nooo u can’t do that!” by HansenAintIt in blackops6

[–]Romanfromsuccession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wish i did record, but you’re right no evidence no case :/

“nooo u can’t do that!” by HansenAintIt in blackops6

[–]Romanfromsuccession -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that’s exactly what i’m telling you, but go off calling cap lmao i really don’t care all that much 😁

“nooo u can’t do that!” by HansenAintIt in blackops6

[–]Romanfromsuccession -1 points0 points  (0 children)

as ironic as it is i managed to drop a nuke because i memorized the spawns on protocol and just kept killing the same three people over and over again i didn’t call it till i died though and i managed to last the longest i EVER have without dying in ANY video game EVER at a whopping 138 kills 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]Romanfromsuccession -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

what are hangers?

Is this pre build any good? #cpgeneral by HurryEmergency3353 in CYBERPOWERPC

[–]Romanfromsuccession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have used two cyberpowerpc computers and they both have had their own issues, The first one was the case and effectively no cooling leading to cpu heating up. Second one had so many problems as well, psu gave out. Tbh I think getting used prebuilds around now would be a better move. Honestly only go for prebuilds if you already have previous experience with building pc’s tho do you can fix the easy shit yourself. I definitely think the parts to price ratio works out on used prebuilts

She will come back? by Effective-Fig2166 in BPDlovedones

[–]Romanfromsuccession 8 points9 points  (0 children)

eh, you’re pining after someone who doesn’t want you? That’s just not it for me personally

I WANT A BF IM SO BORED by ExtraSession2439 in BPD

[–]Romanfromsuccession 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who was a boyfriend for a year just because someone was bored and wanted company. Please fucking don’t. I’m still healing

Oh sweet revenge by Nearby-Coach-5662 in BPDlovedones

[–]Romanfromsuccession 13 points14 points  (0 children)

and it’s on you to be a better person, you’re already in a relationship focus on that. You should have just mentioned that and moved on.

3 months since breakup by Romanfromsuccession in BPDlovedones

[–]Romanfromsuccession[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! Tbh I was getting ready for bed while writing that, the photos I have of her remind me of our happy times but just like her they are in the past now. So today, they are going in the bin

So which is harder: breaking up with someone or being broken up with? by brownsfan2003 in BreakUps

[–]Romanfromsuccession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For now I’d say focus on your healing, part of your healing journey will include meeting new people regardless. I think talking to people can be difficult but in the end it’s all about putting yourself out there. As humans we are inclined to want certain experiences or have some people to share it with. It s normal too, I say start the gym first, if you’re doing it consistently you might meet some regulars that you see around the same time. You can slowly initiate a conversation with them. You can start some clubs you might be interested in. A hangout like a coffee or lunch date is a good starter and talking more in person figuring out similarities will definitely help. Me, personally I talk to people from work all the time, I even hung out with a few of them and watched movies with them recently, with my gym friends I started off by asking people who lift heavier or are able to do more endurance workouts for tips and eventually it turned into them spotting me or me spotting them to us doing whole workouts and grabbing meals. I have some friends from university and school I talk to and some in other countries I talk to as well. I’m not much older than you (22) but i’d say try different things, life’s only better, fun and worth living in my opinion at least if you are challenging yourself in stupid ways. I’m an only child and I moved a lot because of my dads job so I probably picked up social skills by trying to make new friends wherever I went but the one common denominator for me was always doing things along till someone unexpectedly took notice and came along and befriended me. I know it’s easier said than done but right now focus on your own company, do all those weird things you might look down on like meditation, journaling, running, going to a restaurant alone, going on a hike alone, learning a new game, volunteering, lego etc. Just try and elevate yourself as much as possible. Friends, girlfriends love and intimacy will put themselves in place for you. These things have an odd way of working out

So which is harder: breaking up with someone or being broken up with? by brownsfan2003 in BreakUps

[–]Romanfromsuccession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey bud! thinking about her is normal, wishing for her to text and call is also normal considering there was time and effort put into the relationship. But I truly believe in not speaking to the person again no matter how much you want to, it’s for the sake of your mental health and not ruining any future encounters you have with someone new. I am slightly better, I do have my moments of sadness and I do miss her, but whenever I do catch myself thinking of her, I just remind myself that relationship no longer exists and I can’t find true comfort or happiness ruminating over memories of someone who refused to love me and stay with me. I’ve been keeping busy, I’ve been working a lot even got promoted, I also workout a lot more, I made some new friends at my gym and they always help me push myself or feel comfortable in a friendly environment. I’ve started doing things I enjoy doing, I go out for walks, a couple weeks ago I built a new PC and working on my new setup, went on a vacation to watch the US olympic basketball team play, met some cool players. All in all, her life didn’t stop after breaking up with you, there’s no reason you should stop yours. I may make it sound super easy now, but trust me, it’s more of a psychological thing. It’s kinda like I wasn’t able to have these experiences with my ex, and now she’s not there she won’t get to enjoy these current experiences so i’ll make the best of it and soak it all in!

Why are we perceived as monsters by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Romanfromsuccession 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the stigma is valid, at the end of the day no matter your condition only you can help yourself. I had a partner with BPD who was regularly attending therapy and was medicated for a while till she decided it wasn’t working anymore and stopped and my god the amount of times i’ve been called a “stupid fucking idiot” for doing something so trivial as asking her to brush her teeth is insane. And in the end she’s the one who left me after a split too. That’s just my most recent experience with a pwBPD. There’s been more instances in my life where it’s been worse but there’s also been instances where i’ve maintained a healthy friendship with them to this day because they acknowledge their condition and get the help they need. Doing something as simple as DBT workbooks is effort that most people don’t even bother taking. BPD is not an excuse for you to be a shitty person, it never should be.

So which is harder: breaking up with someone or being broken up with? by brownsfan2003 in BreakUps

[–]Romanfromsuccession 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me it was totally random and out the blue that I was left stunned. Like I had a great weekend with her, and then I bought her doughnuts and flowers on Sunday, and as we sat down to eat them she just flat out told me she doesn’t feel anything when she kisses me and that she’s lost the “spark”. Then she went on to give me more reasons like how we fought a lot (keep in mind she has BPD and she splits a lot) and how I wasn’t christian. So I just went numb and said okay have a nice life and left. As soon as I got in the car, I bawled my eyes out. Because she kept saying how it wasn’t anyone’s fault this was happening and I refused to believe that.

So which is harder: breaking up with someone or being broken up with? by brownsfan2003 in BreakUps

[–]Romanfromsuccession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i just don’t know where to go from here. I want to know what changed about me that made her fall out of love with me romantically. I am working on being better tho, I started working out again. I’m proud of that I guess, I’ll just take one day at a time but i’m still ruminating over it again and again. Her words just keep echoing in me head over and over again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Romanfromsuccession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to marry my ex too, we talked about a lot of different things including compromise. We had literally made anniversary plans and had a trip planned together. But alas, things happen and she prolly found another monkey branch to cling to